Friend or Foe
Adam and the Ants Lyrics
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Take it up or leave it
It doesn't apply to me
I'm not gonna change a bit
If it means heartache
then leave it out for your sake
I tried and I try tried
to take care of my insides
I want those who get to know me
to become admirers or my enemies
When you're a pirouetting, highkicking
thighslapping cruiser
When you're a hipgrinding spellbinding
clean cut seducer
You have to be careful so people take note
I take it serious, but I still like a joke
I want those who get to know me
to become admirers or my enemies
Take it up or leave it
I'm not gonna change a bit
If it means heartache
then leave it out for your sake
I tried and I try tried
but still you say that I lied
Nobody's perfect so leave me if you object
Keep your philosophy
it doesn't apply to me
If it means heartache
then leave it out for your sake, your sake
I tried and I try tried
But still you say that I lied
Nobody's perfect so leave me if you object
The lyrics of "Friend or Foe" by Adam and the Ants demonstrate a strong sense of self-acceptance and a refusal to conform to society's expectations. The first stanza implies that the singer has their own philosophy and values, which they will not compromise for anyone else. They acknowledge that this may cause heartache for others, but they will not change for their sake. The singer attempts to take care of their own wellbeing, but recognizes that nobody is perfect and others should not judge them for their imperfections.
The second stanza paints a picture of a confident and charismatic individual who is aware of their effect on others. They take themselves seriously but can still appreciate humor. The third stanza repeats the idea that the singer will not change for anyone else, even if they object or accuse them of lying.
Overall, "Friend or Foe" is a declaration of self-confidence and defiance against societal expectations. The singer values authenticity over conformity and is willing to accept both admirers and enemies who get to know them.
Line by Line Meaning
Keep your philosophy
I don't care about your beliefs or opinions.
Take it up or leave it
You can either accept me for who I am, or move on.
It doesn't apply to me
Your philosophy has no relevance to my life.
I'm not gonna change a bit
I won't alter my behavior or personality.
If it means heartache then leave it out for your sake
If my actions will cause you emotional pain, it's better for you to distance yourself from me.
I tried and I try tried to take care of my insides
I make an effort to maintain my mental and emotional health.
Nobody's perfect so leave me if you object
I'm not flawless, and if that's a problem for you, you should go elsewhere.
I want those who get to know me to become admirers or my enemies
I have a distinct personality, and those who get close to me will either appreciate or despise who I am.
When you're a pirouetting, highkicking thighslapping cruiser
When you're someone who loves to perform and show off your skills and talents.
When you're a hipgrinding spellbinding clean cut seducer
When you're charming, suave, and seductive, yet still respectful and polished.
You have to be careful so people take note
You need to make a strong impression on people.
I take it serious, but I still like a joke
I can be intense and focused, but I also have a sense of humor.
But still you say that I lied
You accuse me of being dishonest, even though I'm not.
If it means heartache then leave it out for your sake, your sake
If being around me will cause you emotional pain, it's in your best interest to avoid me.
Nobody's perfect so leave me if you object
I am not without flaws, and if you find that unacceptable, you should move on.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: MARCO PIRRONI, ADAM ANT
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@sheridanchaffins1170
The sound, The Charisma, The Talent, The Intellectual. Adam Ant.
@ravingmavis5801
Such a character-I miss characters 😢
@OrdoSanctiBenedictus
the fresh sound of Adam Ant The guy a genius .These songs hold up.
@robertrudiger1433
One of the greatest underrated and underplayed singles ever X
@BlueHopi144
still got the full album in vinyl format and in pristine shape - re-listening to it again - what a divine pleasure & an incredible musical piece of art
@BrianYoungauthor
How is it underrated you mook? Sigh...
@jonnuanez7183
Underplayed? This was all over #KROQ back in the day, as well as national and local video programs.
@robertrudiger1433
@@BrianYoungauthor I love this song, always have and although I listen to a lot of radio stations I've never heard it played or commented on once. If you think I'm a "mook" then I suggest that you get your equally thick parents to buy you a dictionary of the English language and don't end a message with sigh..., it's pretentious and pathetic
@robertrudiger1433
@@jonnuanez7183 I wasn't talking about then was I, I was talking about NOW, FOOL
@maggiewood4332
A lot of his songs are about rising above haters . Something that is a timeless thing we all need to learn