I Really Don't Want to Know
Connie Francis Lyrics


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How many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, how many, i wonder
But i really don't want

And how many lips have kissed you
And set, set your soul aglow
How many, how many, i wonder
But i really don't want to know

So always make me wonder
And always make me guess
Even if i ask you
Oh darling don't confess

Just let remain your secret
Oh for darling, darling i love you so
No wonder, no wonder, i wonder
'cause i really don't want,





How many, how many i wonder
But i really don't want to know

Overall Meaning

Connie Francis's song "I Really Don't Want to Know" consists of two verses with repeated questions. The lyrics are about a relationship in which the singer wonders about the number of arms and the number of lips that her lover has experienced before they met. She admits that she doesn't want an answer to her questions but prefers to be left in the dark about her lover's past.


The repeated questions about the number of arms and lips create a sense of jealousy and insecurity. The singer's request to keep her love's past secret is an example of unconditional love that does not depend on any external circumstances. The singer's desire to remain in the dark about her lover's past could be interpreted as a willingness to overlook any faults or mistakes that her lover may have made. The lyrics also suggest that the singer values the present moment and wants to focus on the love that they share now, rather than dwelling on the past.


Line by Line Meaning

How many arms have held you
How many people have embraced you with intense feelings, and were devastated once you left their arms


And hated to let you go
They didn't just simply let you leave, they felt a strong desire to hold on to you and never let you go


How many, how many, i wonder
The singer is curious about the amount of people who have held the person they love


But i really don't want
Despite being curious, the artist does not desire to know the answer to the question


And how many lips have kissed you
The number of people who have expressed their love to you by kissing your lips are unknown to the artist


And set, set your soul aglow
The singer assumes that the kisses that the person they love received, kindled a deep passion and heartfelt emotions within them


So always make me wonder
Leaving things unsaid and unknown keeps the singer wondering about the love they share with the person and wanting more


And always make me guess
By not giving a direct answer, the artist is regularly forced to make assumptions and guesses


Even if i ask you
Despite the fact that the artist may want to know the amount of people the person they love has been with, they would rather not ask


Oh darling don't confess
The artist pleads with the person they love not to admit to the number of people they have been with


Just let remain your secret
The singer wants to keep the secret safe as they love the person who holds the secret so much that they feel that knowing the truth may change their perception of them


Oh for darling, darling i love you so
The artist is deeply in love with the person, and what they have shared is more important than stale knowledge of the person's past


No wonder, no wonder, i wonder
The singer still wonders about the person's relationship past, but chooses to remain clueless because it doesn't matter to their current relationship


'cause i really don't want,
Again, reiterating that knowing the truth is not important and that being in love and happy in the moment is more important than knowing past relationships


How many, how many i wonder
The repeated line reinforces in the singer's mind the question of how many people the person has been with but rejects the answer to it


But i really don't want to know
The song's main message, that the artist is comfortably ignorant of the person's relationships past and would rather not know




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Comments from YouTube:

frankie hunter

Wonderful interpretation of Les Paul & Mary Ford's classic (No. 11 in 1954). Connie could sing as good as the best c&w artists.

mrsimian100

As distinctly beautiful as her heart filled voice. The image and grace of lady surely defined

connie francis

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Thanks for your love and support that has brought me this far, it has been a hard time for me going through this but your love and support keeps me going and standing strong in this difficult times. I do read your heartwarming comments and I truly appreciate all youโ€™ve done for me throughout the years.
Itโ€™s a season of love๐Ÿ˜โค๏ธโค๏ธ for me and so I decided to put a smile on the faces of my fans by going through my YouTube channel am checking out on my fans, so I can get to communicate with my fans better through discussion of depth and humor listening to o and criticism of my career.๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’•

crooner2007

Beautiful voice. I can imagine a young Karen Carpenter listening to this and being influenced by it.

connie francis

Hi dear๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน
Thanks for your love and support that has brought me this far, it has been a hard time for me going through this but your love and support keeps me going and standing strong in this difficult times. I do read your heartwarming comments and I truly appreciate all youโ€™ve done for me throughout the years.
Itโ€™s a season of love๐Ÿ˜โค๏ธโค๏ธ for me and so I decided to put a smile on the faces of my fans by going through my YouTube channel am checking out on my fans, so I can get to communicate with my fans better through discussion of depth and humor listening to o and criticism of my career.๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’•

DocHollidayRet

She did a wonderful job on this good to hear a woman ask the questions. I think the women wonder to.

connie francis

Hi dear๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน
Thanks for your love and support that has brought me this far, it has been a hard time for me going through this but your love and support keeps me going and standing strong in this difficult times. I do read your heartwarming comments and I truly appreciate all youโ€™ve done for me throughout the years.
Itโ€™s a season of love๐Ÿ˜โค๏ธโค๏ธ for me and so I decided to put a smile on the faces of my fans by going through my YouTube channel am checking out on my fans, so I can get to communicate with my fans better through discussion of depth and humor listening to o and criticism of my career.๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’•

barich3353

Ballods, counrty, classical, there's no genre Connie doesn't do. The best always

Ging Parpida

The best of all

graham1281

They CAN'T sing like that these days, such a shame

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