Match & Tinder
You Blew It! Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

Don't take this the wrong way
I know you can't relate
to feelings you don't have personally
I'll take what you said
and struggle to put your shoes over mine in my head
and use it to piece together my confidence

I can hardly breathe
so I'm scanning for space
that lends asymmetry

where I'll put mind over matter
to put this matter out of my mind
'cause I shouldn't let this get to me
but I'm having trouble trying to find the right way
to say I feel less than confident

I'll put mind over matter
to put this matter out of my mind
'cause I shouldn't let this get to me




but I'm having trouble trying to find the right way
to say I feel less than confident

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of You Blew It!'s song Match & Tinder convey emotions of insecurity and doubt that arise after a relationship ends. The opening lines, "Don't take this the wrong way, I know you can't relate to feelings you don't have personally," suggest a conversation with someone who hasn't experienced the same type of heartbreak. The following lines, "I'll take what you said and struggle to put your shoes over mine in my head and use it to piece together my confidence," imply that the singer is trying to find comfort in the words of a friend, but ultimately must find their own way to regain confidence.


The chorus, "I'll put mind over matter to put this matter out of my mind, 'cause I shouldn't let this get to me but I'm having trouble trying to find the right way to say I feel less than confident," highlights the theme of battling insecurities. The singer recognizes that they should not let the situation get to them, but acknowledges difficulty in overcoming their feelings of inadequacy.


The bridge of the song, "I can hardly breathe so I'm scanning for space that lends asymmetry," suggests a need for space and distance from the situation to gain perspective. Overall, the lyrics of Match & Tinder offer a raw and honest portrayal of the aftermath of a broken heart and the challenge of finding confidence again.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't take this the wrong way
I don't want you to misunderstand what I'm about to say


I know you can't relate
I understand that you don't feel the same way as me


To feelings you don't have personally
You haven't experienced the same emotions as I have


I'll take what you said
I'll listen to what you told me


And struggle to put your shoes over mine in my head
I'll try to imagine myself in your position


And use it to piece together my confidence
I'll use your words to boost my own self-esteem


I can hardly breathe
I feel anxious and overwhelmed


So I'm scanning for space that lends asymmetry
I'm looking for a spot where I can be alone and feel at ease


Where I'll put mind over matter
I'll try to control my thoughts


To put this matter out of my mind
To not let this bother me


'Cause I shouldn't let this get to me
I know I shouldn't let this affect me


But I'm having trouble trying to find the right way
I'm struggling to express my feelings


To say I feel less than confident
To tell you that I don't feel very self-assured




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found
Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Trent Rollins

Don't take this the wrong way:
I know you can't relate 
to feelings you don't have personally.
I'll take what you said 
and struggle to put your shoes over mine in my head 
and use it to piece together my confidence.

I can hardly breathe, 
so I'm scanning for space 
that lends asymmetry 

where I'll put mind over matter 
to put this matter out of my mind.
'cause I shouldn't let this get to me, 
but I'm having trouble trying to find the right way 
to say I feel less than confident.

I'll put mind over matter 
to put this matter out of my mind.
'cause I shouldn't let this get to me, 
but I'm having trouble trying to find the right way 
to say I feel less than confident.



All comments from YouTube:

dalton puffer

the first opening lyrics, the way he sings it, its fucking awesome. i don't know why but it sounds so great.

Suddenly_Quinn

Still smashing my head off the steering wheel from head banging so hard

Satyen Dhamankar

glad you didnt take it the wrong way

W Ill

They played this song at my funeral and everybody started twerking

-',arlet,'-

Damn sorry bestie:")

Nayara

Conheci essa música em uma playlist emo do Spotify em 2018 e ouço até hoje. Perfeição

generic username 420

Miojo only speak English but i agree

Robert Martis

Damn, You Blew it! really fucking surprised me. This album is incredible.

Trent Rollins

Don't take this the wrong way:
I know you can't relate 
to feelings you don't have personally.
I'll take what you said 
and struggle to put your shoes over mine in my head 
and use it to piece together my confidence.

I can hardly breathe, 
so I'm scanning for space 
that lends asymmetry 

where I'll put mind over matter 
to put this matter out of my mind.
'cause I shouldn't let this get to me, 
but I'm having trouble trying to find the right way 
to say I feel less than confident.

I'll put mind over matter 
to put this matter out of my mind.
'cause I shouldn't let this get to me, 
but I'm having trouble trying to find the right way 
to say I feel less than confident.

Mar Arata

Trent Rollins thank u omg ❤️

More Comments

More Versions