Don't Tell Me That Its Over
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I hear the phone it rings so violently
Can't leave my room, can't breathe since she left me
I will admit I hate those things I said
Girls will always cry, guys will never admit they did

Hold on, hold on, hold on

Don't tell me that it's over
I'm not used to this temptation
And when you came running back
There is no use for explanation
I think these things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Most girls most do mean trouble, because they are rarely honest

What's with the jokes, all the routines they play
Screw with my head, never cave till they get their way
Guys like to run, chicks like to yell you see
Guys hate to fight, girls think its therapy

Hold on, hold on, hold on

Don't tell me that it's over,
I'm not used to this temptation
And when you came running back,
There is no use for explanation
I think these things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Most girls most do mean trouble, because they are rarely honest

Hold on, hold on, hold on

Don't tell me that it's over
I'm not used to this temptation
And when you came running back
There is no use for explanation
I think these things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Most girls most do mean trouble, because they are rarely honest

Don't tell me that it's over
I'm not used to this temptation
And when you came running back
There is no use for explanation
I think these things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Most girls most do mean trouble, because they are rarely honest




Don't tell me that it's over
I'm not used to temptation

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Blink-182's song "Don't Tell Me It's Over" are a commentary on heterosexual relationships and gender norms. The opening lines of the song, "I hear the phone it rings so violently / Can't leave my room, can't breathe since she left me," establish a sense of desperation and helplessness on the part of the singer. He is unable to function without the presence of his female partner, who has apparently left him. The singer goes on to admit that he "hate[s] those things [he] said," suggesting that the breakup was the result of his own mistakes.


The second verse of the song begins with the line "What's with the jokes, all the routines they play," which implies that the female partner in this relationship is playing games with the singer's emotions. The singer is frustrated by the fact that women seem to enjoy "screwing with [his] head" and never backing down until they get their way. The song then turns to a discussion of gender norms, suggesting that men "like to run" and women "like to yell," and that women view fighting as "therapy."


The chorus of the song, which is repeated twice, serves as a plea for the female partner not to break up with the singer. He states that he is "not used to this temptation," implying that he cannot resist the allure of his partner, and that there is "no use for explanation" if she were to come back to him. However, the singer also acknowledges that relationships are often troubled, and that women are not always honest.


Overall, the song presents a complex view of heterosexual relationships, reflecting the frustrations and inherent power imbalances that can exist within them. It highlights how gender norms and societal expectations can create tension and misunderstanding between men and women.


Line by Line Meaning

I hear the phone it rings so violently
The phone's sudden, insistent clanging jolts me from my numb and lonely state.


Can't leave my room, can't breathe since she left me
My devastation over my breakup is so complete that I'm paralyzed and can't even bring myself to leave my room or take a breath without feeling the weight of my loss.


I will admit I hate those things I said
While I may have spoken hurtful words in the heat of the moment during our fights, I now regret every one of them and am willing to acknowledge that.


Girls will always cry, guys will never admit they did
In my experience, girls are more likely to express their emotions through tears, while guys are less likely to admit to feeling emotional or admitting they have cried before.


Don't tell me that it's over
The thought of losing her completely is too daunting and painful to even consider, so please don't tell me it's over.


I'm not used to this temptation
The temptation to give in to the possibility of getting back together with her is overwhelming and new for me, and I'm not sure how to handle it.


And when you came running back
When you returned to my life, it felt like a sign of hope and a chance to set things right.


There is no use for explanation
I don't need an explanation for why you left or why you've come back; all that matters to me is that you're here now.


I think these things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Despite all my experience and knowledge of the ups and downs of relationships, I still find myself struggling with hopefulness and optimism even in the face of possible heartbreak.


Most girls most do mean trouble, because they are rarely honest
Based on my experiences, I've come to believe that most girls are troublemakers and are not very honest.


What's with the jokes, all the routines they play
I'm confused by the mind games and manipulations that girls often play, such as cracking jokes or repeating certain behaviors.


Screw with my head, never cave till they get their way
Girls often mess with my head and refuse to give in until they get what they want.


Guys like to run, chicks like to yell you see
In my observation, guys tend to avoid confrontation and run away from problems, while girls are more inclined to express themselves through yelling and raising their voices.


Guys hate to fight, girls think its therapy
I've noticed that guys generally dislike conflict and fighting, while girls sometimes seem to find it cathartic and helpful in resolving issues.


Hold on, hold on, hold on
The repetition of this phrase serves as a plea to hold onto hope and not give up in the face of uncertainty and pain.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MARK HOPPUS, TOM DELONGE, TRAVIS BARKER

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@klemdas

Lyrics:
I hear the phone it rings so violently
Can't leave my room, can't breathe since she left me
I will admit, I hate those things I said
Girls always cry, guys will never admit they did


Hold on, hold on
Hold on, hold on


Don't tell me that it's over, I'm not used to this temptation
And when you come back running there's no use for explanation
I think things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Most girls, most do mean trouble because they are rarely honest

What's with the jokes, all the routines they play
Screw with my head, never cave till they get their way
Guy like to run, chicks love to yell, you see
Guys hate to fight, grils think it's therapy

Hold on, hold on
Hold on, hold on



Don't tell me that it's over, I'm not used to this temptation
And when you come back running there's no use for explanation
I think things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Most girls, most do mean trouble because they are rarely honest


Hold on, hold on
Hold on, hold on



Don't tell me that it's over, I'm not used to this temptation
And when you come back running there's no use for explanation
I think things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Most girls, most do mean trouble because they are rarely honest

Don't tell me that it's over, I'm not used to this temptation
And when you come back running there's no use for explanation
I think things are too hopeful, even with my expert knowledge
Most girls, most do mean trouble because they are rarely honest

Don't tell me that it's over, I'm not used to this temptation



All comments from YouTube:

@JollieUT

The best blink songs are the ones no one knows about

@haamishmcgarry

i know about it

@jordaniverson5817

YES! Can’t agree more.

@punkrockboy860

Agreed

@samp5395

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@imkool51391

Like wasting time...

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@brog339

To this day, I cannot believe that this was only a bonus track

@Gretev1

"Don't Tell Me It's Over", "Time To Break Up" and "What Went Wrong Not" not only should have been official tracks on the album but they could all easily have been released as singles.

@SonikJesus

Yup, Tom just shits out good songs like nothing and uses them as throw away songs

@OSUfan1231

jazzblaster or maybe someone might be encouraged to buy the album once or twice more if they know they can get some banger bonus tracks based on which version of the album they have :)

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