Holding Someone's Hair Back
Circa Survive Lyrics


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Don't say a word.
Don't be grateful.
If I ever made you laugh.
Let's make believe what's at stake here's more than just your reputation.
She's got the photos but no recollection.
He's got the motive but no transportation.
Purely courteous across her chest.
Are you cutting me out now, after crawling inside.

Turn away your head.
What do I deserve instead?
It's a surprise you haven't caught on yet.
It's nothing personal you're an embarrassment.
Don't cut me out.




We're offering nothing but the best accommodations.
Just tell us who you are.

Overall Meaning

The song Holding Someone's Hair Back by Circa Survive is often interpreted to be about a situation that involves shame, guilt, and regret. Throughout the song, the singer addresses their listener, who is presumed to have done something shameful or embarrassing, and they reassure them that they won't be judged or condemned for it. The lyrics "don't be grateful" and "don't cut me out" suggest that the listener may be trying to distance themselves from the singer and the situation, perhaps out of shame or guilt.


The lines "let's make believe what's at stake here's more than just your reputation" and "purely courteous across her chest" could be interpreted to mean that the situation involves someone who has done something inappropriate or unbecoming that could damage their reputation. The lines "she's got the photos but no recollection" and "he's got the motive but no transportation" suggest that someone has evidence of this wrongdoing, but the details are hazy, and the listener is trying to distance themselves from the situation.


The chorus of the song encourages the listener not to turn away from the situation and to confront it head-on. The lyrics "turn away your head, what do I deserve instead?" and "just tell us who you are" suggest that the singer wants the listener to be honest about what happened and not to hide from the truth. Overall, the song is a plea for honesty and openness in the face of shame and guilt.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't say a word.
Please keep quiet.


Don't be grateful.
No need to thank me.


If I ever made you laugh.
If I ever brought you joy.


Let's make believe what's at stake here's more than just your reputation.
Let's pretend that there's more to lose than just your image.


She's got the photos but no recollection.
She has pictures, but doesn't remember.


He's got the motive but no transportation.
He has a reason, but no means to act on it.


Purely courteous across her chest.
Her shirt only displays politeness.


Are you cutting me out now, after crawling inside.
Are you abandoning me now, after getting close to me?


Turn away your head.
Please look away.


What do I deserve instead?
What do I deserve in return?


It's a surprise you haven't caught on yet.
It's surprising you haven't realized this.


It's nothing personal you're an embarrassment.
You're not a problem, just an embarrassment.


Don't cut me out.
Please don't abandon me.


We're offering nothing but the best accommodations.
We're providing the best services possible.


Just tell us who you are.
Please identify yourself.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@MJ-ny3kp

Don't say a word
Don't be grateful
If I ever made you laugh
Let's make believe
What's at stake here's more than just your reputation
She's got the photos, but no recollection
He's got the motive, but no transportation
Purely courteous across my chest
Are you cutting me out now
After crawling inside?
Turn away your head
What do I deserve
What do I deserve instead?
It's a surprise you haven't caught on yet
It's nothing personal, you're an embarrassment
Don't cut me out
We're offering nothing but the best accommodations
Just tell us who you are
Just tell us who you are
We're offering nothing but the best accommodations
Just tell us who you are
Just tell us who you are
Turn away your head
What do I deserve
What do I deserve instead?
It's a surprise you haven't caught on yet
It's nothing personal, you're an embarrassment
Don't cut me out
It's a surprise you haven't caught on yet
It's nothing personal, you're an embarrassment
Don't cut me out
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All comments from YouTube:

@MoMo-pp9ko

I was 15 when this came out and I love it the same 32 🤘🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@moonsuns2941

True That!!!

@sethgauby8730

Their whole discography is solid and I was 15 upon release too lol

@droptherapy2085

@@sethgauby8730 I was like turning two

@robharding9861

Yes same been listening since then!!!

@whoozyyy

I was 17, I’m 33 now 🥳

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@ArningEchanoPH

Anyone who listened to this in their early teens, be proud of yourselves, you have good taste in music.

@brittanygeenalevine

Can't believe it's been 12+ years since I first listened to this album. Still so insanely good. 2020 is a good year to get back in touch with your angsty youth.

@mixmiketalks3983

This record blew my mind and still does. I'm old anyway but fuck watcha heard, I'm 42 and this record is on my top 10 of influentials. Got to see them back in I think in 2011 or 2012 in Baltimore, awesome show.

It's nothing personal, I'm an embarassment.

@HeyChicagoWhattaSay

41 in a month. Seen Anthony perform with Saosin, Circa Survive and Sound of Animals Fighting. Awesome artist!!!

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