I Don't Mind
Eddy Arnold Lyrics


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How many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know

How many lips have kissed you
And set your soul aglow
How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know

So always make me wonder
Always make me guess
And even if I ask you darling
Don't confess

Just let it remain me and your secret
But darling I love you so




No wonder, no wonder I wonder
No, I really don't want to know

Overall Meaning

Eddy Arnold's "I Really Don't Want to Know" is a song about a man who is curious about how many people his lover has been with before him. He asks her how many arms have held her and how many lips have kissed her, but hesitates, stating that he really doesn't want to know. The song continues to emphasize his hesitance in knowing, as he asks her to never confess and to always leave it as a secret.


The lyrics are touching and heart-wrenching, leaving the listener to contemplate their own curiosity in regards to their significant other's past. The chorus, "always make me wonder, always make me guess" exemplifies the idea that not knowing is sometimes better than knowing, especially in regards to love and relationships.


The song was written by Don Robertson and Hal Blair in 1953, and has since been covered by multiple artists such as Elvis Presley, Linda Ronstadt, and Johnny Cash. It has become a classic country hit, and continues to be a favorite among country music fans.


Line by Line Meaning

How many arms have held you
How many people have embraced you closely in the past?


And hated to let you go
And felt reluctant to let you go from their embrace?


How many, how many I wonder
I am curious to know the exact number of people who have held you in the past.


But I really don't want to know
But actually, I prefer not to know about your past lovers.


How many lips have kissed you
How many people have kissed your lips?


And set your soul aglow
And given you such great joy and fulfillment that it made you feel alive?


So always make me wonder
Therefore, it's better if you keep me guessing about your past relationships.


Always make me guess
Don't give me exact answers to my questions about your past lovers.


And even if I ask you darling
Even if I ask you directly about your previous partners,


Don't confess
Please don't be honest and tell me the truth about them.


Just let it remain me and your secret
Let your past remain a secret between you and me.


But darling I love you so
Despite all this, please remember that I love you very much.


No wonder, no wonder I wonder
It's no surprise that I'm curious about your past relationships.


No, I really don't want to know
But at the same time, I don't actually want to know about them.




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Royalty Network, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, O/B/O DistroKid, Spirit Music Group, Songtrust Ave, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Howard Barnes, Don Robertson

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@chrisharper2169

I Love all of Eddy Arnold's songs, Thanx A Million !!!

@jamesfrank5417

My grandpa liked Eddy Arnold and liked listening his songs. I didn't know that my mother told me this 2019 after I came across the song this year and I instantly liked it.

@jamesfrank5417

I have a lot of trouble on my mind ever since 2018 and 2019 the thing is I didn't have trouble before I use to be more happy and positive.

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