I Just Don't Understand
Ann-Margret Lyrics


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Well you call me your baby
When you're holdin' my hand
Mm, how you can hurt me
I just don't understand

Well you say that you need me
Like the ocean needs sand
But the way you mistreat me
I just don't understand

Well you know that I love you
More than anyone can
But a one-sided love
I just don't understand (don't understand)

Well you know that I love you
More than anyone can
But a one-sided love
I just don't understand (don't understand)

Well you call me your baby
And you hold my hand




Ah, honey, you hurt me
And I just don't understand (don't understand)

Overall Meaning

In Ann-Margret's song, "I Just Don't Understand," she talks about the confusing and contradictory nature of her relationship with her lover. The song starts with her lover calling her "baby" and holding her hand, but she also experiences pain and hurt from them. She doesn't understand this dichotomy, and it seems as though her lover's treatment of her is not in line with the things they say they want and need from her. Despite loving them deeply, she cannot comprehend why they would mistreat her like this, as it doesn't align with the actions of someone who genuinely loves and cares for another person.


The lyrics reflect the complexity and confusion that often come with interpersonal relationships. While we may feel love for someone, it's not always easy to understand or articulate why we put up with less-than-ideal treatment. Ann-Margret's song captures this sentiment and shows how it can be difficult to reconcile our feelings with someone's actions or lack thereof.


Line by Line Meaning

Well you call me your baby
You address me as your loved one


When you're holdin' my hand
Whenever our hands are intertwined


Mm, how you can hurt me
The way you cause me pain


I just don't understand
I cannot comprehend


Well you say that you need me
You claim that you require me


Like the ocean needs sand
Similar to how the sea requires the shore


But the way you mistreat me
However you abuse and neglect me


I just don't understand
I cannot fathom it


Well you know that I love you
You are aware that my love for you


More than anyone can
Surpasses anyone else's


But a one-sided love
However, it's unrequited


I just don't understand (don't understand)
I cannot grasp it (cannot grasp it)


Well you call me your baby
You address me as your loved one


And you hold my hand
And you grasp my hand


Ah, honey, you hurt me
Ah, darling, you cause me pain


And I just don't understand (don't understand)
And I cannot comprehend it (cannot comprehend it)




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Written by: NELSON

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@alee2ja75

Well you call me your baby
When you're holdin' my hand
Mm, how you can hurt me
I just don't understand
Well you say that you need me
Like the ocean needs sand
But the way you mistreat me
I just don't understand
Well you know that I love you
More than anyone can
But a one-sided love
I just don't understand (don't understand)
Well you know that I love you
More than anyone can
But a one-sided love
I just don't understand (don't understand)
Well you call me your baby
And you hold my hand
Ah, honey, you hurt me
And I just don't understand (don't understand)



All comments from YouTube:

@toomanyhobbies2011

A very well-rounded entertainer. Light years beyond the garbage of the present.

@muse7746

She debuted this song on American Bandstand. No one had seen anyone like her back then. Catchy tune. Like it.❤

@tommyl.dayandtherunaways820

John Lennon liked this song so much that the Beatles did a cover of it live at the BBC with him singing the lead vocal. I can see why he liked it, it has that bluesy tone he was really into in the early days.

@mathmusic1490

First song to use a fuzz box on a guitar.

@hankesplain6593

The BEST...

@emailbecky

This is a killer track!

@clarkewi

I was 10 when this came on LA radio. Listening to it now, this is a very well produced record. And then there is lovely Ann-Margret is performing it. A masterpiece for my money.

@dodgelandesman9473

Just heard this on 50s Gold Sirius XM. Boy was I surprised and impressed. Novel use of fuzz guitar, only Marty Robbins did it the year before. Sultry amd soulful vocals. Cool bluesy vibe. Classic but ahead of its time

@done-hr1rp

This could be a hit today!

@dadetim

a song that sounds ahead of its time...... love the fuzz guitar

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