It's in His Kiss
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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Does he love me?
I wanna know
How can I tell if he loves me so?

(Is it in his eyes?)
Oh no! You'll be deceived
(Is it in his size?)
Oh no! He'll make believe
If you wanna know
If he loves you so
It's in his kiss
(That's where it is!)

(Oh yeah! Or is it in his face?)
No girls! It's just his charms
(In his warm embrace?)
No girls! That's just his arms
If you wanna know
If he loves you so
It's in his kiss!
(That's where it is!)
Yeah! It's in his kiss
(That's where it is!)

Oh, oh, oh, hold him,
Squeeze him tight!
Find out what you wanna know
Promise love, and if it really is
Well, it's there in his kiss

(How 'bout the way he acts?)
No no no! That's not the way
You're not listenin' to all I say
If you wanna know
If he loves you so
It's in his kiss!
(That's where it is!)
Oh, yeah! It's in his kiss
(That's where it is!)

Oh, oh, oh, hold him,
Squeeze him tight!
Find out what you wanna know
Promise love, and if it really is
Well, It's there in his kiss

(How 'bout the way he acts?)
No no no! That's not the way
You're not listenin' to all I say
If you wanna know
If he loves you so
It's in his kiss
(That's where it is!)
Oh, yeah! It's in his kiss
(That's where it is!)
Mm! It's in his kiss




(That's where it is)
Mm it's in his kiss

Overall Meaning

Aretha Franklin’s “It’s in His Kiss” is a catchy and upbeat song that delivers a simple message: figuring out whether a man loves you is as simple as paying attention to the way he kisses you. The song is structured around a series of questions, and at each turn, the song's protagonist asks whether it's possible to read her love's feelings are from his behavior, size, or expression, only to be told repeatedly that the answer is no. Instead, the only way to tell if he loves her is in his kiss – a message that is delivered with playful simplicity and catchy melodies throughout the song's duration.


The song's narrator is seeking guidance on how to understand her partner's feelings, and the song suggests that many of the cues she's using to gauge his affection (the way he acts or talks, for example) are not reliable indicators. Instead, the song makes the argument that there's a deeper truth to be found in the way that two people kiss. Specifically, the song suggests that the particular qualities of a kiss – the way it feels, the passion behind it, and so on – are capable of revealing the true depths of the kissers’ feelings. Although the song's advice may not hold up to a rigorous investigation, it nevertheless provides a catchy way of thinking about the importance of physical intimacy as a window into emotion.


Line by Line Meaning

Does he love me?
I am unsure of his feelings towards me.


I wanna know
I want to find out if he loves me or not.


How can I tell if he loves me so?
How can I determine if he truly loves me?


Oh no! You'll be deceived
Don't trust his eyes because they can be misleading.


Oh no! He'll make believe
Don't trust his size because he might pretend.


If you wanna know If he loves you so It's in his kiss (That's where it is!)
If you really want to know if he loves you, then look to his kiss.


(Oh yeah! Or is it in his face?) No girls! It's just his charms (In his warm embrace?) No girls! That's just his arms
It's not in his face or his embrace, it's his overall personality and charm.


Oh, oh, oh, hold him, Squeeze him tight! Find out what you wanna know Promise love, and if it really is Well, it's there in his kiss
Hold him tightly and you will find out if he truly loves you by the way he kisses you.


(How 'bout the way he acts?) No no no! That's not the way You're not listenin' to all I say
His actions are not a clear indication of his love, you need to pay attention to the kiss.


Mm! It's in his kiss (That's where it is)
The true expression of a man's love can be found in his kiss.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Rudy Clark

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Comments from YouTube:

@MrStyle23

Just came for that note...you know the NOTE...the one that made Darlene Love forget she was singing background on TV and made her think she was in the church choir. Aretha raised the octave and the hairs on everybody's arms. THE QUEEN

@arnoldamaral7406

MrStyle23 I loved Miss Darlene. She was so beautiful. And could sing. What a great talent.👸 Arnold Bourbon Amaral 💙💐🌏🌎🌍

@billyjenemusiclover667

Darlene gave an interview years ago and talked about this very performance and mentioned how Aretha moved her and the other singers as well as the band.

@Brend.0

This performance always blows me away. It's just the power behind those upper belts...... Very few can do it and make it sound like a bell ringing. Perfection.....

@TheBrownIsland

Darlene Love is alive & well at 80yrs old and have the Nerve to still look so Good. She's beautiful. Here she in her Music Video in 2015 at 72yrs young performing "Forbidden Nights" while driving a Convertible people. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4915gjpFEo

@jeffcareaga4433

Is that Darlene Love?! Amazing!

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@JaySmith-mz7vg

Darlene FELT that note!! Whew. Ree was SANGING!

@JAZZLlFE

1:40 Darlene was background singer, fan, hype girl, audience member and spectator all at the same time without missing a beat. 😂😂😂

@missmyasia

Darlene was like, BISH YOU BETTER SANG!! Young, Gifted and Black...and beautiful! Rest in peace Queen!

@rosebuddraper2666

Yessssssssss liiiiiiiike......

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