Holdin' On To You
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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There are those who'd love to love me
Take me home and take care of me
Treat me just the way you never do
But I'm here on your door step
Something I can't seem to help
Like a fool, I'm holdin' on to you

[Chorus:]
Oh, you don't love me, you don't love me
You place everything above me
Like a fool, I'm holdin' on to you
You don't want me, you don't want me

You just hurt and disappoint me
Like a fool, I'm holding on to, ooh, ooh
Like a fool, I'm holding on to you
What is this spell that's on me
Make me think you own me
Why do I keep holding on to you
I just can't shake the feeling
I only know it's real
And I keep holding, holding, holding on to you





[Chorus:]

Overall Meaning

In Dolly Parton's song "Holdin' On To You," she sings about a love that is unrequited and toxic. The singer acknowledges that there are those who would love and care for her, but she can't help but hold on to this person who doesn't love or care for her. She recognizes that she is being foolish by holding on to this person, but she can't seem to let go. The chorus highlights the fact that this person puts everything else above her and consistently hurts and disappoints her.


The lyrics suggest a certain level of desperation and a lack of self-love on the part of the singer. She is so caught up in this person and their hold on her that she can't see her own worth or value. The line "What is this spell that's on me" implies that the hold this person has over her is beyond her control. The fact that she acknowledges her own foolishness and yet continues to hold on suggests that she is trapped in this cycle of toxic love.


Overall, "Holdin' On To You" is a poignant commentary on the power dynamics of unhealthy relationships and the strong hold they can have on people. It speaks to the universal experience of being trapped in a love that isn't reciprocated and the pain and confusion that comes with it.


Line by Line Meaning

There are those who'd love to love me
There are people who would be happy to have a relationship with me and love me.


Take me home and take care of me
They would take me to their home and provide me with care and affection.


Treat me just the way you never do
They would treat me in a way that you never have and provide me with the attention that you lack.


But I'm here on your door step
Despite those options, I find myself back at your doorstep.


Something I can't seem to help
I can't help my desire to be with you despite knowing it's not healthy.


Like a fool, I'm holdin' on to you
I know it's foolish to hold on to you, but I can't seem to let go.


Oh, you don't love me, you don't love me
You don't have feelings of love for me.


You place everything above me
You prioritize everything above our relationship and my needs.


You don't want me, you don't want me
You don't desire to be with me.


You just hurt and disappoint me
You consistently hurt me and cause me to feel disappointed.


What is this spell that's on me
I feel as though something has a hold over me and causes me to stay despite the negative impact of our relationship.


Make me think you own me
Your actions make me feel as though I am powerless and must obey you.


Why do I keep holding on to you
I am unsure why I continue to hold onto a relationship that brings me pain.


I just can't shake the feeling
I can't let go of the emotions I have for you.


I only know it's real
Despite the unhealthy nature of our relationship, my feelings towards you are genuine and strong.


And I keep holding, holding, holding on to you
Despite everything, I choose to continue holding onto a relationship that ultimately causes me more harm than good.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CHARLES DUBOIS, CHRIS DUBOIS, JOHN LOVELACE, KELLEY LOVELACE, BRAD PAISLEY

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on Gypsy Joe And Me

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