You're Not Alone
D. Bedingfield Lyrics


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If you're not the one then why does my soul feel glad today?
If you're not the one then why does my hand fit yours this way?
If you are not mine then why does your heart return my call?
If you are not mine would I have the strength to stand at all?

I never know what the future brings,
But I know you are here with me now,
We'll make it through,
And I hope you are the one I share my life with

I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand,
If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am?
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?

If I don't need you then why am I crying on my bed?
If I don't need you then why does your name resound in my head?
If you're not for me then why does this distance maim my life?
If you're not for me then why do I dream of you as my wife?

I don't know why you're so far away,
But I know that this much is true,
We'll make it through,
And I hope you are the one I share my life with,
And I wish that you could be the one I die with,
And I pray in you're the one I build my home with,
I hope I love you all my life

I don't want to run away but I can't take it , I don't understand,
If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am?
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?

'Cause I miss you body and soul so strong that it takes my breath away,
And I breathe you into my heart and pray for the strength to stand today,
'Cause I love you, whether it's wrong or right,
And though I can't be with you tonight,
You know my heart is by your side

I don't want to run away but I can't take it,
I don't understand,




If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am?
Is there any way I can stay in your arms?

Overall Meaning

The song "If You're Not The One" by Daniel Bedingfield is a poignant love song about a person grappling with their feelings for someone else. The singer starts off with a question that seems to be directed at their love interest: if you're not the one, then why do I feel happy and content when I think about you? Why do our hands fit so perfectly together if you're not meant to be mine? The singer is aware of the possibility that this person might not be their one true love, but they can't ignore the way they feel.


The second verse shows the singer's increasing confusion about their situation. They don't want to leave, but they don't understand why they're feeling this way if they're not meant to be together. They're struggling with the idea that maybe they're not really meant to be together, but they can't stop thinking about this person. The chorus repeats the same questions, as if the singer is trying to convince themselves that they're making the right decision. The bridge introduces a new element - the singer is physically separated from their love interest, and the distance is causing them pain. They miss this person so much that it feels like they can't breathe, and their hope that they're meant to be together is what gives them the strength to carry on.


Overall, the song is an exploration of the complexities of love and how it can leave us feeling confused, uncertain, and vulnerable. Despite the singer's doubts and fears, they are unable to deny the feelings they have for this person and hope that they are the one they will spend their life with.


Line by Line Meaning

If you're not the one then why does my soul feel glad today?
If we're not meant to be together, then why do I feel so happy and content when I'm with you?


If you're not the one then why does my hand fit yours this way?
If we're not meant to be together, then why do we fit so perfectly and naturally when we hold hands?


If you are not mine then why does your heart return my call?
If you're not mine, then why do you still respond to me and show that you care?


If you are not mine would I have the strength to stand at all?
If you weren't a part of my life, would I even have the willpower to keep going?


I never know what the future brings, But I know you are here with me now, We'll make it through, And I hope you are the one I share my life with
I don't know what the future holds, but I'm grateful for your presence in my life right now. Despite the uncertainty, I have faith that we'll get through whatever comes our way, and I hope we can spend the rest of our lives together.


I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand, If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am?
I don't want to leave or give up on us, but I'm struggling to comprehend why I feel such a strong connection to you if we're not meant to be together.


Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?
I long to be close to you and feel your embrace. Is there any chance that we can be together like this?


If I don't need you then why am I crying on my bed?
If I don't actually need you, then why am I so emotional and upset without you?


If I don't need you then why does your name resound in my head?
If I don't truly need you, then why do I keep thinking about you and constantly hearing your name in my thoughts?


If you're not for me then why does this distance maim my life?
If we're not meant to be together, then why is this separation causing me so much pain and negatively affecting my entire life?


If you're not for me then why do I dream of you as my wife?
If we're not meant to be together, then why do I still dream about us getting married and spending our lives together?


I don't know why you're so far away, But I know that this much is true, We'll make it through, And I hope you are the one I share my life with, And I wish that you could be the one I die with, And I pray in you're the one I build my home with, I hope I love you all my life
I don't understand why there's distance between us or what the future holds. However, I do know that I believe in our love and our ability to overcome any challenges. I hope we can spend our lives together, grow old together, and build a home filled with love.


'Cause I miss you body and soul so strong that it takes my breath away, And I breathe you into my heart and pray for the strength to stand today, 'Cause I love you, whether it's wrong or right, And though I can't be with you tonight, You know my heart is by your side
I miss you with every part of me, and the longing is so intense that it's overwhelming. I hold you in my heart and pray that I can find the strength to keep going. Whether our love is right or wrong, I know that I love you and my heart is with you, even if we can't physically be together right now.


Is there any way I can stay in your arms?
I don't want to be apart from you, and all I want is to be in your loving embrace.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Daniel Bedingfield

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@Nayops23

0:02
^ If you're not the one then why does my soul feel glad today
If you're not the one then why does my hand fit yours this way
If you are not mine then why does your heart return my call
If you are not mine would I have the strength to stand at all
I'll never know what the future brings
But I know you're here with me now
We'll make it through
0:43
^ And I hope you are the one I share my life with
I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand
If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am
1:07
^ Is there any way that I can stay in your arms
If I don't need you then why am I crying on my bed
If I don't need you then why does your name resound in my head
If you're not for me then why does this distance maim my life
1:42
^ If you're not for me then why do I dream of you as my wife
I don't know why you're so far away
But I know that this much is true
We'll make it through
And I hope you are the one I share my life with
And I wish that you could be the one I die with
And I'm prayin you're the one I build my home with
I hope I love you all my life
2:27
^ I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand
If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms
Cause I miss you, body and soul so strong that it takes my breath away
And I breathe you into my heart and
Pray for the strength to stand today
Cause I love you, whether it's wrong or right
And though I can't be with you tonight
You know my heart is by your side
3:23
^ I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand
If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am
Is there any way that I could stay in your arms🎤



All comments from YouTube:

@karinnaalynn

I would like to dedicate this song to my great man ever in my life Zen, he is the best thing that come to my life and still and i hope he is the one I can share the rest of my life with. I know I'm not a perfect girl, but I love him more than he could ever imagine. I don't have any reasons why him but all i know he is the precious thing in my life now and then. We passed ups and downs in this life together, and im so thankful for having him besides me. He is such a true home, and we will make this thousands of worth happiness. Thank you for uploading this and God bless you

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@herdydwiyana7035

God replace the good man to the best man

@jimmusthegrimmace

Im guessing he makes good money, women chase paper

@aisyahhariri5288

T🎉ur

@al_z178

2023

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@buckwildgone7942

16 years ago this song fit my life so well and there was this one person who I wanted to share my life with more than anything in the world, so much so that this song broke my heart every time I listened to it. I went through a very tough 6 - 7 months fighting for this woman who I loved but spent every day with her abusive husband. We jump to today. I have been with this wonderful woman for 15 years and we have been married for 7 years and we love each other more today than we ever have. I still can't listen to this song without tears but now they are tears of joy. Anyone who is fighting for that one special person, all I can say is don't give up on them no matter how long it takes, if they are the one for you they are worth fighting for no matter how long it takes!!!

@chuichuidiane0324

awwe

@desmonderic7903

Yeah that's lovely

@buckwildgone7942

Thanks guys!! Today is actually our 16 year anniversary of being together. We will be married in 8 years Oct. 22. Love her more everyday. Wish everyone could have what we have.

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