Our Riotous Defects
of Montreal Lyrics


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You are such a crazy girl
You're such a crazy girl
And I don't know why
I even try
To make you love me
I want it, babe
But you are just a, crazy girl
You are so crazy girl
I don't know why
I even try
To help you (can't help you, can't help you)

When I first met you at that Al-Anon meeting
And you made that reference to
"All your goodies are gone"
And even sang a verse
I was amazed how husky your singing voice was
I wanted to talk to you so badly, but
I didn't know how to come on because
You got that kind of beauty that makes people nervous
I know it's fucked, but before we got together
I even hooked up with one of your cousins
Just to feel somehow closer to you
Because I knew, like, you guys were best friends
And you talked every day
And it was thrilling to touch something that had touched you
In my head, you were like this goddess
But in fact, you're just a

Crazy girl
You're just a crazy girl
I don't know why
I even try
To understand you (can't stand you, can't stand you)
Your ass is crazy girl, yeah
You are so crazy girl
And I don't know why
I even try
To relate to you (can't wait for you, it's too late for you)
Yeah

My god, I should've realized
On our second date
When you dragged me into the bathroom at Tameka's house
And screamed at me for like twenty minutes
Because I had contradicted you in front of your friends
I was like, "Oh!"
And then later that night, at my apartment
As punishment, you killed my betta fish
You just threw it out the window
I did everything I could to make you happy
I participated in all your protests
Supported your stupid little blog
Got a Bowflex
Wore colored contacts to match your dresses
Whatever your eyes caught, I bought
Still we fought
Like Ike and Tina, but in reverse
Because you're so

Crazy girl
You're just to crazy girl
And I don't know why
I even try
To understand you (oh no)

Well, I think you're crazy girl
Yeah, you are so crazy girl
And I don't know why
I even try
To make sense of you (sense of you, sense of you)

Tell me why
Someone tell me why (why)
I should wait for you still (ooh ah, ooh ah)
Think

I was like crazy fan over you




Like I'm star struck over you
Like I'm getting handcuffed over you

Overall Meaning

"Our Riotous Defects" by of Montreal is a song that sheds light on the woes of being in a relationship with someone who has a mental illness. The artist seems to be addressing his lover directly, acknowledging her craziness and admitting his struggle in dealing with her. The song opens with the artist calling his lover a crazy girl and expressing his confusion about why he tries to make her love him when she emanates a clear streak of madness. The artist then narrates how he met his lover at an Al-Anon meeting, which shows her underlying issue. He describes her voice as husky and alluring, admitting he was scared to approach her initially because of her beauty, which makes people nervous.


The lyrics suggest that the artist has tried to connect with his lover in different ways, such as participating in protests and supporting her blog. Despite this, they still fight incessantly, which he compares to the abusive relationship between Ike and Tina Turner, although in reverse. The lyrics show that he tried to do everything he could to make her happy, but she remained unreasonable and difficult to deal with. The artist’s tone is empathetic, and he appears to urge his lover to get the help they require to improve their mental health.


Line by Line Meaning

You are such a crazy girl
The person being addressed is considered to be an irrational and erratic individual


You're such a crazy girl
The person being addressed is reiterated in a colloquial manner


And I don't know why
The singer is uncertain about their reasons for pursuing a relationship with the person being addressed


I even try
Despite the challenges in the relationship, the artist continues to make an effort to connect with the person being addressed


To make you love me
The artist desires affection and emotional intimacy from the person being addressed


I want it, babe
Affirmation of the singer's intense longing for the person being addressed


But you are just a, crazy girl
The singer reiterates that the person being addressed is irrational and unpredictable in their behavior


I don't know why
The artist is still uncertain about the rationality of their own desire to be with the person being addressed


To help you (can't help you, can't help you)
The artist recognizes that the person being addressed requires assistance, but is unable to provide it due to their volatile nature


When I first met you at that Al-Anon meeting
The artist recalls their initial encounter with the person being addressed at a support group for people affected by someone else's addiction


And you made that reference to
The person being addressed made a statement or allusion that stayed in the singer's memory


"All your goodies are gone"
The person being addressed used a phrase that implies loss or deprivation


And even sang a verse
The person being addressed expressed their thoughts or feelings with a musical performance


I was amazed how husky your singing voice was
The singer was impressed by a particular trait of the person being addressed


I wanted to talk to you so badly, but
The singer experienced a desire to communicate with the person being addressed, but struggled to initiate conversation


I didn't know how to come on because
The artist was hesitant to approach the person being addressed due to uncertainty about the appropriate tone or manner


You got that kind of beauty that makes people nervous
The artist perceives the person being addressed as possessing an aura of attractiveness that is intimidating or unsettling


I know it's fucked, but before we got together
The singer acknowledges that their behavior was inappropriate or shameful


I even hooked up with one of your cousins
The singer engaged in sexual activity with a relative of the person being addressed


Just to feel somehow closer to you
The artist engaged in the aforementioned behavior in order to create a sense of proximity or intimacy with the person being addressed


Because I knew, like, you guys were best friends
The artist was aware of a close relationship between the person being addressed and their relative, which may have been a motivating factor for their actions


And you talked every day
The person being addressed has a close and frequent communication with the aforementioned relative of the artist


And it was thrilling to touch something that had touched you
The singer derives pleasure from the notion of physical connection with an object or entity related in some way to the person being addressed


In my head, you were like this goddess
The artist crafted an idealized mental image of the person being addressed, emphasizing their beauty or perceived perfection


But in fact, you're just a
The singer reveals that their perception of the person being addressed was flawed or unrealistic


Your ass is crazy girl, yeah
The person being addressed is characterized once more as being irrational or unstable in a humorous or colloquial tone


And I don't know why
The singer reiterates their confusion about their continued pursuit of a relationship with the person being addressed


I even try
The artist expresses the persistent nature of their attempt to connect with the person being addressed despite the difficulties they face


To relate to you (can't wait for you, it's too late for you)
The artist is unable to relate to the person being addressed or waits for them no longer


Well, I think you're crazy girl
The singer confirms their perception of the person being addressed as being irrational or unpredictable


And I don't know why
The singer repeats their own uncertainty about their reasons for wanting a relationship with the person being addressed


I even try
The artist is determined to continue trying to understand the person being addressed despite their perceived madness


To make sense of you (sense of you, sense of you)
The artist seeks to comprehend the behavior and thought patterns of the person being addressed


Tell me why
The artist poses a rhetorical question, expressing confusion or frustration about the situation


Someone tell me why (why)
The singer implores for an explanation from someone else regarding the challenges of the relationship


I should wait for you still (ooh ah, ooh ah)
The artist debates whether or not they should continue waiting for the person being addressed despite the difficulties they face, expressed through onomatopoeia


Think
The singer concludes the song with a brief, contemplative statement


I was like crazy fan over you
The singer describes an intense infatuation with the person being addressed, indicating that their feelings are motivated by a sense of admiration or hero worship


Like I'm star struck over you
The singer employs a metaphor comparing their admiration for the person being addressed to the awe and fascination one experiences in the presence of a celebrity


Like I'm getting handcuffed over you
The artist employs another metaphor comparing their attraction to the person being addressed to the restraint and loss of control associated with being arrested




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: KEVIN BARNES

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