You Have to Believe That Life is More Than the Sum of its Parts Kiddo
Empire! Empire! (I Was a Lonely Estate) Lyrics


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Oh sure, you can look for reasons
and try to be them, for a while
but you know you can't be her answer
she was never after truth
will your mother still blame you if she knew all the words that she said
drove you here
a half a world away
destroying your body
to get back for every word she said
but it won't change the way she is
and it won't change a thing she did
so calm down




sleep now
forget all the things that she said

Overall Meaning

In the song "You Have to Believe That Life is More Than the Sum of its Parts Kiddo" by Empire! Empire! (I Was a Lonely Estate), the lyrics speak to the struggle of trying to live up to the expectations of others and the pain that can come from it. The opening line sets the tone, noting that one can try to find reasons to justify the actions of others, but ultimately, they cannot be the answer for someone who was never after the truth.


The lyrics touch on the impact that a mother's words can have on a person, driving them to destruction and pain. The song acknowledges that while it may be tempting to hold onto the pain caused by others, it ultimately won't change them or what they've done. The final lines offer some solace, encouraging the listener to calm down and forget about the hurtful things that were said, to find peace in sleep and let go of the past.


Overall, the song is an exploration of the hurt and pain that can come from trying to live up to others' expectations, particularly those of a parent, and the importance of letting go and finding peace in oneself.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh sure, you can look for reasons
Acknowledging that it's tempting to try and find reasons for someone else's behavior


and try to be them, for a while
But attempting to mimic someone else's behavior is not a sustainable solution


but you know you can't be her answer
Recognizing that you cannot fix someone else's problems or be the solution to their issues


she was never after truth
Realizing that the other person may not have been sincere or honest in their interactions


will your mother still blame you if she knew all the words that she said
Questioning whether revealing the truth about the other person's actions would change the mother's opinion


drove you here
Acknowledging that the mother's actions have caused the singer to be in a negative situation


a half a world away
Emphasizing the distance and disconnection between the singer and their mother


destroying your body
Describing the severe impact of the mother's actions on the artist's physical and emotional health


to get back for every word she said
Suggesting that the mother's behavior is retaliatory and driven by a desire for retribution


but it won't change the way she is
Acknowledging that retaliation or anger won't change the mother's underlying personality or behavior


and it won't change a thing she did
Recognizing that the mother's past actions cannot be undone or forgotten


so calm down
Encouraging the artist to relax and find peace despite the difficult situation


sleep now
Suggesting that rest and relaxation can be a way to cope with stress and pain


forget all the things that she said
Encouraging the singer to let go of the negative influence of the mother's words and actions




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