Don't Ask Me Why
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See all your sorrow
But be happy tomorrow
From the back of my mind
I was searching (and I...)

From the look
In your face
I believe
It's not too late

See where you are
When did we go that far
From the things that we said
I was wishing us dead

Turn around
To the fool
Who believed
Don't ask why

(Pillow) pretend
That I do not defend
My own love in the back
Need no question to ask

If you need
To see




The (real)
Don't ask me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to My Bloody Valentine's song Don't Ask Me Why depict a relationship that has been strained and has reached a point of no return, yet the singer still holds onto hope. The first stanza starts off by acknowledging the sorrow that has been felt in the relationship and encourages the other person to be happy tomorrow. The second line, "From the back of my mind I was searching (and I...)" suggests that the singer has been thinking and searching for a way to fix the relationship. However, it seems that their efforts have been futile as the third stanza questions when and how the relationship reached such a breaking point. The singer then goes on to express that they were "wishing us dead" and despite that, they still believe it's not too late to reconcile.


The chorus, "Turn around to the fool who believed, don't ask why," can be interpreted in a few ways. It could be the singer telling the other person not to ask why they are holding onto hope or it could be the singer acknowledging that they were foolish to believe the relationship could work. The last verse, "If you need to see the real, don't ask me," could be the singer admitting that they cannot provide the answers to what went wrong but rather the other person needs to look within themselves to find the solution.


Line by Line Meaning

See all your sorrow
I see that you are currently struggling and experiencing sadness


But be happy tomorrow
However, I hope that you will find happiness in the future


From the back of my mind
Without consciously thinking about it, I have been considering something


I was searching (and I...)
I have been looking for something, and I am still trying to find it


From the look
Judging by the expression on your face


In your face
I believe that you are feeling a certain way


I believe
I am convinced that my assessment is correct


It's not too late
It is still possible to change the situation for the better


See where you are
I am observing your current position or situation


When did we go that far
I am surprised that we allowed ourselves to get so deeply involved or entrenched in something


From the things that we said
Based on what we have communicated to each other


I was wishing us dead
I had negative feelings towards our situation and thought that it would be better if it ended


Turn around
Look in the opposite direction


To the fool
Directing this statement to someone who may have made a mistake or acted unwisely


Who believed
Refers to someone who was gullible or naive in a particular situation


Don't ask why
This is not up for discussion or explanation


(Pillow) pretend
I am imagining that a pillow is a person and trying to ignore or suppress certain emotions


That I do not defend
I refuse to justify or make excuses for my feelings towards this imaginary person


My own love in the back
I am struggling with feelings of love or affection that I am keeping hidden or repressed


Need no question to ask
I do not need to explain or justify my reasons for feeling this way


If you need
In the event that you require


To see
To have an understanding of


The (real)
The actual truth or reality of a situation


Don't ask me
Do not request or expect me to provide answers or explanations




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: KEVIN SHIELDS

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