Take It Or Leave It
Alex & Chris Francesco Cofano & Shatti Lyrics


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I had a lover who could get undressed
And still hide anything she wanted from me
She was beautiful and effortless
She put an arrow through me
Hey, hey – it takes a heart to feel that way
Hey – it takes a heart to feel that way
I've been thinking about robbery
Taking what someone possesses
I think I do that to me
To make some room for what someone else has
It takes a heart to feel that way
It takes a heart to feel that way
I stayed alive in New York City
I held my own in Philadelphia
Now I'm picking fights in Alphabet City
Why aren't you with me?
Maple syrup and banana crepes
I thought I had her, I thought I had her
Even got a basket for all my eggs
And I laid down beside her
Hey – it takes a heart to feel that way
It takes a heart to feel that way




It takes a heart, it takes a heart
It takes a heart to feel that way

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "Take It or Leave It" by Alex & Chris Francesco Cofano & Shatti evoke feelings of longing, vulnerability, and self-reflection. The song describes a past lover who had the ability to hide her true emotions and intentions, even while being vulnerable and intimate. Despite her beauty and effortless charm, she was able to keep certain aspects of herself concealed. This sense of mystery and elusiveness affected the singer deeply, as if the lover shot an arrow straight into their heart.


The chorus emphasizes the idea that it takes a heart to feel that way. The singer reflects on their own behavior, admitting to contemplating robbery and taking what others possess. However, they recognize that this may actually be a way of depriving themselves to create space for what someone else has. This introspection reveals a sense of internal struggle and a desire for deeper connections with others.


The second verse hints at a journey, with the singer mentioning having stayed alive in New York City and held their own in Philadelphia. Now, they find themselves picking fights in Alphabet City, a neighborhood in Manhattan known for its vibrant and sometimes challenging atmosphere. The question directed at someone in the song, "Why aren't you with me?", suggests a longing for companionship and a shared experience in this new place.


The bridge introduces imagery of maple syrup and banana crepes, symbolizing sweetness and indulgence. The singer had believed they had a strong connection with their lover, even going as far as preparing a basket for all their eggs—a metaphor for investing deeply in the relationship and taking risks. However, despite their efforts, it seems that the connection was not as solid as anticipated.


Ultimately, "Take It or Leave It" explores themes of vulnerability, self-discovery, and the complexities of love. It portrays the inner struggles and longing for meaningful connections that many people experience throughout their lives.


Line by Line Meaning

I had a lover who could get undressed
I was in a relationship with someone who could physically remove their clothing


And still hide anything she wanted from me
However, she was able to conceal anything she desired, even from me


She was beautiful and effortless
She possessed a stunning appearance and made everything seem effortless


She put an arrow through me
She caused intense emotional pain and pierced my heart


Hey, hey – it takes a heart to feel that way
It requires having a compassionate and sensitive heart to experience such emotions


I've been thinking about robbery
I've been contemplating taking away someone's possessions


Taking what someone possesses
Acquiring belongings that belong to someone else


I think I do that to me
I believe I do this to myself


To make some room for what someone else has
To create space for what another person possesses


I stayed alive in New York City
I managed to survive the challenges of living in New York City


I held my own in Philadelphia
I managed to fend for myself in Philadelphia


Now I'm picking fights in Alphabet City
Currently, I'm instigating conflicts in Alphabet City


Why aren't you with me?
I wonder why you're not here with me


Maple syrup and banana crepes
Delicious pancakes made with maple syrup and bananas


I thought I had her, I thought I had her
I believed I had captured her affection, I believed I had won her over


Even got a basket for all my eggs
I even prepared for the future, considering a potential commitment or family


And I laid down beside her
And I peacefully rested next to her


It takes a heart to feel that way
It requires having a compassionate and sensitive heart to experience such emotions


It takes a heart, it takes a heart
It requires having a compassionate and sensitive heart, twice emphasized


It takes a heart to feel that way
It requires having a compassionate and sensitive heart to experience such emotions




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Written by: Alex Radus

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