A Habit I Can't Break
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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Loving you isn't good for me you keep my tears flowing
If I loved you I couldn't stay gone so there's no use in going
Loving you is a habit I can't break
I haven't found a way yet but I've been tryin'
To stop loving you but I can't wait there's no use a lyin'
Loving you is a habit I can't break
Loving you is a habit I can't break
I've been loving you much too long now to change the way I feel
So I might as well get used to these heartaches
Loving you is a habit I can't break
[ piano ]
(A habit I can't break)




Loving you is a habit I can't break...
Loving you is a habit I can't break

Overall Meaning

The song "A Habit I Can't Break" by Dolly Parton is about being stuck in a toxic relationship. The singer acknowledges that loving the other person is not good for her because it keeps her in a state of sadness, constantly shedding tears. Yet, she can't help herself and finds herself unable to leave. She tries to find a way to stop loving the person, but no matter how hard she tries, she can't seem to break the habit. The singer knows that she needs to accept that this is how it is going to be, and that she needs to get used to the heartache.


The song is both melancholy and empowering. Melancholy because the singer is resigned to the fact that she is stuck in this horrible situation, but empowering because she recognizes that she is in control of her own life and that she can only change herself. She can't change the other person or make them love her in return.


In conclusion, "A Habit I Can't Break" is a poignant song about the struggles of a toxic relationship. The lyrics explore complex emotions such as longing, sadness, and resignation, while also portraying the singer as a strong person who is in control of her own life.


Line by Line Meaning

Loving you isn't good for me you keep my tears flowing
My love for you is causing me immense emotional pain and making me cry constantly.


If I loved you I couldn't stay gone so there's no use in going
Even if I do still love you, I know that it's better for me to stay away from you, and leaving you again wouldn't make a difference.


Loving you is a habit I can't break
Despite my efforts, I can't seem to stop loving you, it seems like it's something that's become ingrained and automatic for me.


I haven't found a way yet but I've been tryin'
I'm fully aware of how toxic our relationship is, and I'm actively trying to find a way to break free from this pattern of loving you.


To stop loving you but I can't wait there's no use a lyin'
Even though I want to stop loving you, pretending that I can simply move on and leave you behind is pointless because I know that it's not something I can do easily.


I've been loving you much too long now to change the way I feel
I've been in love with you for such a long time that it's difficult to imagine that I could ever stop feeling this way towards you.


So I might as well get used to these heartaches
Since I can't change how I feel about you, I've come to accept that the heartaches and pain that come with loving you are just something I have to deal with.


Loving you is a habit I can't break
This repetition emphasizes that no matter how much time passes, loving you remains a destructive pattern and habit for me.




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