RIP
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You don't make time like you used to
Got a new girl, new friends, brand new
I swear it's like I don't even know you
Yeah, I miss the old you
I kinda want to fight like we used to
To make it alright like we used to
Anything, 'cause I didn't want to lose you
But this time we've gone too far
We've gone too far

This new you, this new dude
Don't know him, don't want to
I wish that I still knew
The old him, the old you

RIP to the old you
I miss the old you
It's like you're dead to me now
RIP to the old you
I fucking miss you
I would have never let you down
Like you did to me
Now you're dead to me
RIP

Some lies are made to be told
Promises are made to be broke
Baby, our story ain't made to be told
You be better off in the morn'
Go ahead, get it off of your chest
Got feelings that you didn't want to catch
Still here, but it feels like you left
No space, maybe ask for the best

Really should trust you but I can't
I know it seems like I hate you, but I don't
I never should've loved you but I do
Could never figure out what I want
It makes it kind of hard to tell the truth and uh
And I know I said that we should pump the brakes
But I don't wanna ever be replaced
And you can barely look me in my face
And both of us is too afraid to say it
But I don't think we'll ever be the same

RIP to the old you
I miss the old you
It's like you're dead to me now
RIP to the old you
I fucking miss you
I would have never let you down
Like you did to me
Now you're dead to me
RIP

Let's put it to rest now
Before we make a big mess now
And you know that I been a mess
Gettin faded to alleviate stress now yeah
There's some things I'm not proud of
Livin' with my demons in a crowd of
People who ain't never know about love
But a fresh start, that's what we're out of

RIP to the old you (old you)
I miss the old you (I miss you)
It's like you're dead to me now (dead to me)
RIP to the old you (old you)
I fucking miss you (I miss you)
I would have never let you down
Like you did to me (did to me)
Now you're dead to me (dead to me now)
RIP
Rip to the old you (RIP)




I fucking miss you (I miss you)
It's like you're six feet in the ground

Overall Meaning

The song "RIP" by Olivia O'Brien is about the concept of grieving the loss of a relationship, specifically for the person you once knew who has changed and is now unrecognizable. The opening statement expresses how the singer's partner doesn't seem to prioritize them as they used to, and has now replaced them with new things, such as a new girl, new friends, and a new persona. The following statements express how the singer misses their old partner, thus implying that the loss was not necessarily the relationship but the change in their significant other's personality. The singer wants to fix things and fight to make them better, but they know it's too late to turn back time.


Throughout the song, the singer expresses their desire to return to the old relationship. Despite the circumstances, the singer still loves their partner and is struggling to cope with the changes. They're aware of the situation but can't seem to walk away from the relationship. The song, however, doesn't explicitly state if the person has died or if they have just changed too much to go back. The final verse expresses regret, but also acceptance of the situation, and the singer finally comes to terms with what has happened and recognizes that it's time to move on from the relationship, thus giving it a fitting conclusion.


Overall, "RIP" is a strong emotional ballad that encapsulates the internal struggle of coming to grips with a changing relationship, and the resulting grief that comes with it.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't make time like you used to
I'm noticing that you're not as available to me as you used to be


Got a new girl, new friends, brand new
You have a new girl and new friends, and it feels like you've completely changed


I swear it's like I don't even know you
Your new personality and actions are so different from the old you that I don't even know who you are anymore


Yeah, I miss the old you
I miss the way you used to be, the way you used to act towards me


I kinda want to fight like we used to
I want to have arguments with you like we did before because it made us stronger


To make it alright like we used to
I want to have arguments with you like we did before so that we can work through our problems and make things right between us


Anything, 'cause I didn't want to lose you
I was willing to do whatever it takes because I didn't want to lose you


But this time we've gone too far
This time, our actions and behavior have gone too far for us to fix things the way we used to


This new you, this new dude
I don't know this new version of you, and honestly, I don't want to


Don't know him, don't want to
I am unfamiliar and uncomfortable with this new version of you


I wish that I still knew
I wish that I knew the old version of you better, like I used to


RIP to the old you
The old version of you, the one I was familiar with, is gone and it feels like it has died


I fucking miss you
I really, really miss the old version of you


It's like you're dead to me now
This new version of you is unrecognizable and feels like a completely different person to me now


Some lies are made to be told
Not all lies are harmful and can actually benefit a relationship


Promises are made to be broke
Promises are not always kept and can be broken


Baby, our story ain't made to be told
Our relationship is not for public consumption and we are not meant to share intimate details with others


You be better off in the morn'
You will be better off in the morning, without me


Go ahead, get it off of your chest
Feel free to say what you need to say, get it all off your chest


Got feelings that you didn't want to catch
You caught feelings that you weren't expecting or prepared for


Still here, but it feels like you left
You're physically here, but emotionally, it feels like you've already left


No space, maybe ask for the best
Maybe we need to take a step back and give each other space, it might be for the best


Really should trust you but I can't
I want to trust you, but I am having a hard time believing your actions and words


I know it seems like I hate you, but I don't
I may come across as hating you, but that's not the case


I never should've loved you but I do
I may regret loving you, but I still do love you


Could never figure out what I want
I am unsure of what I want from this relationship


It makes it kind of hard to tell the truth and uh
Because I'm unsure of what I want, it's difficult for me to be honest with you


And I know I said that we should pump the brakes
I previously suggested slowing things down in this relationship


But I don't wanna ever be replaced
I don't want to be replaced by someone else in your life


And you can barely look me in my face
You have a hard time making eye contact with me, so I can tell there's something wrong


And both of us is too afraid to say it
We're both scared to face the truth of what's happening in our relationship


But I don't think we'll ever be the same
I don't think we can go back to the way things were before, our relationship has changed irreparably


Let's put it to rest now
Let's end this relationship now before it gets worse


Before we make a big mess now
Before we make things worse and create bigger issues


And you know that I been a mess
You know that I have been struggling in this relationship


Gettin faded to alleviate stress now yeah
Drinking or getting high to deal with the stress in this relationship


There's some things I'm not proud of
There are things I've done in this relationship that I'm not proud of


Livin' with my demons in a crowd of
I'm trying to deal with my own personal demons while being in a crowd of people


People who ain't never know about love
I'm surrounded by people who have never experienced real, genuine love before


But a fresh start, that's what we're out of
I think we both need a fresh start and a new beginning in our lives


I fucking miss you
I really, really miss the old version of you


It's like you're six feet in the ground
This new version of you feels like a completely different person, as if the old you is dead and gone




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID PARK, DREW MACDONALD, NICHOLAS BALDING, OLIVIA O'BRIEN

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@fayeemilyalegado3926

[Verse 1]
You don't make time like you used to
Got a new girl, new friends, brand new
I swear it's like I don't even know you
Yeah, I miss the old you
I kinda want to fight like we used to
To make it alright like we used to
Anything, 'cause I didn't want to lose you
But this time we've gone too far
We've gone too far

[Pre-Chorus]
This new you, this new dude
Don't know him, don't want to
I wish that I still knew the old him, the old you

[Chorus]
R-I-P to the old you
I miss the old you
It's like you're dead to me now
R-I-P to the old you
I fucking miss you
I would have never let you down like you did to me
Now you're dead to me
R-I-P
[Verse 1]
You don't make time like you used to
Got a new girl, new friends, brand new
I swear it's like I don't even know you
Yeah, I miss the old you
I kinda want to fight like we used to
To make it alright like we used to
Anything, 'cause I didn't want to lose you
But this time we've gone too far
We've gone too far

[Pre-Chorus]
This new you, this new dude
Don't know him, don't want to
I wish that I still knew the old him, the old you

[Chorus]
R-I-P to the old you
I miss the old you
It's like you're dead to me now
R-I-P to the old you
I fucking miss you
I would have never let you down like you did to me
Now you're dead to me
R-I-P

[Verse 2]
You're acting like the people that we hated
You're hanging with the worst and I hate it
All you do now is get too faded
You think you're the shit now
Now everything is too complicated
You can try, but there's no way to save it
Because you're too caught up in that fake shit
I wish that we could just restart, just restart

[Pre-Chorus]
This new you, this new dude
Don't know him, don't want to
I wish that I still knew the old him, the old you

[Chorus]
R-I-P to the old you
I miss the old you
It's like you're dead to me now
R-I-P to the old you
I fucking miss you
I would have never let you down like you did to me
Now you're dead to me
R-I-P
R-I-P to the old you
I fucking miss you
It's like you're six feet in the ground
[Bridge]
One day you gon' miss me
You'll come running back and you'll hit me up
But I won't answer that shit, nah, I won't answer that shit, nah
One day I won't miss you
When I'm drunk and sad I won't hit you up
Because I'll be over that shit yeah, I'll be over that shit yeah

[Chorus]
R-I-P to the old you (R-I-P to you)
I miss the old you (I miss you)
It's like you're dead to me now (dead to me)
R-I-P to the old you (R-I-P)
I fucking miss you (I miss you)
I would have never let you down (never let you down)
Like you did to me (like you did to me)
Now you're dead to me (dead to me now)
R-I-P
R-I-P to the old you (R-I-P)
I fucking miss you (I miss you)
It's like you're six feet in the ground



@ayla196

You don't make time like you used to
Got a new girl, new friends, brand new
I swear it's like I don't even know you
Yeah, I miss the old you
I kinda want to fight like we used to
To make it alright like we used to
Anything, 'cause I didn't want to lose you
But this time we've gone too far
We've gone too far

This new you, this new dude
Don't know him, don't want to
I wish that I still knew
The old him, the old you

R.I.P. to the old you
I miss the old you
It's like you're dead to me now
R.I.P. to the old you
I fucking miss you
I would have never let you down
like you did to me
Now you're dead to me
R.I.P.

You're acting like the people that we hated
You're hanging with the worst and I hate it
All you do now is get too faded
You think you're the shit now
Now everything is too complicated
You can try, but there's no way to save it
Because you're too caught up in the fake shit
I wish we could just restart
just restart

This new you, this new dude
Don't know him, don't want to
I wish that I still knew
The old him, the old you

R.I.P. to the old you
I miss the old you
It's like you're dead to me now
R.I.P. to the old you
I fucking miss you
I would have never let you down
like you did to me
Now you're dead to me
R.I.P.

R.I.P. to the old you
I fucking miss you
It's like you're six feet in the ground

One day you gon' miss me
You'll come running back and you'll hit me up
But I won't answer that shit now
I won't answer that shit now
One day I won't miss you
When I'm drunk, instead, I won't hit you up
Because I'll be over that shit, yeah
I'll be over that shit, yeah

R.I.P. to the old you (R.I.P.to you)
I miss the old you (I miss you)
It's like you're dead to me now (dead to me)
R.I.P. to the old you (R.I.P.)
I fucking miss you (I miss you)
I would have never let you down (never let you down)
like you did to me (like you did to me)
Now you're dead to me (dead to me now)
R.I.P.
R.I.P. to the old you (R.I.P.)
I fucking miss you (I miss you)
It's like you're six feet in the ground



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@shatarupaaa

You know it's awesome when it's Olivia O'Brien.

@rebeccabrockwellx7550

Shatarupa Nath ikr

@vladimirazemanikova849

Shatarupa Nath Exactly.

@joana2223

yass

@chibli8726

YES

@alyssakretschmann4580

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@ErinKellyHiYCbwGt

This is how you know she writes her own songs. The amount of passion and emotion in her voice is so genuine, it's impossible to fake and impossible to convey unless you've been in the situations she sings about!!!

@mommatyler9763

Us probably

@el.c.8858

she has said several times that she writes her own song like i hate u, i love u

@Bee-fu9uz

Right?
Fun Fact:
She was about to cry at the end of Empty
She meant it

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