Boys Don't Cry
♫ Plumb Lyrics
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Sipping your scotch and ice
You turn the t.v. on
And tune me out again
So what would you say to me
If you could talk to me
You could ask anything
But you're okay with this
Damaging awkwardness
So I'll just play it safe
And keep it inside
Boys don't cry
I used to hold your hand
Sometimes there was no question
But now even when you're near
I've never felt so alone
So what would you say to me
If you could talk to me
You could ask anything
I wouldn't mind
But you're okay with this
Damaging awkwardness
So I'll just play it safe
And keep it inside
Boys don't cry
Boys don't cry
Boys don't cry
Boys don't cry
If you'll just stand beside me
I'll keep you in my life
Tell me how much you love me
And I'll be just fine
Don't be
Afraid of me
So what would you say to me
If you could talk to me
You could ask anything
I wouldn't mind
But you're okay with this
Damaging awkwardness
So I'll just play it safe
And keep it inside
Boys don't cry
Boys don't cry
The song "Boys don't cry" by Plumb depicts the singer's feelings of isolation and longing for communication in a strained relationship. The singer is addressing someone who sits on the couch sipping scotch and ice while tuning the television out, not interested in engaging in conversation. The singer expresses her desire for communication, asking what the person would say to her if they could talk, promising that she wouldn't mind any question. However, the person is content with the "damaging awkwardness" and doesn't make attempts to bridge the communication gap. The singer, therefore, decides to keep her feelings inside and play it safe, ultimately expressing the adage "boys don't cry."
The chorus "Boys don't cry" reinforces the theme of repressing emotions that are sometimes considered unacceptable for boys to feel or express, such as sadness or vulnerability. However, it also reflects a broader societal expectation for both genders to keep their emotions hidden or restrained.
The second verse highlights the stark contrast in the relationship dynamic, where the singer used to hold the other's hand with no question, but now feels alone even when near. She still desires communication and affection but is met with an impassive and indifferent attitude.
In the last verse, the singer implores the person not to be afraid of her and asks for their love and presence, promising that everything would be okay if they stood by her.
Overall, the song's lyrics convey a sense of emotional frustration and pain, depicting the struggles that arise from communication breakdown in relationships.
Line by Line Meaning
You sit there on the couch
You are physically present, but emotionally distant
Sipping your scotch and ice
You are using alcohol as a coping mechanism
You turn the t.v. on
You are choosing to ignore me
And tune me out again
You are purposely keeping your focus away from me
So what would you say to me
What is it that prevents you from communicating with me openly?
If you could talk to me
If you were willing to share your thoughts and feelings with me
You could ask anything
You have the opportunity to ask me anything you want
I wouldn't mind
I am open to hearing anything you have to say
But you're okay with this
You seem content with the current level of discomfort
Damaging awkwardness
This situation is causing harm to our relationship
So I'll just play it safe
I will not take any risks in trying to improve things
And keep it inside
I will continue to bottle up my emotions
Boys don't cry
Society expects young men to hide their emotions
I used to hold your hand
We used to have a close, intimate relationship
Sometimes there was no question
We were connected without needing to say anything
But now even when you're near
Even when we are physically together, we are emotionally distant
I've never felt so alone
I am feeling isolated and disconnected from you
If you'll just stand beside me
If you can be there for me emotionally
I'll keep you in my life
I will continue to value your presence in my life
Tell me how much you love me
Express your emotions and affection towards me
And I'll be just fine
I need to feel loved and supported
Don't be afraid of me
Don't be scared to share your emotions with me
Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: MATT BRONLEEWE, TIFFANY ARBUCKLE LEE
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@ToxicTurbine
“Felling shitty in my bed didn’t take my fuckin meds” hits to close
-thanks for the likes boys
@k1rst3n37
Hyper pop up in my ears
Everything just disappears
Don’t wanna be someone else
Just don’t wanna hate myself
@EthanTucky16
Well go take your meds
@sgakio1859
Yeah
@ToxicTurbine
Like sheesh that’s a lot of likes
@eghuroiuhghui_roblox
@@lpsalixan7982 Im on a sugarcrash
@josh-9155
“I’m not lonely just a bit tired of this fucking shit” very relatable
@luhtweakin2658
Stfu
@WvKay
@@luhtweakin2658 lmfao my boy
@adriansproho5379
@@luhtweakin2658 I see u tired of this fucking shit