Missing The War
Ben Folds Lyrics


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All is quiet his tired eyes
see figures jotted down
And clothes all strewn around
the bedroom flood
Now nothing's adding up
And nothing's making sense
She's sleeping like a baby
She doesn't like a baby
She doesn't know he wasn't meant for this
I'm missing the war
I'm missing the war all night
Missing the war

He drove home again
Pissed and beaten
Its really no big deal
It happens all the time
Its no big deal
I'm missing the war
I'm missing the war all night
Missing the war
I'm missing the war

'Till beads of sunlight hit me in the morning
So much time so little to say
Time may fly
And dreams may die
The shaking voice that tells him go
Still thinks he might
He knows he won't
I'm missing the war




Missing the war all night
Missing the war

Overall Meaning

The song "Missing The War" by Ben Folds Five depicts the story of a soldier who comes home to an unfaithful wife. The opening lines of the song "All is quiet his tired eyes, see figures jotted down" suggest that the soldier is back home and is trying to make sense of what he sees. The lyrics further describe the chaos in the bedroom, where clothes are strewn around and nothing is adding up. The soldier's wife is sleeping like a baby, oblivious to the fact that her husband is not meant for this kind of treatment.


The second verse is a narration of what the soldier goes through as he returns home. He is beaten and pissed and yet considers it no big deal. The chorus of the song highlights the misses of the war. The soldier seems to be missing everything about the war, perhaps suggesting that the war has become his home and his true calling. The final lines of the song depict the pain and agony of the soldier who knows that he must leave, but still has a shaking voice that tells him to stay.


Overall, the song is a commentary on the trauma and pain that soldiers go through when they return home. It depicts the struggles of a soldier who returns home to find that his wife has been unfaithful, and he is not sure of what to do next. It is a poignant and heartfelt song that highlights the emotional toll of war and its aftermath.


Line by Line Meaning

All is quiet his tired eyes
He is exhausted and seeing things haphazardly


see figures jotted down
Noticing some scribbled notes on paper


And clothes all strewn around
His room is in chaos as clothes are scattered everywhere


the bedroom flood
Room is so cluttered it looks like a river of stuff


Now nothing's adding up
He is unable to grasp the situation


And nothing's making sense
He is confused and lost


She's sleeping like a baby
His wife is fast asleep, oblivious to his struggles


She doesn't like a baby
She doesn't toss and turn like he does


She doesn't know he wasn't meant for this
His wife doesn't realize he is struggling with his life and career choices


I'm missing the war
He misses the excitement and adrenaline rush he once felt when he was in the midst of conflict or competition


I'm missing the war all night
He is preoccupied with thoughts of war and can't sleep


He drove home again
He left the workplace in a defeated state


Pissed and beaten
He is angry and frustrated


Its really no big deal
He is trying to minimize the situation but it is affecting him deeply


It happens all the time
This is a recurring problem for him


I'm missing the war
He is feeling disheartened and missing the thrill of conflict


Till beads of sunlight hit me in the morning
He stays up all night but eventually falls asleep until daylight appears


So much time so little to say
He ponders a lot but can't make sense of his own thoughts


Time may fly
The clock keeps ticking, regardless of his mental state


And dreams may die
His aspirations may never come to fruition


The shaking voice that tells him go
His inner voice urges him to leave and start fresh


Still thinks he might
He wants to believe he can make a change


He knows he won't
But deep down, he knows he can't


I'm missing the war
He is longing for a time when he was engaged in competition and battles


Missing the war all night
It's all he can think about, even when he is trying to sleep


Missing the war
Overall, He is struggling with his current life and is nostalgic for a different time of challenge and excitement




Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BEN FOLDS

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@thirteen2k

Ben Folds Five at their peak. Man, these guys were good.

@lavizol

Still best for me. 벀뽈즈파이브 ν¬λ ˆλ²„!

@jeffa4110

Fuck yes

@velvitjonze

I’ve literally spent 23 years trying to learn this on piano and today I finally got it. Love the song as much now as I did the first time I heard it

@CherubRocket1979

been trying the same on acoustic guitar... even though Ben says that instrument is "illegal" πŸ˜…

@jenzeck8660

How did you learn it??

@velvitjonze

@Jen Zeck a bit of a mix of having the sheet music (since the album came out!), by ear and finally some brilliant tutorials on youtube. It was always the bridge bit I struggled with. Have a watch of this one if you're trying to learn it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-03ClTL3yjw

@jenzeck8660

Thank you so much!!

@velvitjonze

@Jen Zeck you're welcome

@ryandowd7040

My ex and I used to sit at the piano while I tried pathetically to play this and she tried somewhat less pathetically to sing it. It was fantastic.

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