The Strangers
St. Vincent Lyrics


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Lover, I don't play to win
Befall the thrill until I'm spent
Paint the black hole blacker
Paint the black hole blacker

I threw flowers in your face on my sister's wedding day
Paint the black hole blacker
Paint the black hole blacker

You showed up with a black eye looking to go start a fight
Paint the black hole blacker
Paint the black hole blacker

Playboys under your mattress, like I wouldn't notice
Paint the black hole blacker
Paint the black hole blacker

What do I share?
What do I keep from all the strangers who sleep where I sleep

Desperate don't look good on you, neither does your virtue
Paint the black hole blacker
Paint the black hole blacker

Good souls have won better sons, better sons were worse once
Paint the black hole blacker
Paint the black hole blacker

What do I share?
What do I keep from all the stranger who sleep where I sleep

You showed up with a black eye looking to finish a fight
Lover, I don't play to win
Befall the thrill until I'm spent




Paint the black hole blacker
Paint the black hole blacker

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "The Strangers" by St. Vincent explore themes of love, vulnerability, and secrecy. The song follows a narrative of a tumultuous relationship in which the singer is willing to go to great lengths to maintain the romance despite the obvious red flags. The repeated refrain of "paint the black hole blacker" suggests that the singer is willing to overlook the negative aspects of the relationship in order to keep the love alive, even if it means creating an illusion of something that is not there. The line "what do I share? what do I keep from all the strangers who sleep where I sleep" implies that the singer is hiding something from the world around them, perhaps the true nature of their relationship or the details of their partner's questionable behavior.


The verse about throwing flowers in the partner's face on their sister's wedding day suggests a volatile and abusive relationship, while the lines about playboys under the mattress imply infidelity. The phrase "desperate don't look good on you, neither does your virtue" suggests that the singer is aware of their partner's flaws but is still willing to accept them in order to keep the relationship alive. The final verse about the partner showing up with a black eye looking to finish a fight suggests that the relationship has reached a breaking point, and the singer is left questioning whether or not it's worth continuing to try and hold onto it.


Overall, "The Strangers" is a hauntingly beautiful exploration of the complexities of love and the lengths we're willing to go to in order to maintain it, even when it's not in our best interest.


Line by Line Meaning

Lover, I don't play to win
I'm not in this relationship to come out on top


Befall the thrill until I'm spent
I'll take the excitement until it's all used up


Paint the black hole blacker
Make the darkness even darker


I threw flowers in your face on my sister's wedding day
I acted out in anger during a happy event


You showed up with a black eye looking to go start a fight
You came looking for trouble despite your injuries


Playboys under your mattress, like I wouldn't notice
I know about your secret stash of magazines


What do I share?
What parts of myself do I reveal?


What do I keep from all the strangers who sleep where I sleep
I'm guarded around those I don't fully trust


Desperate don't look good on you, neither does your virtue
You're not attractive when you act needy or overly moral


Good souls have won better sons, better sons were worse once
People can change for better or for worse


You showed up with a black eye looking to finish a fight
You were still looking for trouble


Lover, I don't play to win
I'm not interested in competing with you


Befall the thrill until I'm spent
I'll enjoy the excitement until it's gone


Paint the black hole blacker
Make the dark parts even darker




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: JASON SAENZ, TODD CLARK, HAYLEY ORRANTIA

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