Stockholm Syndrome
Yo La Tengo Lyrics


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What's the matter, why don't you answer
What's the matter with me
Cause it's so hard to be
Free and easy, we'll disappear completely
Hardly as I've known it's glad

You're heart is broken, and the doors are open
As you're hoping to be
There's brighter places to see
Hands need warning, early in the morning
Hardly as I've known a surprise

No, don't warn me
I know it's wrong, but I swear it won't take long
And I know, you know,
It makes me sigh; I do believe in love

Another season, but the same old feelings
Another reason could be




I'm tired of aching, summer's what you make it
But I'll believe what I want to believe

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Yo La Tengo's "Stockholm Syndrome" are ambiguous in their meaning but they reveal a lot about the emotional struggles of a protagonist who is grappling with questions of love, freedom, and identity. The opening line "What's the matter, why don't you answer?" signals a sense of unease and disconnect between the singer and their lover. They feel neglected and unheard, and wonder why they are struggling to communicate effectively with the other person. However, the second line "What's the matter with me?" shows that the singer also blames themselves for the lack of connection. They are unsure if the problem is with them, or with their lover, or with the nature of love itself.


The chorus is an evocative depiction of the singer's desire to escape the shackles of this confusing relationship and find a sense of clarity and peace. The lines "Cause it's so hard to be / Free and easy, we'll disappear completely" suggest that the singer is tired of the emotional labor required to maintain this relationship, and longs for a simpler, more carefree existence. However, they are not sure if their heart is truly broken or if they are just in a state of confusion, as evidenced by the line "No, don't warn me / I know it's wrong, but I swear it won't take long." The final lines, "Another season, but the same old feelings / Another reason could be / I'm tired of aching, summer's what you make it / But I'll believe what I want to believe" capture the sense of resignation and hopelessness that the singer feels. They are tired of feeling this way, but are also not ready to give up on the possibility of love.


Line by Line Meaning

What's the matter, why don't you answer
I am trying to communicate with you, but you are not responding.


What's the matter with me
I am questioning if I am the problem in this situation.


Cause it's so hard to be
It is difficult to exist in this state.


Free and easy, we'll disappear completely
If we are not careful, we will vanish without a trace.


Hardly as I've known it's glad
This feeling is unfamiliar and strange to me.


You're heart is broken, and the doors are open
Your heart is hurting, but you are still willing to take a chance on love.


As you're hoping to be
You have high hopes for a positive outcome.


There's brighter places to see
There is a world of possibilities waiting to be explored.


Hands need warning, early in the morning
We must be careful before taking action, especially at the start of a new day.


Hardly as I've known a surprise
I am not accustomed to being caught off guard.


No, don't warn me
I do not want to hear any warnings, as I have made up my mind.


I know it's wrong, but I swear it won't take long
I am aware that my choice may not be wise, but I am convinced it will be a brief experiment.


And I know, you know,
We are both aware of the situation.


It makes me sigh; I do believe in love
Love is a complex emotion that can evoke both positive and negative feelings.


Another season, but the same old feelings
The passage of time has not changed the way I feel.


Another reason could be
There are many factors that could contribute to this situation.


I'm tired of aching, summer's what you make it
I am tired of feeling pain, and I believe that we can create our own happiness.


But I'll believe what I want to believe
I will hold onto my beliefs, even if they are not based in reality.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: JAMES GEORGE MCNEW

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