Now I'm Your Mom
David Byrne Lyrics


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He is a boy
You are a girl
And you will always stay that way
But there are people
In this world
Who'd like to change what nature made

And if you take that decision
They they will made that incision ? down below

The birds and the bees
Are singin' for me
And this is the song I heard them singin'
Tweedle dee dee
Tweedle dee dee
But I never heard a word they're tellin' me

Oh little girl
Please understand
And listen to the words I say
I was your dad
Now I'm your mom
I hope you'll comprehend someday

I didn't mean to confuse you
And now I know that it's hard to understand

The birds and the bees
Are singin' for me
But I never heard a word they're sayin'
Tweedle dee dee
Tweedle dee dee
Freedom of choice is what they're bringin'

And when Columbus sailed
Upon that mighty sea
Well, we are just like him
Yes, we are pioneers

Into the great unknown
The wild unchartered lands
There ain't no turnin' back
Ain't gonna be no chains on me

Who would ever believe
Caterpillars like me
Turning into a butterfly
Well, I was suddenly free

The birds and the bees
Are singin' for me
And this is the song I heard them singin'
Tweedle dee dee
Tweedle dee dee
Freedom of choice is what they're bringin'

You know I'm man enough
Ain't gonna run and hide
My love is mighty tough
My love is mighty wild

I got a pair a wings
And I'm gonna fly away




Too late to turn back now
Tomorrow came today ? for me

Overall Meaning

The song "Now I'm Your Mom" by David Byrne is a unique take on gender identity and freedom of choice. The lyrics talk about a father who has transitioned to become the mother of his child, asking for his daughter's understanding and acceptance. The song also touches upon the idea of people trying to change what nature has created and the importance of giving people the freedom to make their own choices.


The lyrics, "He is a boy, you are a girl, and you will always stay that way, but there are people in this world who'd like to change what nature made," express the idea that gender is typically binary and based on biological sex. However, some people may not identify with the sex they were assigned at birth, and they have the right to pursue what makes them feel more comfortable and happy. The line, "And if you take that decision, they will make that incision down below," refers to gender reassignment surgery, which can be a life-changing procedure for transgender individuals.


The chorus of the song, "The birds and the bees are singin' for me, but I never heard a word they're tellin' me, Tweedle dee dee, Tweedle dee dee, freedom of choice is what they're bringin'," is an ode to self-discovery and liberty. Too often, society imposes certain expectations and restrictions on people, especially when it comes to gender and sexuality. The birds and the bees, a metaphor for nature and its cycles, may be singing one thing, but individuals can choose to hear and follow their own tune.


Overall, "Now I'm Your Mom" speaks to the complex and personal nature of gender identity and the importance of respect and tolerance for individuals who may have different experiences and journeys.


Line by Line Meaning

He is a boy
The person singing is talking about being male


You are a girl
The person being addressed is female


And you will always stay that way
The person being addressed cannot change their gender


But there are people
There exist individuals


In this world
In the world we live in


Who'd like to change what nature made
Some people wish to modify their natural gender


And if you take that decision
If you choose to do that


They they will made that incision ? down below
They will perform a surgical procedure on the genital area


The birds and the bees
The colloquial term for sex education


Are singin' for me
This information is being presented to the singer


And this is the song I heard them singin'
This is the message that sex education provides


Tweedle dee dee
An onomatopoeic representation of singing


But I never heard a word they're tellin' me
The singer didn't understand sex education


Oh little girl
An affectionate term for the person being addressed


Please understand
Try to comprehend


And listen to the words I say
Hear what I'm telling you


I was your dad
The singer was previously the person being addressed's father


Now I'm your mom
The singer is now the person being addressed's mother


I hope you'll comprehend someday
The singer wishes for the person being addressed to understand


I didn't mean to confuse you
The singer didn't intend to cause confusion


And now I know that it's hard to understand
The singer acknowledges the difficulty of the situation


Freedom of choice is what they're bringin'
Sex education provides individuals with the power of choice


And when Columbus sailed
Christopher Columbus's voyage is being referenced


Upon that mighty sea
His journey across the ocean


Well, we are just like him
We are explorers like Columbus


Yes, we are pioneers
We are trailblazers


Into the great unknown
Towards uncharted territory


The wild unchartered lands
The uncivilized, unknown areas


There ain't no turnin' back
There is no reversing what has been done


Ain't gonna be no chains on me
There will be no restrictions placed on the singer


Who would ever believe
It is difficult to imagine


Caterpillars like me
The singer is using a metaphor to refer to themselves


Turning into a butterfly
Undergoing a metamorphosis


Well, I was suddenly free
The singer experienced a newfound freedom


You know I'm man enough
I have enough masculinity within me


Ain't gonna run and hide
I am not going to retreat or hide from this challenge


My love is mighty tough
My love is strong and resilient


My love is mighty wild
My love is unconventional


I got a pair a wings
The singer has transformed


And I'm gonna fly away
The singer is ready to move on


Too late to turn back now
It is too late to return to the way things were


Tomorrow came today ? for me
The singer is embracing their new identity




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ANGEL FERNANDEZ, DAVID BYRNE

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