Love Me Or Leave Me
Billie Holiday; Teddy Wilson & His Orchestra Lyrics


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This affair is killin' me
I can't stand uncertainly
Tell me now I've got to know
Whether you want me to stay or to go

Love me or leave me
Or let me be lonely
You won't believe me, I love you only
I'd rather be lonely
Then happy with someone else

You might find the night time
The right time for kissin'
But night time is my time
For just reminiscin'
Regrettin' instead of forgettin'
With somebody else

There'll be no one
Unless that someone is you
I intend to be independently blue
I want your love
But I don't want to borrow
To have it today to give it back tomorrow




For your love is my love
There's no love for nobody else

Overall Meaning

The song "Love Me Or Leave Me" by Billie Holiday, Teddy Wilson & His Orchestra is about the pain and uncertainty of being in a relationship where one's feelings are not clearly expressed or reciprocated. The opening lines of the song communicate this sentiment clearly, with the singer lamenting that the affair is "killin' me" and that they "can't stand uncertainty". The chorus of the song is a desperate plea to the singer's partner to either commit to loving them or allowing them to move on and be alone.


The second verse of the song delves further into the singer's desire to be with their partner, even though they know that being with someone else might make them happier. However, they cannot imagine being with anyone else, as their love is only for their partner. The third verse reflects the singer's preference for nighttime, which is the time they spend reminiscing and regretting instead of being with someone else.


Overall, the lyrics of "Love Me Or Leave Me" paint a picture of a tortured soul who is struggling to come to terms with the uncertainty and unrequited love in their relationship. The singer longs for clarity and commitment, but is afraid to be alone or to lose their partner.


Line by Line Meaning

This affair is killin' me
This relationship is causing me great pain


I can't stand uncertainly
I am unable to tolerate the doubt and indecision


Tell me now I've got to know
Please inform me immediately as I require the information right away


Whether you want me to stay or to go
Please indicate if you desire for me to stay or depart from my present position


Love me or leave me
You must either have affection for me or abandon me


Or let me be lonely
Alternatively, you may leave me alone and isolated


You won't believe me, I love you only
It may seem unlikely, but I only harbor romantic feelings for you


I'd rather be lonely
I would rather endure loneliness


Then happy with someone else
Than to be content with another individual


You might find the night time
You may discover that the evening hours are ideal


The right time for kissin'
As the perfect period for embracing and locking lips


But night time is my time
However, nighttime is the time that I associate with


For just reminiscin'
Simply for recalling the past and reflecting on it


Regrettin' instead of forgettin'
Experiencing remorse rather than disregarding events


With somebody else
If I were to be with another person


There'll be no one
I shall be without anyone


Unless that someone is you
Unless you are the individual in question


I intend to be independently blue
I plan to be self-sufficiently melancholy


I want your love
I desire your affection


But I don't want to borrow
However, I am not interested in borrowing it


To have it today to give it back tomorrow
Receiving it today only to return it tomorrow


For your love is my love
Because your love belongs to me


There's no love for nobody else
There is no love for anyone other than you and me




Lyrics © DONALDSON PUBLISHING CO, TOBAGO MUSIC COMPANY, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Gus Kahn, Walter Donaldson

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