Real Life
banzai florist Lyrics


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I'm burning bridges
The fire so goddamn hot
Got birds in my cage
To love on when I need pot

How you been
How am I
Oh I've been doing fine
If your fine implies that I've been doing bad

Did I turn out just like my dad

And the thing about real life
It isn't really real at all
I love the feeling that I get
When I can barely feel
When your skin is crawling on
Don't think that anyone will care
I want to spend the time I have with you
(With you)
Am I invited to the party
I can bring a bottle of sympathy to wash it all down
Am I a member of society?
I don't really want to be, but I can play along
Am I invited to the party?

I can bring a bottle of sympathy to wash it all down
Am I a member of society?
I don't really want to be, but I can play along

How you been
How am I
Oh I've been doing fine
If your fine implies that I've been doing bad




Did I turn out just like my dad
Did I turn out just like my dad

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Banzai Florist's song "Real Life" depict the struggle of burning bridges and its consequences. The singer is in a state of chaos and disillusionment as they attempt to cope with their problems by turning to drugs and seeking validation from others. The first two lines paint a vivid picture of the intensity of the singer's emotions, as they are so consumed by their feelings that it feels like a fire burning down bridges. The reference to having "birds in my cage" could be interpreted as the singer having love interests or friends to turn to when they need comfort, possibly hinting at the idea of using people for their own benefit.


The chorus is a reflection on the harsh reality of life, how everything is not as it seems, and how the singer seeks comfort in the feeling of numbness. The line "When your skin is crawling on" suggests that the singer is experiencing intense anxiety or paranoia. However, they believe that no one around them will care enough to help them through this difficult time.


The latter half of the song portrays a sense of longing for companionship and a place in society. Asking whether they are "invited to the party" could be interpreted as the singer's desire to be included and accepted, while the line "Am I a member of society? I don't really want to be" hints at the singer's internal conflict between fitting in and their own personal beliefs.


Overall, "Real Life" presents a bleak picture of the society we live in, and the mental struggles that come with living in this world.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm burning bridges
I'm severing connections with people and things in my life


The fire so goddamn hot
The emotional intensity of this decision is really high


Got birds in my cage
I have things in my life that provide comfort and distraction from my problems


To love on when I need pot
To turn to and rely on when I need to escape reality through substance use


How you been
Asking about the other person's well-being


How am I
Responding and asking how the person perceives my current state


Oh I've been doing fine
Putting up a front and pretending everything is okay


If your fine implies that I've been doing bad
Clarifying that the other person's expectations of what 'fine' means may not align with my true situation


Did I turn out just like my dad
Reflecting on whether I've inherited the same negative traits or patterns as my father


And the thing about real life
Commenting on the nature of reality and its complexities


It isn't really real at all
Suggesting that what we perceive as 'real life' is subjective and not a fixed truth


I love the feeling that I get
Expressing the pleasure derived from a certain experience


When I can barely feel
Describing a preference for detachment or numbness as a coping mechanism


When your skin is crawling on
Alluding to the physical sensation of discomfort or uneasiness


Don't think that anyone will care
Feeling unimportant or neglected by others


I want to spend the time I have with you
Expressing a desire to connect and bond with someone


(With you)
Clarifying who specifically I want to spend time with


Am I invited to the party
Inquiring about whether I'm included in a social event or group


I can bring a bottle of sympathy to wash it all down
Offering to contribute emotional support or comfort to others in the group


Am I a member of society?
Questioning one's place and role in society


I don't really want to be, but I can play along
Acknowledging reluctance to conform to societal norms, but recognizing the necessity to do so


Did I turn out just like my dad
Repeating the introspective question from earlier, implying ongoing personal reflection




Writer(s): Harrison W Glaeser

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jack 'o lantern

i live near this guy, he's really nice. he was my piano teacher for a bit, great guy, very nice, outgoing. always been a huge fan of his fashion and go-to vibe.

Mr Nobody

of who?
banzai florist
or the one taht uplouded the video

jack 'o lantern

@Mr Nobody banzai florist

Not Olive

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jack 'o lantern

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Reese Animates

I cant begin to describe the way this song makes me feel. It's like you wrapped up everything I felt, every key experience of my life, and gave it to me in an art form, for me to listen to in the most beautiful way.

Paddos64

The small amount of us that are here have the best taste in music

Yumiko Lam

Its real interesting, its like 3 types of music in a whole song

Gina McLough

Such a great song, the vibe is amazing ๐Ÿ’ž

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