21 Days
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My mind wanders as I'm trying not to fall in love with you
'Cause every time I awake I ponder on my mistakes of
What I said, it is always my esteem that I sure lose
Playing those stupid games as I always end up chasing you

I can't help myself anymore
Rehearsing my thoughts as I'm too scared to come to your door
I pushed it all aside just to stand next to you
But now you won't talk to me for something that I didn't do

It's not gonna work

And I'm trying not to think of you
I'm all confused as I think of the things that I would do




I'm all shook up as I get all nervous inside
My emotions are something that I will always hide

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to blink-182's song "21 Days" explore the complexities of trying not to fall in love with someone while also grappling with feelings of insecurity and fear of rejection. The opening lines suggest a struggle to maintain emotional distance despite the singer's growing attraction to the object of their affection. The repetition of "my mistakes" and "my esteem that I sure lose" highlights the singer's self-doubt and tendency to second-guess themselves in romantic situations. The line "Playing those stupid games as I always end up chasing you" implies a pattern of behavior in which the singer becomes fixated on winning the other person's attention, even at the cost of their own emotional well-being.


The second verse takes a more introspective turn, with the singer acknowledging their fear of rejection and their efforts to rehearse their thoughts in anticipation of interacting with the person they desire. The line "But now you won't talk to me for something that I didn't do" suggests that the singer may have been unfairly accused of wrongdoing or misunderstood by the other person, adding another layer of complexity to their emotional turmoil. Ultimately, the song's refrain "It's not gonna work" conveys resignation and defeat, as the singer reluctantly acknowledges that their feelings may not be reciprocated and the relationship may not come to fruition.


Line by Line Meaning

My mind wanders as I'm trying not to fall in love with you
I'm struggling to keep my thoughts from you, fighting the urge to fall in love.


'Cause every time I awake I ponder on my mistakes of
Every time I wake up, I think about the mistakes I made while in your presence.


What I said, it is always my esteem that I sure lose
Whenever I open my mouth, I lose confidence and self-esteem, which hurts me a lot.


Playing those stupid games as I always end up chasing you
Engaging in childish games made me seek your attention more.


I can't help myself anymore
I'm consumed by my feelings, and I can't control them.


Rehearsing my thoughts as I'm too scared to come to your door
I am rehearsing what to say in my mind because I'm too afraid to express myself to you.


I pushed it all aside just to stand next to you
I ignored other aspects of my life just to be near you, but you don't seem to appreciate it.


But now you won't talk to me for something that I didn't do
You're not speaking to me, and I don't even know what I did to offend you.


It's not gonna work
This relationship has no future, despite how much I might want it to.


And I'm trying not to think of you
I'm attempting to get you out of my head.


I'm all confused as I think of the things that I would do
I'm getting mixed feelings as I entertain thoughts of how our relationship could have been.


I'm all shook up as I get all nervous inside
I'm anxious, unsure and nervous every time I see you.


My emotions are something that I will always hide
I will never express my true feelings to avoid being judged or rejected.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Scott Raynor, Mark Hoppus, Thomas DeLonge

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@Diamond_VT

"21 Days"

My mind wanders as I'm trying not to fall in love with you
'Cause every time I wake I ponder on my mistakes of
What I said, it is always my esteem that I sure lose
Playing those stupid games as I always end up chasing you

[Chorus:]
I can't help myself anymore
Rehearsing my thoughts as I'm too scared to come to your door
I pushed it all aside just to stand next to you
Now you won't talk to me for something that I didn't do
It's not going to work

And I'm trying not to think of you
I'm all confused as I think of the things that I would do
I'm all shook up as I get all nervous inside
My emotions are something that I will always hide



All comments from YouTube:

@ASRforeverASR

One of the best Blink songs and rejected by themselves. The most underrated Blink song. A lost masterpiece.

@tyg7002

exactly bro

@smileprettymusic

@@ShaunMcSauce what song were they in the studio together for?

@rickyjbeau

I think this is one of their best written songs, certainly has so much potential. Just feel it was written too early. Travis on this and Tom's self titled vocals. Fuck!

@ConsistentlyInconsistent21

@@rickyjbeau i am curious on how this would sound with Mark, Tom, and Travis. But i love this, it wouldn't be the same for me. I respect your opinion.

Edit: i concur with everything you said about it being well written

@historyofrockmusic-mostpow3826

Cause they go now for poppy soft punk and this song sounds like it was recorded by garage punk band. Their best song btw

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@rickrichardson8410

The best but most under appreciated song Blink 182 has ever made. That’s coming from a fan of 25 years that does not think even one of their songs is sub-par

@galdaneshwara

This song dude

@galdaneshwara

F***ing nostalgic

@zen9320

No kidding

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