Just the Way You Are
COME CLOSER Lyrics
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Now invite strangers in your home
You had a lot to say, never bottled up
And now you find yourself all alone
And they say oh, that′s just the way you are
Yeah, never bottled up
But this time you took it way to far
Let the lies slip off your tongue
You're quoting books about genocide
But you can′t keep the dirty bath water in the tub
The harrows got too close
They took off your toes
You crossed deals with the devil, man
That's the way it goes
And they say, oh that's just the way you are
Yeah, never bottled up
But this time you took it way to far
And as you ride out into the sunset
Let the lies slip off your tongue
You′re quoting books about genocide
But you can′t keep the dirty bath water in the tub
Ex-friends, now enemies and then you fell in love
Now invite strangers in your home
You had a lot to say, never bottled up
And now you find yourself all alone
And they say oh, oh, oh that's just the way you are
Yeah, never bottled up
But this time you took it way to far
And as you ride out into the sunset
Let the lies slip off your tongue
You′re quoting books about genocide
But you can't keep the dirty bath water in the tub
The lyrics of "Just The Way You Are" by COME CLOSER depict a narrative of a person who used to have close friendships but eventually they turned into enemies. However, amidst this animosity, they found love, and now they welcome strangers into their home. This person had always been vocal and never held back their thoughts and opinions. But now, they find themselves alone, and people attribute their loneliness to their unchanging nature, saying "that's just the way you are."
The lyrics highlight a situation where the person has taken things too far. As they metaphorically ride out into the sunset, they continue to tell lies and use deceitful tactics. The line about quoting books about genocide suggests that they may be using intellectualizing or rhetorical techniques to justify their actions. However, they are unable to contain their true intentions, represented by the "dirty bath water," which cannot be kept in the tub.
The repetition of the chorus emphasizes their unaltered nature and how it has led to their current predicament. Despite their earlier openness and uninhibited expression, this time they have gone too far, pushing people away and ending up alone.
Overall, the lyrics of "Just The Way You Are" explore the consequences of being unapologetically oneself, showing how it can both attract and repel others, ultimately leading to isolation and self-reflection.
Line by Line Meaning
Ex-friends, now enemies and then you fell in love
Your relationship with someone who was once your friend has turned sour, but despite that, you still ended up developing romantic feelings for them.
Now invite strangers in your home
You have become open to welcoming unfamiliar people into your personal space, perhaps as a way to fill the void left by your failed friendships.
You had a lot to say, never bottled up
You have always been expressive and never suppressed your thoughts or emotions.
And now you find yourself all alone
Despite your openness, you now feel abandoned and isolated.
And they say oh, that's just the way you are
People attribute your current circumstances to your inherent nature, as if it was inevitable for you to end up this way.
Yeah, never bottled up
Indeed, you have always been vocal and unrestrained.
But this time you took it way too far
However, on this occasion, you have crossed the line and exceeded acceptable limits.
And as you ride out into the sunset
As you move forward and leave the past behind, embarking on a new journey or chapter in your life.
Let the lies slip off your tongue
Allow yourself to let go of the falsehoods and deceit that you have been carrying, freeing yourself from the burden of pretending.
You′re quoting books about genocide
You are making references to books or ideas related to mass killings or destruction, hinting at the dark thoughts or knowledge you possess.
But you can't keep the dirty bath water in the tub
You are unable to contain or hide the unclean aspects or secrets that are associated with you, similar to how you can't prevent water from spilling out of a bathtub.
The harrows got too close
You experienced extreme difficulties or troubles that came dangerously near to causing harm.
They took off your toes
These hardships deprived you of important or necessary support, leaving you handicapped in some manner.
You crossed deals with the devil, man
You engaged in questionable or morally wrong agreements or collaborations, aligning yourself with malevolent forces.
That's the way it goes
This is a typical outcome or consequence of your actions or circumstances.
And they say, oh that's just the way you are
Once again, people attribute your current situation to your inherent nature, as if it was inevitable for you to end up this way.
Writer(s): Jay Wang
Contributed by Josiah F. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
xAlbinopiratex
There is nothing better to make me happy than summer club music 🥰
Music
What a beautiful song. I still love it twenty years on. It reminds me of better times with higher quality people.
JL
Before covid
Saleem Frazer
I absolutely love the vibes from this song and visual direction of the video. So fun, vibrant, and beautiful. It immediately changes the mood of the day to something brighter.
Paola Edvige
True✨
Rey Flowers
Im still playing this in clubs & bars never gets old 😍
Roman Robazza
you have good perception.
Kristobliss
I am 38 and I can tell you if I walk into a pub and I hear this I am gonna be in a good mood! :)
lxdimension
@Kristobliss me too and me too haha
SB90LFC
Truely one of the greatest songs ever. Hard to think it’s almost 20 years old now