A Woman's Needs
Elton John Lyrics


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Where have you been are you still on my side
Is that love or regret that I see in your eyes
How many years have we played out this game
Every time we come close the answer's always the same

I guess some souls get restless under the skin
There's a shortage by half of marrying men
You know that I love you but I love to be free
So tell me what do you want, yeah from a gypsy like me

I need a ring on my finger, champagne on ice
One man to show me the best part of life
Is that what you want
Yeah, that's what I need

A home and a family makes sense for us
A solid foundation built out of trust
Do you think you can find that with someone like me
Two arms to hold you, one place to be
Are just some of the things that a woman needs

I've been shortchanged and cheated so many times
But you're all that I've wanted For all of my life





I've searched for the reasons, known how I've felt
But what can I give you when I can't trust myself

Overall Meaning

In this song, Elton John sings about the struggles that come with love when two people want different things. The singer is questioning the state of the relationship and if they still have the same goals. They've been playing a game of love for many years, but whenever they get close, it always ends up the same. The singer acknowledges that some people get restless, and there is a shortage of marrying men. The singer loves the listener but also loves their freedom. The singer asks the listener what they want from a free-spirited person like them.


The listener replies by stating their needs. They want a ring on their finger, champagne on ice, and one man to show them the best part of life. They want a home and family built on trust, which is something the listener can't give because they can't trust themselves. The singer has been shortchanged numerous times and cheated on, but the listener is all that they've wanted in life. There is a struggle to find common ground, but the listener hopes that the singer can find what they need.


Line by Line Meaning

Where have you been are you still on my side
Are you still committed to our relationship and standing by me?


Is that love or regret that I see in your eyes
I am wondering if the look in your eyes is due to love or regret.


How many years have we played out this game
We have been in this same relationship game for years now, and it seems to never change.


Every time we come close the answer's always the same
No matter how close we get, we keep coming back to the same outcome.


I guess some souls get restless under the skin
Perhaps some people have an innate longing for more in life.


There's a shortage by half of marrying men
Finding a suitable partner for marriage can be difficult for women.


You know that I love you but I love to be free
I have feelings for you, but I also value my independence and freedom.


So tell me what do you want, yeah from a gypsy like me
I want to know what you expect and desire from a person like me who values freedom and independence.


I need a ring on my finger, champagne on ice
I desire a traditional commitment, marriage, and luxury.


One man to show me the best part of life
I want a partner who can bring out the best in me and show me life's joys.


Is that what you want
Do you desire the same things as me?


Yeah, that's what I need
I am confirming that those traditional commitments and luxuries are what I require to be happy and fulfilled.


A home and a family makes sense for us
Having a stable home and family seems like a sensible choice for our future.


A solid foundation built out of trust
Trust is key to establishing a secure and lasting relationship.


Do you think you can find that with someone like me
I am asking if you believe we can establish a trust-based relationship and build a family together.


Two arms to hold you, one place to be
Having someone to hold you and a place to call home are important to feel loved and secure.


Are just some of the things that a woman needs
As a woman, these are some of the important things that I need in a fulfilling relationship.


I've been shortchanged and cheated so many times
I have experienced disappointment and betrayal in past relationships.


But you're all that I've wanted For all of my life
Despite my past experiences, you are the only one I have ever truly wanted in my life.


I've searched for the reasons, known how I've felt
I have searched for clarity and understanding of my feelings and desires.


But what can I give you when I can't trust myself
I am struggling to trust myself to make the right decisions in our relationship, which makes it difficult to give you what you deserve.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BERNIE TAUPIN, ELTON JOHN

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