Closer To You
Carrie Newcomer Lyrics


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Missouri's tied together like a rolling rag rug
Bit and pieces and necessity and love
You can sense the proud and working dirt poor
Clean and pressed like Sunday shirt but edge worn

Chorus: You think by now we'd be a little further on
For all this tumbling we've been through
As I'm leaving Missouri into Southern Illinois
I feel like I'm finally getting closer to you

When women look for answer then learn to listen and sit still
Men think they've got to take some kind of stand
Yet we're drawn together like magnet to magnet
Spend years trying to explain again

Chorus: You think by now we'd be a little further on
For all this tumbling we've been through
As I'm leaving Missouri into Southern Illinois
I feel like I'm finally getting closer to you

There's a photo on the table of my family and me
Taken in some studio in 1963
The faces are familiar but I can't tell you why
Most families nod and then they sigh

Chorus: You think by now we'd be a little further on
For all this tumbling we've been through
As I'm leaving Missouri into Southern Illinois
I feel like I'm finally getting closer to you

When I get healed I'm gonna be a healer
That's just the nature of those things
We don't exist in any solid form
We're always moving and changing

Chorus: You think by now we'd be a little further on
For all this tumbling we've been through




As I'm leaving Missouri into Southern Illinois
I feel like I'm finally getting closer to you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Carrie Newcomer's song "Closer to You" reflects on the journey of life and the search for understanding and connection. The opening verse draws comparisons between the state of Missouri and a "rolling rag rug," made up of various pieces bound together by necessity and love. Despite the impression of proud, hard-working people, there is also a sense of weariness and the struggles of poverty that defines characters throughout the song.


The chorus repeats throughout the song, emphasizing the ongoing journey of growth and self-discovery. As the singer travels into Southern Illinois from Missouri (perhaps a metaphorical journey), she feels like she is finally getting closer to understanding and connecting with someone or something.


The second verse talks about the different ways in which men and women seek answers and understanding, with women learning to listen and be still while men feel the need to take a stand. But regardless of different approaches, people come together "like magnet to magnet" and spend years trying to understand each other.


The last verse brings in a personal aspect with the singer looking at a family photo from decades ago. While the faces are familiar, there is a sense of distance and not fully understanding why things have turned out the way they did. However, the chorus emphasizes the ongoing journey of healing and growth, with the hope of becoming a healer in the end.


Overall, the song is about the search for understanding, connection, and growth. It acknowledges the struggles and weariness of life but emphasizes the ongoing journey towards becoming whole.


Line by Line Meaning

Missouri's tied together like a rolling rag rug
Missouri is connected just like a handmade rag rug, made up of various bits and pieces woven together in a unique way.


Bit and pieces and necessity and love
The rag rug of Missouri is made up of remnants of material that were needed and loved by the people who created it.


You can sense the proud and working dirt poor
Despite facing financial struggles, the people of Missouri have a sense of pride and dignity in their work and in themselves.


Clean and pressed like Sunday shirt but edge worn
Even though they may appear polished on the surface, the people of Missouri have experienced hardship and wear and tear, just like a well-loved shirt.


Chorus: You think by now we'd be a little further on For all this tumbling we've been through As I'm leaving Missouri into Southern Illinois I feel like I'm finally getting closer to you
Despite all the struggles and challenges faced, the singer feels like they are finally making progress towards a deeper connection with another person.


When women look for answer then learn to listen and sit still
Women often find answers by being still and paying attention, rather than taking action.


Men think they've got to take some kind of stand
Men tend to feel the need to take action and make a quick decision, rather than being patient and listening.


Yet we're drawn together like magnet to magnet
Despite differences in communication styles, the two genders are still naturally and strongly attracted to one another.


Spend years trying to explain again
It can take years of trying to communicate before some people truly understand each other.


There's a photo on the table of my family and me Taken in some studio in 1963 The faces are familiar but I can't tell you why Most families nod and then they sigh
The singer recognizes their family members in an old photo but can't quite put their finger on what makes it special, and often that's the feeling we get when looking at old family photos – a bittersweet nostalgia.


When I get healed I'm gonna be a healer That's just the nature of those things
When the singer has found healing, they will likely want to help others find it as well. It's just the natural progression of things.


We don't exist in any solid form We're always moving and changing
As humans, we are a constantly evolving and changing species. We are never in a solid, unchanging form.




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