This Modern Love (Dave Pianka'
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To be lost in the forest
To be cut adrift
You've been trying to reach me
You bought me a book
To be lost in the forest
To be cut adrift
I've been paid
I've been paid

Don't get offended
If I seem absent minded
Just keep telling me facts
And keep making me smile
Don't get offended
If I seem absent minded
I get tongue-tied
Baby, you've got to be more discerning
I've never know what's good for me
Baby, you've got to be more demanding
I will be yours

I'll pay for you anytime

You told me you wanted to eat up my sadness
Well jump on, enjoy, you can gorge away
You told me you wanted to eat up my sadness
Jump right
Baby, you've got to be more discerning
I've never know what's good for me
Baby, you've got to be more demanding
Jump left

What are you holding out for?
What's always in the way?
Why so damn absent minded?
Why so scared of romance?

This modern love breaks me
This modern love wastes me





Do you want to come over and kill some time?
Throw your arms around me

Overall Meaning

The song starts with an imagery of being lost in the forest or cut adrift, which is followed by the person trying to reach out to the other by buying them a book. This displays a sense of disconnection and a lost connection, that is both physical and emotional. The lines "Don't get offended if I seem absent-minded, just keep telling me facts and keep making me smile" suggest that the other person is trying to hard to reconnect and trying to make a connection by being demanding or not being discerning enough. However, the singer seems to like it that way and wants the person to be more demanding.


The lines "I've never known what's good for me, you've got to be more discerning, I will be yours" display a sense of vulnerability and a lack of control over one's own life. The chorus, "This modern love breaks me, this modern love wastes me," talks about how the current nature of love in the modern world can be destructive and draining. The lines "Do you want to come over and kill some time and throw your arms around me?" is the singer's way of saying that though he/she is not able to articulate their feelings, they still crave for human connection and interpretation of sadness.


Line by Line Meaning

To be lost in the forest
Feeling uncertain or confused about life's direction and purpose


To be cut adrift
Feeling lost or disconnected from the people and things that matter


You've been trying to reach me
Receiving attempts of communication from someone seeking a deeper connection


You bought me a book
Gifting a means of escape or education from the trials of life


I've been paid
Receiving compensation or reward for one's efforts or hard work


Don't get offended
Requesting understanding and patience for any unusual behavior or lapses in memory


If I seem absent minded
Acknowledging an apparent lack of focus or distraction from reality


Just keep telling me facts
Providing specific and objective information to help stay grounded and present


And keep making me smile
Bringing joy and levity to offset any confusion or distress


I get tongue-tied
Struggling to articulate thoughts or feelings


Baby, you've got to be more discerning
Encouraging a partner to make better choices and understand one's true needs


I've never know what's good for me
Admitting a personal lack of insight or foresight, especially in matters of the heart


Baby, you've got to be more demanding
Challenging a partner to expect and demand better treatment or attention


I will be yours
Promising commitment and loyalty to a partner


I'll pay for you anytime
Willingness to cover expenses and support a partner financially if necessary


You told me you wanted to eat up my sadness
Offering to help alleviate emotional pain or stress in a compassionate way


Well jump on, enjoy, you can gorge away
Urging a partner to accept the offer and indulge in the caring attention


Jump right
Encouraging a partner to embrace a new opportunity or direction


Why so damn absent minded?
Questioning why one might be experiencing such a lack of focus or presence


Why so scared of romance?
Asking why someone might be hesitant or fearful of emotional vulnerability or intimacy


This modern love breaks me
Expressing how modern relationships can be confusing, frustrating, and even painful


This modern love wastes me
Feeling drained or exhausted by the complexity and pressures of modern romance


Do you want to come over and kill some time?
Asking a flirtatious and playful invitation to spend leisure time together


Throw your arms around me
Inviting physical closeness and intimacy in a tender embrace




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: GORDON MOAKES, KELE OKEREKE, MATT TONG, RUSSELL LISSACK

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