My Father's Son
Connor Reeves Lyrics


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Heart over mind
Yes I'm
My father's son
I live my life just like
My father's done

If he'd have told me
One day
That somebody'd have my heart in chains
Would I believe it?
No way
Made up my mind I'd never fall that way

But tell me why
Everytime I try
To tell you it's goodbye
I can't seem to let go in my heart
I know I want to stay
What I'm trying to say

Heart over mind
Yes I'm
My father's son
Guess I'm inclined to do
As my father's done

And I live my life
As my father's done

Here I am with you
And you know that it's true
Despite all the feelings
Your putting me through
Try to walk away
But something makes me stay

Heart over mind
Yes I'm
My father's son
I live my life just like
My father's done

But tell me why
Every time I try
To tell you it's goodbye
I can't seem to let go in my heart
I know I want to stay
Never run away

My father's son

And I live my life
As my father's done

If he'd have told me
One day
That someone would have my heart in chains
Would I believe it
No way
Made up my mind I'd never fall that way

But it's heart over mind
Yes I'm
My father's son

And I live my life
Inclined to do
As my father's done

Heart over mind




Yes I'm
My father's son

Overall Meaning

In Connor Reeves's song My Father's Son, the singer explores the idea of living one's life as their father has done before them, despite initially thinking that they would not follow in their father's footsteps. He sings about how he always believed that he would never let someone have his heart in chains, but he finds himself unable to let go of someone who is causing him pain. Despite trying to walk away, he is compelled to stay because of the pull of his heart over his mind. The lyrics "Heart over mind, yes I'm my father's son" suggest that the singer's tendency to prioritize his heart over his mind is a trait that he has inherited from his father.


The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "Heart over mind, yes I'm my father's son" four times, emphasizing the theme of the song. The second verse explores the singer's struggle to leave a relationship despite the pain it causes him. The repeated line "But tell me why, every time I try to tell you it's goodbye, I can't seem to let go in my heart" expresses the inner conflict the singer feels between his logical decision to walk away and his emotional attachment to the person.


Overall, the song is a reflective look at the influence that parents have on their children's lives and the way in which traits and habits can be passed down through generations.


Line by Line Meaning

Heart over mind
Despite what my mind is telling me, my heart controls my actions and decisions.


Yes I'm
I am fully aware of this tendency within myself.


My father's son
I am repeating the patterns of behavior that I observed in my father.


I live my life just like
I emulate my father's actions and choices in my own life.


If he'd have told me
If my father had warned me about the trials of love.


One day
At some point in time.


That somebody'd have my heart in chains
That I would fall deeply in love with someone who would cause me emotional distress and pain.


Would I believe it?
I would have doubted his warning.


No way
I would have adamantly dismissed his cautionary advice.


Made up my mind I'd never fall that way
I had decided in my mind that I would not repeat my father's mistakes in love.


But tell me why
However, my current experience with love has proved my previous assumptions to be inaccurate.


Everytime I try
Despite my attempts.


To tell you it's goodbye
To end things with the person who is causing me pain.


I can't seem to let go in my heart
I am emotionally attached to this person and cannot sever that connection.


I know I want to stay
Despite the pain, I still desire to be with this person.


What I'm trying to say
The point I am trying to make.


Guess I'm inclined to do
I am predisposed to act in the same way as my father did.


And I live my life
This behavior is reflected in every aspect of my life.


Here I am with you
In this current moment with you.


And you know that it's true
You understand the extent to which I am affected by you.


Despite all the feelings
Regardless of the pain and heartache that you cause me.


Your putting me through
The emotional turmoil that I am experiencing as a result of our relationship.


Try to walk away
Attempting to distance myself from you.


But something makes me stay
Despite my best efforts, I cannot break away from you.


Never run away
I refuse to abandon this relationship, despite knowing the pain it will cause me.




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@ionasanaa3844

Loved it as a teen. Love it now as a grown 40 year old woman . Classic feel good tune.

@waynehill5923

I truly believe that Conner never received the credit he deserved for his amazing talent.

@louisebernadette9358

💯💯💯

@debashisde1184

Absolutely

@millsdoris1397

Choice fm hyped him up then pulled the rug from under him love him ❤❤❤

@susanaramos3762

Agreed!

@NathanVeenstra

I totally agree. Got me the album back in the day, but it just didn’t make any ripples here in the Netherlands.

@thepersonwhoisunknown3787

I played this at my dad's funeral, held myself right up until this came on. I play this every year with a little glass of wine in my hand. We bothed loved this song and it meant a lot to us. Thank you. X

@allroundalpha1434

Much love , my dad played this song and sang it years ago too
Awesome Song and Voice.

@aidenoleary7406

What a beautiful story. Much love from me❤️

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