Somebody That I Used to Know
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Now and then I think of when we were together
Like when you said you felt so happy you could die
Told myself that you were right for me
But felt so lonely in your company
But that was love and it's an ache I still remember

You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
Like resignation to the end, always the end
So when we found that we could not make sense
Well you said that we would still be friends
But I'll admit that I was glad it was over

But you didn't have to cut me off

Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and I feel so rough
No you didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
Part of me believing it was always something that I'd done
But I don't wanna live that way
Reading into every word you say
You said that you could let it go

And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know
But you didn't have to cut me off

Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and I feel so rough
And you didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Somebody

(I used to know)
Somebody
(Now you're just somebody that I used to know)
(I used to know)
(That I used to know)




(I used to know)
Somebody

Overall Meaning

The song "Somebody That I Used To Know" by Gotye ft. Kimbra is a heartbreaking tale of a failed relationship. The lyrics are mainly sung from the perspective of the male protagonist who is thinking back on his time with his ex-partner. The song starts with him reminiscing about their time together, but he juxtaposes that with the fact that he felt lonely even when they were together. He acknowledges that their relationship was a source of pain for him despite the fact that he loved her.


The chorus of the song is where he confronts his ex-partner for how she treated him after their relationship ended. She cut him off and made it out like their relationship meant nothing. He is hurt by how callously she ended things and how dismissive she is towards him when they now encounter each other. He admits that he doesn't need her love, but he is still hurt by how she treats him like a stranger. The song ends with the male protagonist expressing that he has moved on, and she is now merely somebody that he used to know.


Line by Line Meaning

Now and then I think of when we were together
Occasionally, I reminisce about the time when we were romantically involved


Like when you said you felt so happy you could die
I recall a particular moment when you expressed extreme joy and fulfillment


Told myself that you were right for me
I believed that you were my ideal partner and convinced myself of it


But felt so lonely in your company
However, I often experienced feelings of isolation even though I was with you


But that was love and it's an ache I still remember
Despite the pain it caused me, I recognize that it was love and I still feel that heartache


You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
It's possible to become dependent on a specific type of sadness


Like resignation to the end, always the end
It's similar to accepting that something will inevitably come to an end


So when we found that we could not make sense
When we realized that our relationship was incoherent and illogical


Well you said that we would still be friends
You reassured me that our friendship would continue after the end of our romantic relationship


But I'll admit that I was glad it was over
However, I must confess that I was relieved that it was finally over


But you didn't have to cut me off
I understand that our relationship is over, but there was no need to completely remove me from your life


Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
Treating our past relationship as if it never existed and as if it held no importance


And I don't even need your love
I don't require your love or affection to move on from our relationship


But you treat me like a stranger and I feel so rough
However, the way you currently treat me makes me feel like a complete stranger and causes me emotional distress


No you didn't have to stoop so low
You could have handled our breakup in a more respectful manner


Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
As a way to remove me from your life, you had your friends collect your belongings from me and changed your contact information


I guess that I don't need that though
It's become clear to me that I don't need you or any further contact with you in my life


Now you're just somebody that I used to know
You've become a person from my past, whom I used to know and was once close to


Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
At times, I recall all the moments when you mistreated or betrayed me


Part of me believing it was always something that I'd done
A part of me used to think that I was the one to blame for your mistreatment and believed it was always my fault


But I don't wanna live that way
However, I don't want to continue living with those negative thoughts and baggage


Reading into every word you say
Analyzing and overthinking every word and action from you


You said that you could let it go
You claimed that you could move on and let go of our past relationship


And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know
I assumed that you wouldn't be emotionally attached to me anymore as someone you used to know


Somebody
A reference to the person they used to know and were once romantically involved with


(I used to know)
A repetition of the fact that the person is someone they used to be close to


(Now you're just somebody that I used to know)
Reinforcing the idea that the person is now just a distant memory


(I used to know)
Continuing to emphasize that the relationship is in the past


(That I used to know)
A variation of the previous repetition, further underlining that the person is someone from their past


(I used to know)
Yet another iteration of the fact that the relationship is in the past and no longer exists


Now you're just somebody that I used to know
A final repetition of the title and main point of the song, that the person is just a memory from their past




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@nipungrover7058

gotye ignoring what she's saying and just saying "you didn't have to cut me off" is such a beautiful detail. He hears her but he is so caught up in his own pain that he doesn't look her direction until she starts to go away and him knowing her starts to fade away. He looks in her direction, she's still there but he doesn't know her anymore, she's different, she's distant. Somebody that he used to know. She still exists in his space but it's not who he knew.

I used to enjoy this song. Something Terrible happened last year and she cut me off. I never heard from her again, the song started to hurt a lot when i paid attention to the lyrics.

It's the eerie feeling that they as are still alive but you're strangers, a person who you used to share every single thing in your life, and all of a sudden you don't even know them anymore.

I can't describe how much the lyrics resonate. "You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness" and the pain even tho he says "but I'll admit they I'm glad it was over".

I'm sorry for anyone going through that ❤ it'll all be good in the end, it'll all work out



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@TheStormBolt-gf8qi

Memories

@udjdjjdnx3978

Borra tu comentario master

@Prima422

Ricardo? I'M SUCH A BIG FAN

@TheDonjones19

Always the end. You said we would still be friends. You didn't have to cut me off

@BartSimpson90s

@@udjdjjdnx3978 alch, pinche morra basica

@udjdjjdnx3978

@@BartSimpson90s .-.

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@888crispin

Maybe he's been camouflauging into our walls this whole time.
Maybe he never left.

@dayen9470

Lol

@ALISONC83

C0ntho that maybe me happy not gonna lie

@JoNJamEz1

Shoto. Todoroki.1A1 I had a mini stroke reading that becuase you put maybe instead of made me, llooll

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