The album interweaves relationship songs (“Bluff,” “Love and Hate”), interior dialogues (“Still Tryin’,” “Pulled Tight”) and pieces inspired by the need for catharsis—her own and, by extension, that of her listeners (“Not Always Easy,” “Swirl”). These dozen songs also reveal a young woman in firm possession of a supple, hyper-melodic style, writing with a sophistication that belies her age. Because of the silky, disarming ease of her songs, Willis has been described as a female Jack Johnson, but below the surface this introspective yet life-embracing young artist brings a cutting-edge liveliness to the confessional singer/songwriter tradition that recalls the music of Rickie Lee Jones at the same age. Like Jones three decades earlier, Willis is turning the conventional notion of the young woman with an acoustic guitar on its ear.
Willis began recording the tracks that would grow into What to Say on her own, with the help of Chicago-based engineer Stephen Shirk, planning to release it herself. Serendipitously, Vanguard and Welk Music Group head Kevin Welk plugged in his earbuds during a flight on American Airlines and heard several cuts from her self-made 2007 EP Matter of Time on one of the in-flight music programs. Immediately hooked by Willis’ vocal emotiveness and the depth of her writing, Welk wasted no time tracking her down.
The youngster, who hadn’t given a thought to looking for a record deal, was knocked out by the enthusiasm of Welk and Nashville-based Vanguard A&R rep Gary Pascoza, who’d been dispatched to Chicago to check out a club set. Pascoza wound up lending his expertise to the project. “Gary’s a really talented guy who’s worked with Natalie Maines, the Dixie Chicks and Alison Krauss,” says Willis. “So, from a vocal standpoint, his involvement was an extra bonus and an excellent opportunity for me to grow.”
Working in a Chicago studio with Pascoza producing, Willis developed seven of the tracks to their final form. In what turned out to be a canny move, Pascoza then suggested that she tackle the remaining five with Nashville-based producer Tim Lauer. Armed with fresh ears, Lauer “revved up” these tracks (as Willis delightedly puts it) with funky basslines, snarling electric guitar licks and Memphis-style horns, underscoring the soulfulness of her vocals.
The visceral results of these deftly placed overdubs can be heard on the one-two punch of “Everybody Else” and “Bluff,” a pair of tracks so vital that they simply had to open the album. Lauer’s handiwork is also readily apparent on the slammin’ rocker “All I Know” and the title song, a smoky soul ballad that wouldn’t be out of place on Dusty in Memphis. And on “Not Always Easy,” as electric guitars peck away and the horns slip in and out like cat burglars, Willis breaks out an acrobatic, syllable-hopping vocal that recalls Jason Mraz at his most tongue-twisting. There seems to be no limit to what she can do with her elastic alto.
The buoyant musical settings of What to Say are juxtaposed with Willis’ thought-provoking lyrics, which delve with withering candor and remarkable insight into the psychological complexities of coming of age and struggling with relationship issues in the first decade of the 21st century.
The rousing “Everybody Else,” says Willis “has to do with our culture and my generation, which are so media-driven and conformist. People tend to act and dress a certain way because they’re told to or because it’s what they’re surrounded by and comfortable with. It’s an open-ended, optimistic song with a bit of sarcasm about breaking out of your shell, crossing the boundaries you’ve set and being original.”
Describing the emotionally turbulent yet lilting “Bluff,” she says, “When we’re young, we’re not sure what we want because we haven’t fully experienced everything out there. This song is about a rough breakup that went back and forth for quite a while and took a lot of patience on both ends.”
As for the songs of release, Willis explains, “If I’m stressed out or feeling down, I’ll write something in that space, and when I play it back, it calms me down and helps put things in perspective. I’m like everybody else—I get caught up in the heat of the moment, but in the long run that moment is not really that big a deal. A lot of drama is created by things that don’t really make much of a difference in the big picture. Some of the songs were inspired by the need to relax, tune out and get away.”
What to Say closes powerfully with the heart-wrenching acoustic ballad “Jim Thornton,” written for and about Willis’ maternal grandfather, who died last year. “He was an awesome guy, really funny,” she says. “He’d been on kidney dialysis for a long time, and he just got tired of it because he wasn’t able to do the things he wanted with his life anymore. So he decided to go off dialysis, and we all lucked out because it isn’t that often you get a chance to say goodbye. So we all went down to Houston, where he lived, and had a party. That was a really eye-opening experience for me, because I had yet to have someone close to me pass away. The way in which he faced his death, with such grace, really inspired a lot more than a song.”
There’s another aspect of this undertaking that Willis finds especially gratifying. “My favorite part of the whole thing is the interaction,” she says. “I’ve met so many people with the same kind of ideals and interests. I love it that people are connecting through my music. Speaking philosophically, life is short, and I’m just trying to get people to calm down and enjoy these moments together.”
Feels Like Home
Daphne Willis Lyrics
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Couldn’t seem to find a face with honest heart
Put up all my walls like I don’t need 'em
Then I saw you sitting there with your open arms
Pre:
You know you’re right where you’re meant to be when
When it feels like
Chorus:
Home
Take off your shoes shut off your phone get comfortable it feels like
Home
Take a deep breath head on my chest lay it to rest it feels like
Home
No walls and no clothes just fearless love
Home
And I hope that when you hear my voice, it feels like
Verse 2:
Shut the door behind me close the curtains
Show a part of me that you haven’t seen
Bare my soul I’ve never been so certain
When we’re walkin’ around naked just you and me
Pre:
You and me, we know we’re right where we’re meant to be when
When it feels like
Chorus:
Home
Take off your shoes shut off your phone get comfortable it feels like
Home
Take a deep breath head on my chest lay it to rest feels like
Home
No walls and no clothes just fearless love
Home
And I hope that when you hear my voice, it feels like
Bridge:
When I’m out there
On my own
Get relief just to know
That I’m not alone
No I’m not alone
When I’m out there
Those dark nights
I got peace cuz I know what it feels like
What it feels like
What it feels like
I know what it feels like, feels like home
Chorus:
Home
Take off your shoes shut off your phone get comfortable it feels like
Home
Take a deep breath head on my chest lay it to rest it feels like
Home
No walls and no clothes just fearless love
Home
And I hope that when you hear my voice, it feels like
In "Feels Like Home" by Daphne Willis, the singer reflects on her search for a place that embodies freedom and authenticity. She admits that she has put up walls and barriers, perhaps as a defensive mechanism to protect herself, but then encounters someone who breaks down those barriers with their open and welcoming demeanor. This person's presence and acceptance make her feel at ease and as if she has finally found a place that feels like home.
The chorus repeats the idea of finding a home, not necessarily a physical space, but a state of being where one can truly be themselves. It encourages the listener to let go of external distractions, like shoes and phones, and embrace the comfort that comes from being with someone who accepts and loves them for who they are. The lyrics also touch on the vulnerability and intimacy that come with baring one's soul to another person, suggesting that true home is found in a relationship where walls, both literal and metaphorical, are torn down.
In the bridge, the singer acknowledges that there are times when she is out in the world alone and feels a sense of relief knowing that she is not truly alone because she has experienced what it feels like to be at home. This implies that the feeling of home transcends physical spaces and can be carried within oneself as a refuge and source of comfort. The lyrics also highlight the contrast between the darkness of the night and the peace she finds in knowing what it feels like to have a home.
Overall, "Feels Like Home" conveys the idea that home is not just a physical place, but a state of being where one can be their authentic self and find solace, love, and acceptance. It emphasizes the importance of genuine connections and relationships in creating a sense of home within oneself and with others.
Lyrics © SONGS OF SANCHEZ, Peermusic Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Nick Brophy, Daphne Willis, Leroy Sanchez
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@Daiisidle
I found this song from Instagram story ads and i love it!
@averycisne2812
We went to hs together— I still remember your voice singing a Sublime song in the auditorium during Writers’ Week… it’s incredible to see you still making beautiful music and sharing it with us all ✌️
@DaphneWillisMusic
Yeah!!! Haha that’s amazing. I still play sublime in my living room sometimes lol thank you for the shout!
@nathalyvieira9040
Amei
@frannieking6982
Yall have really done it this time!!! I'm so in luv with this song!!! I cannot tell you just how much this song means to me right now. So much luv n squishy hugs sent your way my beautiful friend!!!
@DaphneWillisMusic
❤️❤️
@cicerohenriqueprudenciodas5544
Que música maravilhosa! ❤
@korryangell4947
Amei Tudo 😍❤️ Brasil 🇧🇷
@fauzirahimpohan3130
I found this song from Instagram story ads. Not dissapointed 😄😄😄
@vinyld.6303
So glad I found this gem. ♥️🌺