How'd We Ever Get This Way
Andy Kim Lyrics


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Look at you baby look at me
So in love we used to be
But now it's just a memory
Baby, how'd we ever get this way
Tell me baby, how'd we ever get this way
Well I recall when things were fine
And every day the sun would shine
When I was yours and you were mine
Baby, how'd we ever get this way
Tell me baby, how'd we ever get this way
Remember how it used to was
Before the rovin' eye of love
Why does it do the way it does
Baby, how'd we ever get this way
Tell me baby, how'd we ever get this way
Time and time and time again
I wonder why it all began
Tell me how's it gonna end
Baby, how'd we ever get this way
Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la
Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la
Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la
Baby, how'd we ever get
Baby, how'd we ever get
Baby, how'd we ever get this way
Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la




Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la
Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la

Overall Meaning

In the song "How'd We Ever Get This Way" by Andy Kim, the singer reflects on a past relationship that has faded away. The first verse describes the stark contrast between how the couple used to be so in love, versus how things are now. The main theme being, how did we end up this way? The chorus repeats this question, emphasizing the singer's confusion and sadness about the situation.


The second verse highlights the happy memories the singer has of their time together, when everything seemed perfect and the sun always shone. However, things have changed, and the singer is struggling to understand why love can be so fickle and why some people's eyes seem to wander.


The final verse expresses the singer's frustration and despair at not being able to understand why things fell apart or how they will ever be able to heal the relationship. The "ba-la, la, la" refrain at the end provides a wistful, dreamy quality to the song, suggesting that despite the pain, the singer still holds onto some hope for reconciliation.


Overall, the song captures the universal feeling of heartbreak and confusion about why things in a relationship can change so quickly and dramatically. It also showcases Andy Kim's emotive voice and ability to write simple yet powerful lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

Look at you baby look at me
Let's take a moment to reflect on how we currently are and compare it to how we used to be


So in love we used to be
Our love was once strong and intense


But now it's just a memory
Unfortunately, our love has faded into the past and is no longer present


Baby, how'd we ever get this way
I'm questioning how our relationship deteriorated to its current state


Tell me baby, how'd we ever get this way
I'm asking for your perspective on how our relationship ended up like this


Well I recall when things were fine
I remember a time when our relationship was going smoothly


And every day the sun would shine
Back then, life seemed bright and full of hope


When I was yours and you were mine
During that period, we were fully committed to each other


Remember how it used to was
Let's reminisce on the time when things were good between us


Before the rovin' eye of love
Before we allowed our attractions to wander elsewhere


Why does it do the way it does
I'm questioning the nature of love and why it can be so fickle


Time and time and time again
Repeatedly, I find myself reflecting on our past relationship


I wonder why it all began
Sometimes, I question why we even got together in the first place


Tell me how's it gonna end
I'm unsure about what the future holds for us and how our story will conclude


Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la
This is a vocalization indicating reflection and introspection


Baby, how'd we ever get
I'm once again questioning how we ended up in this negative state in our relationship


Baby, how'd we ever get
I'm repeating my question out of confusion and a desire for clarity


Baby, how'd we ever get this way
This is my final repetition of my inquiry about how we reached this unfortunate point in our relationship


Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la
This is again a vocalization indicative of introspection and reflection


Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la
This is a continuation of the vocalization, creating a musical outro to the song


Ba-la, la, la, la, la, la
This is the last repetition of the musical vocalization, leading to the end of the song




Lyrics ยฉ Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: ANDY KIM, JEFF BARRY

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Comments from YouTube:

john newson

Andy Kim is a great singer. Loved listening to him when I was in my early teens and still do now. Thanks for the great memories.

Joe Florio

What an amazing body of work. And Canadian. Thank you for your great music โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™

eightyninechevy

Brings back a lot of good and bad memories. Love this song. The bad was when it ended. The good still lives in my heart after many years.....

Liza Fox

This was played on CBC NXNW this morning. Never heard it before but I love it. Thanks to Margaret Gallagher and Team!

Raymond Malcuit

This Song Went To Number 21 On The Billboard Hot-100 Chart In 1968.

EK

Got to #3 in Chicago

Darlene Jeanson

Have always loved this song & Andy Kim & yes, he is probably one of the most underrated artists of all time. Pity .

Richelle Ann

LOVE this song!!!
I remember it playing when l was a small girl and it brings me back to my happy life when things were carefree..

Patrick Joyce

Wow, I never heard this tune before, but its simply great!

Cathy Berry

I lost the love of my life when this song came out.
The Vietnam War destroyed him mentally, as couldn't grasp the loss of his friends killed before his eyes.
Many tears here!!.

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