Father And Son
Alan Garrity Lyrics


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It's not time to make a change
Just relax
Take it easy
You're still young
That's your fault
There's so much you have to know

Find a girl
Settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me
I am old
But I'm happy

I was once like you are now
And I know that it's not easy
To be calm
When you've found something going on

But take your time
Think a lot
Why, think of everything you've got
For you will still be here tomorrow
But your dreams may not

How can I try to explain?
'Cause when I do he turns away again
It's always been the same
Same old story

From the moment I could talk
I was ordered to listen
Now there's a way
And I know that I have to go away
I know
I have to go

It's not time to make a change
Just sit down
Take it slowly
You're still young (I)
That's your fault (Know)
There's so much you have to go through (This decision)

Find a girl
Settle down
If you want
You can marry
Look at me (Look)
I am old (Look)
But I'm happy

All the times that I cried (Time is still the same)
Keeping all the things I knew inside
It's hard (Hard)
But it's harder to ignore it (Hard)
(To ignore this decision)

If they were right, I'd agree (Gotta go)
But it's them they know not me (Gotta be)
Now there's a way
And I know that I have to go away




I know
I have to go

Overall Meaning

In the first stanza, the singer is advising his son that it's not the right time to make major life decisions or changes. He urges him to relax and take it easy because he is still young, implying that his youth is the reason for his impulsive nature. The singer acknowledges that there is a lot his son still needs to learn and understand about life.


Moving into the second stanza, the singer encourages his son to find a girl and settle down if he desires to get married. He uses himself as an example, stating that despite being old, he is content with his life. The singer then reflects on his own past, saying that he once faced similar challenges and understands that it's not easy to stay calm or composed when there are things happening around you.


In the third stanza, the singer expresses his frustration in trying to explain something to his son, only to be constantly met with resistance and indifference. He laments that this has been an ongoing pattern, implying a strained relationship between them. The singer reveals that since he was young, he was commanded to listen, but now he has found a path for himself and knows that he must move away, figuratively or literally.


Finally, in the last stanza, the singer repeats the notion that it's not the right time for his son to make a change. He asks his son to sit down and take things slowly, reinforcing that he is still young and has a lot to experience and go through. The singer again mentions finding a girl and settling down and emphasizes his own contentment in his old age. He mentions the times he cried and kept his emotions hidden, acknowledging that it's difficult but even harder to ignore the need for change. He asserts that even if others think differently, it's ultimately his own decision to make, and he must find his own way and go away.


Line by Line Meaning

It's not time to make a change
This is not the right moment to make a major decision or take a different path in life


Just relax
Calm down and don't stress about the future


Take it easy
Don't rush or overthink things, approach life with a laid-back attitude


You're still young
You have plenty of time ahead of you, don't feel pressured by age


That's your fault
It's your responsibility to make the most of your youth and not let it go to waste


There's so much you have to know
There is a lot of knowledge and life experiences for you to gain


Find a girl
Look for a romantic partner


Settle down
Commit and establish a stable life with someone


If you want you can marry
If marriage is something you desire, it is an option for you


Look at me
Take a look at my life as an example


I am old
I have aged and accumulated wisdom


But I'm happy
Despite my age, I find contentment and fulfillment in life


I was once like you are now
I used to be in the same situation and mindset as you are currently


And I know that it's not easy
I understand the challenges and difficulties you may be facing


To be calm
It can be hard to maintain a sense of peace and serenity


When you've found something going on
When you become aware of something happening or changing around you


But take your time
Don't rush into making decisions, give yourself space to think


Think a lot
Engage in deep contemplation and reflection


Why, think of everything you've got
Consider and appreciate all the things you currently possess and value


For you will still be here tomorrow
You will have a future, another day to live and experience


But your dreams may not
Your aspirations and dreams may not persist or become a reality if not nurtured


How can I try to explain?
I struggle to find the words to convey my thoughts and feelings


'Cause when I do he turns away again
Whenever I attempt to communicate, he avoids or ignores me


It's always been the same
This pattern of behavior has persisted over time


Same old story
A recurring narrative or situation that remains unchanged


From the moment I could talk
Since I was able to communicate verbally


I was ordered to listen
I was instructed and commanded to pay attention and obey


Now there's a way
Currently, I have found a solution or path


And I know that I have to go away
I am aware that I must depart or leave


I know
I understand and acknowledge


I have to go
I must depart or move on from this situation


Just sit down
Remain in a seated position


Take it slowly
Proceed at a leisurely pace, without rushing


You're still young (I)
Youthfulness is still with you


That's your fault (Know)
You are responsible for the choices and actions you take


There's so much you have to go through (This decision)
There are numerous experiences and challenges awaiting you, including the decision at hand


Look at me (Look)
Observe and consider my life


I am old (Look)
I have become elderly or aged


But I'm happy
Despite my age, I find contentment and fulfillment in life


All the times that I cried (Time is still the same)
During the moments when I shed tears, time continued to pass without pause


Keeping all the things I knew inside
Suppressing and holding onto the knowledge and wisdom I possessed


It's hard (Hard)
It is challenging and difficult


But it's harder to ignore it (Hard)
However, it is even more challenging to disregard or neglect it


If they were right, I'd agree (Gotta go)
If others were correct in their judgment or opinions, I would concur and act accordingly


But it's them they know not me (Gotta be)
However, they lack understanding of who I truly am


Now there's a way
Currently, I have found a solution or path


And I know that I have to go away
I am aware that I must depart or leave


I know
I understand and acknowledge


I have to go
I must depart or move on from this situation




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Written by: Yusuf Islam

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