Harder
Brooke Daye Lyrics


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I'm mad at myself for thinking you would change
But you'll never change
You're mad at yourself-seeing the worst of me
Yeah that's all you see

Keep on saying you need me
Then you say it's all my fault
Staying with you ain't easy
But breaking up is

So much harder than I thought
Don't wanna feel this over and over again
This is harder than I thought
cnd hate that it'd be worse if we're, worse if we're friends

Yeah it's getting
Ha ha ha
Harder, harder getting
Ha ha ha

Yeah it's getting
Ha ha ha
Harder, harder getting
Ha ha ha

I hate what we are cause we just stay the same
I don't want the same
Just cause we're in love doesn't mean we're okay
No we're not okay

Keep on saying you need me
Then you say it's all my fault
Staying with you ain't easy
But breaking up is

So much harder than I thought
Don't wanna feel this over and over again
This is harder than I thought
cnd hate that it'd be worse if we're, worse if we're friends

Yeah it's getting
Ha ha ha
Harder, harder getting
Ha ha ha

Yeah it's getting
Ha ha ha
Harder, harder getting
Ha ha ha

Yeah it's getting
Ha ha ha
Harder, harder getting
Ha ha ha

Yeah it's getting
Ha ha ha
Harder, harder getting
Ha ha ha





I'm mad at myself for thinking you would change
But you'll never change

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Brooke Daye's song "HARDER" convey a sense of frustration and disillusionment in a tumultuous relationship. The singer begins by expressing regret and self-blame for believing that their partner would change, acknowledging that the partner is unlikely to ever change their ways. The partner, in turn, seems to only see the worst in the singer, leading to mutual resentment and introspection.


The repetitive cycle of the relationship is highlighted as the partner alternates between professing a need for the singer and placing blame on them, creating a volatile and challenging dynamic. The singer acknowledges that staying in this relationship is difficult, but the thought of breaking up is even more daunting than anticipated. The internal struggle is palpable as the singer grapples with conflicting emotions and the fear of repeating the painful cycle over and over again.


The chorus captures the increasing difficulty and heaviness of the situation, with the word "harder" repeated in a haunting and almost mocking manner. The juxtaposition of laughter (represented by "ha ha ha") with the weight of the lyrics creates a sense of discomfort and irony. The singer expresses a desire to break free from the cycle and escape the pain, recognizing that maintaining a friendship post-breakup could potentially be even more challenging and painful.


The closing lines bring the song full circle, with the singer once again expressing disappointment in themselves for holding onto hope that the partner would change, despite knowing deep down that change is unlikely. The repetition of this sentiment underscores a sense of resignation and acceptance of the complexities and limitations of the relationship. Overall, the lyrics of "HARDER" paint a raw and honest portrait of the struggles and emotional complexities inherent in a toxic relationship, capturing the internal turmoil and conflict with poignancy and introspection.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm mad at myself for thinking you would change
Regretting my naivety in believing you could be different


But you'll never change
Understanding that your behavior will always remain the same


You're mad at yourself-seeing the worst of me
Feeling frustrated as you witness my flaws and shortcomings


Yeah that's all you see
Realizing that you only focus on the negative aspects of me


Keep on saying you need me
Continuously expressing the desire for my presence in your life


Then you say it's all my fault
Blaming me for everything that goes wrong in our relationship


Staying with you ain't easy
Acknowledging the challenges of remaining in a difficult relationship


But breaking up is
Recognizing that ending the relationship would be even harder


So much harder than I thought
Realizing the emotional difficulty of ending things


Don't wanna feel this over and over again
Avoiding the pain of repeating the same cycle repeatedly


This is harder than I thought
Expressing the unexpected intensity of the emotional turmoil


And hate that it'd be worse if we're, worse if we're friends
Disliking the idea that maintaining a friendship post-breakup could lead to more complications


Yeah it's getting Ha ha ha Harder, harder getting Ha ha ha
Sarcastically laughing at the increasing difficulty of the situation




Lyrics Β© Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Brooke Johnson, Gabe Reali, Michael Hart

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