I Don't Wanna Throw Rice
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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She married the one I love today
When my back was turned she took him away
Now while they're all outside, waiting to throw rice
What I want to throw will surely black her eyes
Cause I don't want to throw rice
I want to throw rocks at her
She took the only love I had
No, I don't want to throw rice
I want to throw rocks at her
It would be a way to hurt her 'cause she hurt me so bad
Well I never stole nothin' in my life
But if I get the chance I'll steal him from his wife
Cause all is fair in love and war, maybe I'm carryin' this too far
But I feel like tying dynamite to her side of the car
No I don't want to throw rice
I want to throw rocks at her
She took the only love I had
No, I don't want to throw rice




I want to throw rocks at her
It would be a way to hurt her 'cause she hurt me so bad

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Dolly Parton's song "I Don't Want to Throw Rice" explore the emotions of a jilted lover who has just witnessed the marriage of their former partner to someone else. The singer expresses feelings of anger, jealousy, and betrayal towards the woman who stole her lover away. The lyrics are filled with metaphors of violence, such as wanting to throw rocks at the bride instead of rice, as a way of expressing her pain.


The first verse of the song describes the moment when the singer discovers that her former lover is getting married to someone else. She expresses shock and pain that this has happened behind her back. The second verse reveals the depth of the singer's emotions, as she expresses a desire to cause physical harm to the new bride. The third verse shows the extent of the singer's desperation, as she expresses a willingness to steal her former lover back from his wife.


Overall, the song is a raw, emotional response to a painful experience of rejection and betrayal. The violent imagery of the lyrics may be unsettling or disturbing to some listeners, but it reflects the intensity of the singer's emotions and the sense of injustice she feels.


Line by Line Meaning

She married the one I love today
The person I love got married today to someone else.


When my back was turned she took him away
The person I love was taken away by someone else without my knowledge.


Now while they're all outside, waiting to throw rice
Everyone is outside, waiting for the newlyweds to exit the wedding ceremony to throw rice on them as a sign of good wishes.


What I want to throw will surely black her eyes
Rather than throwing rice, I would prefer to throw rocks at her, which would cause her physical harm.


Cause I don't want to throw rice
I do not want to take part in the traditional act of throwing rice as it would indicate my acceptance of the newlyweds' union, which I do not support.


I want to throw rocks at her
I want to harm the person who took away the love of my life.


She took the only love I had
The person who married someone else took the love of my life and thus, my only source of love and happiness.


Well I never stole nothin' in my life
I have never stolen anything in my life despite this situation making me desire to steal back the love of my life.


But if I get the chance I'll steal him from his wife
If I ever get the opportunity, I will try to win back the person I love and take him away from his new wife.


Cause all is fair in love and war, maybe I'm carryin' this too far
People can do anything to achieve love and sometimes they may go too far in doing so.


But I feel like tying dynamite to her side of the car
I am so angry at her for taking away my love that I feel like harming her with an explosive device fixed to her car.


It would be a way to hurt her 'cause she hurt me so bad
Harming her would give me a sense of satisfaction for the hurt that I am feeling as a result of her actions.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BILL OWENS, DOLLY PARTON

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Romy K.


on Gypsy Joe And Me

As a matter of fact she's contemplating suicide standing on the bridge, that's how they'll be together again.