Tim
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Tim, wish you were born a girl
So I could've been your boyfriend
I know it's not possible now
I just never met a girl I like half as much as you

And we could lay around in bed, stay there all day
Or at least until the afternoon
And I could make you spaghetti with tomato sauce
With just a touch of oregano and a parsley stem

And then when you got sick
I could take the day off work
I could've made you chicken soup
And we could watch soap operas
Oh, those TV dramas
I could catch your cold
And you could take care of me

If I could've met you at school, or met you at work
It would have changed everything
Those years of losing, confusion and insecurity
They would have been shared
They would have been easier

Tim, wish you were born a girl
So I could've been your fiance
I'm not saying you can't be all these things for me




But it's just not the same because you're a man
And so am I

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of of Montreal's song Tim talk about a yearning for a love that could have been, if only the person being addressed had been born a girl instead of a boy. The singer expresses their attraction towards Tim, convinced that they have never liked a girl as much as they like them. They imagine a life they could have had together, spending lazy days in bed or taking care of each other when sick. The idea of being able to change the difficulties and hardships in their life through love is prevalent throughout the song.


However, the singer becomes aware that their love for Tim may never come to fruition since both of them are men. Despite the fact that Tim could be all the things they want for themselves, it's just not the same since they are both men. The song, in its somewhat melancholic tone, laments the limitations that society imposes on love based on gender.


Overall, the song Tim is reflective of the reality of love, wherein we cannot always have what we want, and our desires are sometimes limited by societal expectations. It creates a thoughtful and poignant image of love that is deeply evocative and resonates with people in different ways.


Line by Line Meaning

Tim, wish you were born a girl
I wish you had a different gender identity so I could have been your romantic partner


So I could've been your boyfriend
I want to have a relationship with you, but because we have the same gender identity, I cannot be your boyfriend


I know it's not possible now
I understand that it is not possible for us to have a romantic relationship due to our gender identities


I just never met a girl I like half as much as you
You are the person I have been most attracted to, and I have not found anyone else who I feel the same way about


And we could lay around in bed, stay there all day
We could spend time together and be intimate without any other distractions or obligations


Or at least until the afternoon
We could spend a relaxed, lazy morning together without having to worry about any other responsibilities


And I could make you spaghetti with tomato sauce
I would enjoy cooking for you and taking care of you in this way


With just a touch of oregano and a parsley stem
I appreciate the small details in making a meal that would make it special for you


And then when you got sick
If you were ever not feeling well or needed help, I would want to be there for you


I could take the day off work
I would prioritize taking care of you over my other responsibilities


I could've made you chicken soup
I would want to make you feel better and help you recover from any illness or discomfort


And we could watch soap operas
We could spend time together and enjoy something that we both find entertaining or amusing


Oh, those TV dramas
We could make light of TV dramas and have a good time together


I could catch your cold
I would not shy away from getting sick if it meant that I could take care of you


And you could take care of me
You would also be there for me and take care of me when I needed it


If I could've met you at school, or met you at work
If we had met in a different context, perhaps at school or work, things might have been different


It would have changed everything
Our meeting in a different context could have a significant impact on our relationship and the course of our lives


Those years of losing, confusion and insecurity
I have had difficulties and struggles in my life, particularly with my romantic relationships, that meeting you could have alleviated


They would have been shared
We could have shared our struggles and supported each other through difficult times


They would have been easier
Having each other to rely on could have made our past struggles less difficult


Tim, wish you were born a girl
I am still struggling with my attraction to you and wishing that we could be in a different kind of relationship


So I could've been your fiance
If we could have a romantic relationship, I would want to take it further and become engaged to you


I'm not saying you can't be all these things for me
Even though we cannot be in a romantic relationship, I still value our friendship and connection


But it's just not the same because you're a man
I am struggling with my sexuality and feeling guilty about my attraction to you because of our gender identity, which is preventing me from being fully happy in our friendship




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: KEVIN BARNES

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