Pathetic
blink-182 Lyrics


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I know I'm pathetic, I knew when she said it
A loser, a bum's what she called me when I drove her home
There's no more waiting and sure no more wasting
I've done all I can but she still wants to be left alone

You've got, you've got, you've got to help me out
And I'll try not to argue
No one, no one, no one likes a dropout
Mistakes are hard to undo

Don't pull me down, this is where I belong
I think I'm different but I'm the same and I'm wrong
Don't pull me down, this is where I belong
I think I'm different, this is where I belong

I think it's disgusting, believing and trusting
If I gave a fuck there would be nothing for me to prove
Although it's amusing it's slightly confusing
I've done all I can but her ego is still hard to move

You've got, you've got, you've got to help me out
And I'll try not to argue
No one, no one, no one likes a dropout
Mistakes are hard to undo

Don't pull me down, this is where I belong
I think I'm different but I'm the same and I'm wrong
Don't pull me down, this is where I belong
I think I'm different, but this is where I belong





Don't pull me down, this is where I belong
I think I'm different, this is where I belong

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of blink-182's "Pathetic" chronicle the experiences of a person who is struggling with the aftermath of a failed relationship. The song begins with the singer acknowledging his own shortcomings, accepting the term "pathetic" as an accurate descriptor. He then reflects on being called a "loser" and a "bum" by his former partner when he drove her home. Despite his efforts to win her back, she remains indifferent, telling him to leave her alone.


The chorus pleads for help ("you got, you got, you got to help me out"). However, the singer tries to avoid an argument in the process. He acknowledges that "no one likes a drop-out" and mistakes are challenging to undo. He knows his position is bleak and feels out of place in the world, yet he belongs there ("Don't pull me down, this is where I belong").


In the second verse, the singer reflects on the act of believing and trusting. He seems jaded, and he no longer cares about proving himself to anyone. The situation amuses him, but he remains confused about the ego of his former partner, which seems challenging to move. In the end, the chorus repeats, emphasizing the singer's plea for help, yet he remains true to himself ("Don't pull me down, this is where I belong").


Line by Line Meaning

I know I'm pathetic I knew when she said it
I am aware of my worthlessness and I accepted it when she mentioned it


A loser a bum's what she called me when I drove her home
She humiliated me by calling me a failure and worthless while I drove her home


There's no more waiting and sure no more wasting
I have made every possible effort to fix things but there's no use waiting or wasting anymore


I've done all I can but she still wants to be left alone
I have tried my best to fix this but she still wants to be left alone


You got, you got, you got to help me out
I need your assistance to get out of this situation


And I'll try not to argue
I promise not to argue with you


No one, no one, no one likes a drop-out
Nobody admires or respects a person who gives up


Mistakes are hard to undo
It's difficult to reverse the mistakes that I've made


Don't pull me down this is where I belong
I belong in this situation, please don't bring me down from it


I think I'm different but I'm the same and I'm wrong
I believed I was unique, but in reality, I am just like everyone else and I was mistaken


I think it's disgusting believing and trusting
I find it repulsive to believe and trust in others


If I gave a fuck there would be nothing for me to prove
If I cared enough, I wouldn't feel the need to prove myself


Although it's amusing It's slightly confusing
It's entertaining but also a bit perplexing


I've done all I can but her ego is still hard to move
I've done everything I can to fix things, but her ego still prevents reconciliation




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Mark Hoppus, Scott Raynor, Tom DeLonge

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