So Long
Zooey Deschanel Lyrics


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It's not complicated but very hard to grasp
But every time I see you I laugh
I won't get too sappy, I've had no epiphany
I just enjoy your company

You test my nerves, it makes me stronger
So can you bother me a little bit longer?
Hate to say goodbye, goodbye
Hate to see the end, the end
'Cause it's been so long since I've made a friend

Hate to say goodbye, goodbye
Hate to see the end, the end
'Cause it's been so long since I've made a friend like you

Well, I could dot the I's and you could cross the T's
'Cause letters alone are lonely
Well, I could be the blossom and you could be the bee
And then I could call you honey

You test my nerves, it makes me stronger
So can you bother me a little bit longer?

Hate to say goodbye, goodbye
Hate to see the end, the end
'Cause it's been so long since I've made a friend

Hate to say goodbye, goodbye
Hate to see the end, the end
'Cause it's been so long since I've made a friend like you

Some like to be alone, independent and on their own
All alone, I guess they're free but not me, not me

Hate to say goodbye, goodbye
Hate to see the end, the end
'Cause it's been so long since I've made a friend

Hate to say goodbye, goodbye
Hate to see the end, the end
'Cause it's been so long since I've made a friend like you

Hate to say goodbye, goodbye
Hate to see the end, the end
'Cause it's been so long since I've made a friend like you

Yes, it's been so long since I've made a friend like you




Yes, it's been so long since I've made a friend like you
Yes, it's been so long since I've made a friend like you

Overall Meaning

In Zooey Deschanel's song "So Long", she sings about a friendship that she values deeply. The song is about the importance of human connection and how it can be difficult to find true friends. The singer describes how this friendship is not complicated and enjoyable to be around, which may suggest that it is a platonic relationship. The lyrics "I won't get too sappy, I've had no epiphany, I just enjoy your company" emphasizes that there is no romantic interest, but she simply appreciates the presence of this friend.


Throughout the song, the singer admits that her friend's behavior sometimes bothers her but ultimately makes her stronger. This could suggest that they challenge each other in different ways, but it ultimately strengthens their bond. The chorus "hate to say goodbye, goodbye, hate to see the end, the end 'cause it's been so long since I've made a friend" emphasizes the rarity of finding a true friend and how devastating it would be to lose this unique connection. The song concludes with "it's been so long since I've made a friend like you," highlighting how significant this friend is to her.


Overall, the song "So Long" is an ode to a cherished friendship, emphasizing that human connection is essential and how challenging it can be to find authentic relationships in our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

It's not complicated but very hard to grasp
Even though it's simple, it's difficult to understand


But every time I see you I laugh
Your presence brings me joy and happiness


I won't get too sappy, I've had no epiphany
I'm not going to get too emotional; I haven't had a sudden realization


I just enjoy your company
I like spending time with you


You test my nerves, it makes me stronger
I find your challenges to be beneficial and help me grow


So can you bother me a little bit longer?
Can you continue to push me and make me stronger?


Hate to say goodbye, goodbye
I really don't want to leave


Hate to see the end, the end
Don't want this to be the end


'Cause it's been so long since I've made a friend
It's been a while since I've connected with someone like this


Well, I could dot the I's and you could cross the T's
We could work together to get the details right


'Cause letters alone are lonely
Writing letters by oneself can be lonely


Well, I could be the blossom and you could be the bee
We could work together like a flower and a bee do


And then I could call you honey
I could call you a term of endearment


Some like to be alone, independent and on their own
Some people like being by themselves


All alone, I guess they're free but not me, not me
Being alone isn't freedom for me


Yes, it's been so long since I've made a friend like you
I haven't connected with someone like you in a while




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: ZOOEY CLARE DESCHANEL

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