Myself
Zach Diamond Lyrics


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Girl, I can′t love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I′m someone else
Girl, I can't love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I′m someone else

How can I love somebody else
When I don′t even love myself?
Every day I'm on the edge
Always looking for help like
"Why do I feel like it′s not even worth it?"
The closer that you get to someone
The more they can hurt you
Now I'm trying to find my purpose
But I′m still searching
And I can't lie, on the inside I′m hurting
Every day feels the same
When am I going to learn?
Played with fire for so long
No wonder I'm getting burned
No wonder I'm feeling hurt
My past is coming at me
And then I wonder why
I′m not actually happy
Even when I feel happy
It′s like something is missing
There's still this emptiness I feel
Everything feels different, but
I put my life inside every word
We only accept the love that we think we deserve
Looking up to God
Searching for help
But how can I love you
When I don′t even love myself?

Girl, I can't love you if I don′t love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else
Girl, I can′t love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else

Love is putting happiness over your own
But you should still be happy when you′re alone
You got to heal from your past
And mentally take care
Bringing trauma to your next relationship is unfair
The thing about trauma
No matter how deep you bury it
It will find a way to come back in your life
If you carry it
So make sure you spend time loving yourself
′Cause in the future
It'll be hard to love somebody else
Call me crazy, well at least you′re calling
I fell for you, I hate it when I'm falling
I need consistency
Someone to build with me
The door is locked, I hope I find the missing key
Hope I can find my peace
Hope I can feel complete
I know a lot
But I still don′t even love me
Looking up to God
Searching for help
But how can I love you
When I don't even love myself?

Girl, I can′t love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else




Girl, I can′t love you if I don′t love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else

Overall Meaning

Zach Diamond's song "Myself" explores the struggle of loving someone else when one does not love themselves. The singer acknowledges that he wakes up every day wishing he could be someone else and that he cannot fully love his partner until he loves himself. The lyrics also suggest that the singer has been hurt in the past and struggles with finding his purpose. The singer feels a sense of emptiness, even during moments of happiness, and looks to God for guidance and healing.


The chorus of the song highlights the central theme: "Girl, I can't love you if I don't love myself. Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else." The repeated phrase emphasizes the idea that the singer's lack of self-love prevents him from fully loving someone else. The singer also recognizes that healing from past trauma is necessary to avoid bringing it into future relationships and causing harm.


The song portrays the struggle of self-love and its impact on relationships. It also emphasizes the importance of personal growth and healing before giving love to someone else. Through this song, Zach Diamond encourages listeners to take the time to love themselves and heal from their past to build healthy relationships in the future.


Line by Line Meaning

Girl, I can′t love you if I don't love myself
The singer cannot love the girl he is addressing if he does not have love and care for himself


Each day I wake up wish I′m someone else
The singer is unhappy with his present self and wishes he could be someone else daily


How can I love somebody else When I don′t even love myself?
The singer questions how he can offer love to someone else when he does not have self-love


Every day I'm on the edge Always looking for help like "Why do I feel like it′s not even worth it?"
The artist expresses his constant unsettled feeling and belief that life might not be worth it.


The closer that you get to someone The more they can hurt you Now I'm trying to find my purpose But I′m still searching And I can't lie, on the inside I′m hurting
The closer you get to someone, the more vulnerable you become, which can lead to more pain. The artist is currently searching for his purpose but acknowledges that he is hurting inside.


Every day feels the same When am I going to learn? Played with fire for so long No wonder I'm getting burned No wonder I'm feeling hurt
The singer's days seem unchanging, and he wonders when he will learn from his mistakes. He admits to playing with fire for so long that it is understandable he is getting burned and hurting.


My past is coming at me And then I wonder why I′m not actually happy Even when I feel happy It′s like something is missing There's still this emptiness I feel
The singer's past is catching up to him, which poses barriers to his present happiness. He often feels an emptiness even when he thinks he is happy, indicating something is still missing.


Everything feels different, but I put my life inside every word We only accept the love that we think we deserve
The artist feels that everything around him is different, but he continues to pour his thoughts into his music. He believes that we only accept the kind of love that we think we deserve.


Looking up to God Searching for help But how can I love you When I don′t even love myself?
The artist seeks help from God while acknowledging he cannot love the girl he is addressing when he does not love himself.


Love is putting happiness over your own But you should still be happy when you′re alone You got to heal from your past And mentally take care Bringing trauma to your next relationship is unfair
The artist believes that love consists of prioritizing the happiness of your partner over your own, but you should still be happy when alone. He also stresses the importance of healing from your past and taking care of your mental state to avoid bringing trauma into future relationships.


The thing about trauma No matter how deep you bury it It will find a way to come back in your life If you carry it So make sure you spend time loving yourself ′Cause in the future It'll be hard to love somebody else
The singer warns that trauma can resurface in your life no matter how deeply you bury it, but you carry it. Therefore, it is vital to devote time to loving yourself since it makes it more challenging to love somebody else in the future otherwise.


Call me crazy, well at least you′re calling I fell for you, I hate it when I'm falling I need consistency Someone to build with me The door is locked, I hope I find the missing key Hope I can find my peace Hope I can feel complete
The artist craves consistency and desires to build with someone who can match his effort. He feels like the door to happiness is locked, and he hopes he can find the missing key to find peace and completeness.


I know a lot But I still don′t even love me Looking up to God Searching for help But how can I love you When I don't even love myself?
The singer believes he knows a lot, but he still does not love himself. He continues to seek help from God but realizes he cannot love the girl he is addressing when he does not love himself.


Girl, I can′t love you if I don't love myself Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else Girl, I can′t love you if I don't love myself Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else
The singer reiterates that he cannot offer love to the girl he is addressing or anyone else if he does not have self-love. He wakes up daily wishing he could be someone else instead of himself.




Writer(s): Zach Hart

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@Kelve3z

Girl, I can't love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else
Girl, I can't love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else

[Verse 1]
How can I love somebody else
When I don't even love myself?
Every day I'm on the edge
Always looking for help like
"Why do I feel like it's not even worth it?"
The closer that you get to someone
The more they can hurt you
Now I'm trying to find my purpose
But I'm still searching
And I can't lie, on the inside I'm hurting
Every day feels the same
When am I going to learn?
Played with fire for so long
No wonder I'm getting burned
No wonder I'm feeling hurt
My past is coming at me
And then I wonder why
I'm not actually happy
Even when I feel happy
It's like something is missing
There's still this emptiness I feel
Everything feels different, but
I put my life inside every word
We only accept the love that we think we deserve
Looking up to God
Searching for help
But how can I love you
When I don't even love myself?


[Hook]
Girl, I can't love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else
Girl, I can't love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else

[Verse 2]
Love is putting happiness over your own
But you should still be happy when you're alone
You got to heal from your past
And mentally take care
Bringing trauma to your next relationship is unfair
The thing about trauma
No matter how deep you bury it
It will find a way to come back in your life
If you carry it
So make sure you spend time loving yourself
'Cause in the future
It'll be hard to love somebody else
Call me crazy, well at least you're calling
I fell for you, I hate it when I'm falling
I need consistency
Someone to build with me
The door is locked, I hope I find the missing key
Hope I can find my peace
Hope I can feel complete
I know a lot
But I still don't even love me
Looking up to God
Searching for help
But how can I love you
When I don't even love myself?

[Hook]
Girl, I can't love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else
Girl, I can't love you if I don't love myself
Each day I wake up wish I'm someone else



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@Inviictus

Mad underrated🔥

@aidanrayford202

No cap💯💯

@ibraa4239

fr its so good. ima put all my friends on this fire shit

@awlexc_

No 🧢

@derbystar-max3691

No 🧢

@razrtitanium5828

Fr tho

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@nicholasschauf4393

This song hits different when you have someone on your mind all the time.

@Toxicgaming-ip7dm

I can relate

@the-aryan-stha

TRUE

@keithreniva5079

I don't have someone on my mind but I can still feel the tiny particles on my heart...

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