Happy Birthday
dandelion hands Lyrics


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well congratulations
you made it one more year
but the only thing that's grown
is the list of all your fears
spent the whole year unhappy
never made your mom proud
dropped school like its one of your problems
spent all your time chasing clouds

yeah congratulations
didn't spend a day clean
tried to burn down the whole town
with matches and gasoline
can't even look at your family
spend your whole life trapped in bed
get bullied by the voices in your head
that wish that you were dead

happy birthday
happy birthday to me

your lack of motivation
your life is such a mess
who are we trying to fool
kid, you're worthless
so don't even bother
run your face under the sink
climb into the oven
then go out for a drink

oh congratulations
are you happy where you are
eat more pills and sleep it off
that will get rid of your scars
but don't even worry
we can still have fun
its not a suicide note its an apology
with repercussions





happy birthday

Overall Meaning

The song "Happy Birthday" by Dandelion Hands is a poignant exploration of the pressures, anxieties, and emotional struggles that can plague individuals as they face a new year of life. The lyrics are brutally honest and at times, almost uncomfortable to listen to. The song's tone is deeply melancholic and introspective, reflecting on the weight of the past year and the sense of failure and disappointment that seems to have emerged from it.


The opening verse of the song acknowledges the traditional well-wishes that come with a birthday celebration, but quickly veers into a darker examination of the reality of the individual's life. Rather than celebrating accomplishments or growth, the individual is haunted by a growing list of fears and a pervasive sense of unhappiness. The lyrics suggest that the individual has struggled with a lack of direction, dropping out of school and chasing clouds instead of pursuing more fulfilling activities. This sense of aimlessness and failure is compounded by the individual's struggles with addiction and feelings of worthlessness.


The chorus of the song offers a bleak rendition of the traditional "Happy Birthday" refrain, emphasizing the irony and bitterness that colors the occasion. The second verse picks up on these themes of worthlessness, with the individual being called "kid" and told that they are "worthless" and should "climb into the oven". The sense of desperation and hopelessness takes on a darker tone as the individual is taunted by the "voices in your head that wish that you were dead".


Line by Line Meaning

well congratulations
sarcastic remark applauding the fact that the individual has survived another year


you made it one more year
acknowledging the fact that the individual has reached another birthday


but the only thing that's grown
highlighting that despite their age, the individual has not shown any sign of personal growth


is the list of all your fears
suggesting that the individual has more worries and apprehensions than ever before


spent the whole year unhappy
indicating that the individual has not had a positive or fulfilling year


never made your mom proud
suggesting that the individual has failed to meet expectations and has not impressed their mother


dropped school like its one of your problems
highlighting the careless attitude and lack of concern the individual has towards their education


spent all your time chasing clouds
implying that the individual has wasted their time on impractical or unrealistic pursuits


yeah congratulations
sarcastic remark similar to the first line, emphasizing how unimpressive the individual is


didn't spend a day clean
implying that the individual has a substance abuse problem and has not been sober for any length of time


tried to burn down the whole town
suggesting that the individual has engaged in reckless or harmful behavior towards others


with matches and gasoline
elaborating on the previous line, stating the specific tools that the individual has attempted to use to harm others


can't even look at your family
emphasizing the level of estrangement and emotional distance between the individual and their family


spend your whole life trapped in bed
describing the individual as someone who is lazy and lacks motivation, spending most of their day in bed


get bullied by the voices in your head
suggesting that the individual has an inner monologue or mental health issues that make them feel inferior or worthless


that wish that you were dead
emphasizing the negative and self-destructive nature of the individual's inner thoughts


happy birthday
sarcastic remark repeating the initial sentiment towards the individual on their birthday


happy birthday to me
possibly implying that the individual singing the song feels similar to the person they are describing


your lack of motivation
drawing attention once again to the individual's lack of drive or determination


your life is such a mess
emphasizing how disorganized and chaotic the individual's life appears


who are we trying to fool
questioning the sincerity or truthfulness of the individual's attempts to make improvements in their life


kid, you're worthless
bluntly stating the individual's lack of value or importance in the eyes of the singer


so don't even bother
advising the individual to not even attempt to make changes or progress in their life


run your face under the sink
suggesting the individual engage in self-harm by drowning themselves


climb into the oven
implying that the individual should commit suicide by getting into a hot oven


then go out for a drink
sarcastically suggesting that the individual should celebrate with a drink after committing suicide


oh congratulations
sarcastic remark similar to before, commenting on how little has changed


are you happy where you are
asking the individual if they feel content with their current state and life choices


eat more pills and sleep it off
advising the individual to engage in unhealthy coping mechanisms instead of confronting their problems


that will get rid of your scars
implying that the individual is using drugs or sleeping to escape emotional pain or trauma


but don't even worry
advising the individual to not stress about their problems, despite how serious they may be


we can still have fun
trying to shift the focus away from negativity and onto something more lighthearted


its not a suicide note its an apology
clarifying that the previous lines were not an actual suicide note, but rather a statement of apology towards those who may have been hurt by the individual's actions or words


with repercussions
implying that the individual's actions will have consequences, even if they are not immediate or obvious




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Comments from YouTube:

@Deltzza

I listen to this when i'm sad

@nathanbacon3

This song is special to me because my now boyfriend sent me this when I was sad one day a few months before we started dating

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