DEARLY DEPARTED
Esmé Patterson/Shakey Graves Lyrics
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Ooh
Ooh
Ooh
Well
You and I both know that the house is haunted
And you and I both know that the ghost is me
Well back then baby, it didn't seem so strange
You used to bite, I used to moan
But now I'm mumbling and you choke
Well I ain't so scary on my own
Tell me honey, what's a dagger without a cloak?
Well I don't know
'Cause
You and I both know that the house is haunted
Yeah you and I both know that the ghost is me
You used to catch me in your bed-sheets just a-rattling your chains
Well back then baby, it didn't seem so strange
In the midnight hour, you came alive
I was looking for my crystal ball
I busy trying to charm that snake
When the sun came up we had no place to hide
And you had to tell your friends that my things where fake
I just had to
You and I both know that the house is haunted
Yeah you and I both know that the ghost is me
You used to catch me in your bed-sheets just a-rattling your chains
Well back then baby, it didn't seem so strange
But even when one is dead and gone
It still take two to make a house a home
Well I'm as lonesome as the catacombs
I hear you call my name but no one's there
Except a new one in the air
You and I both know that the house is haunted
Yeah you and I both know that the ghost is me
You used to walk around screaming, all slamming all 'dem doors
Well I'm all grown up now and I don't scare easy no more
But you and I both know
Ooh
Yeah you and I both know
Ooh
Yeah you and I both know
Ooh
Ooh
The lyrics to Esmé Patterson/Shakey Graves's song Dearly Departed tell the tale of a haunted house, with one partner realizing that the ghost haunting the place is actually themselves. The opening lines, "You and I both know that the house is haunted. And you and I both know that the ghost is me" set the tone for a tongue-in-cheek exploration of the concepts of fear, mortality and home. The lyrics go on to describe the dynamic between the two lovers, with the singer recognizing their own role in haunting the house, and ultimately reflecting on their loneliness in death.
The chorus of the song, "You used to catch me in your bed-sheets just a-rattling your chains, well back then baby, it didnât seem so strange", highlights the idea of ghosts as a metaphor for past relationships and the emotional baggage that comes with them. The lyrics suggest that these experiences can be simultaneously frightening and enticing, and that even after death and the end of the relationship, the memories remain.
Overall, the lyrics to Dearly Departed are a clever and engaging exploration of the idea of ghosts and hauntings as more than just spooky apparitions. Instead, the song suggests that ghosts can represent unresolved emotions, relationships and experiences that continue to haunt us long after they're gone.
Line by Line Meaning
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Well
Introduces the topic at hand
You and I both know that the house is haunted
Acknowledges that the house is haunted, and both the singer and the listener are aware of this fact
And you and I both know that the ghost is me
Admits that the singer is the ghost that haunts the house
You used to catch me in your bed-sheets just a-rattling your chains
Remembers the past when the artist haunted the listener and would make noise by rattling chains in their bed
Well back then baby, it didnât seem so strange
Reflects on the time when the strange occurrences seemed normal in the relationship
You used to bite, I used to moan
Recalls a past sexual relationship where the artist and the listener would engage in BDSM activities
But now Iâm mumbling and you choke
Notes that their relationship is no longer the same as before and that they are struggling to connect
Well I ainât so scary on my own
Attempts to prove that the artist is not as scary without the listener
Tell me honey, whatâs a dagger without a cloak?
Uses a metaphor to illustrate that the listener is the missing element that completes the singer's scariness
Well I don't know
Uncertain about the listener's inquiry before
âCause
Expressions the reason for the following statements
In the midnight hour, you came alive
Recalls the time when the listener was the most active during the darkest hours
I was looking for my crystal ball
Wanted to see the future of their relationship
I busy trying to charm that snake
Focused on something else and disregarded the listener's presence
When the sun came up we had no place to hide
Highlighting the moment when their actions were exposed with no means to excuse or hide them
And you had to tell your friends that my things where fake
Speaker implies that listener has gossiped behind their back, making them look bad
I just had to
Justified the artist's actions that led to the exposure of their false character
But even when one is dead and gone
Acknowledges that even if the artist is no longer in the picture
It still take two to make a house a home
A house needs two people to be a complete home
Well Iâm as lonesome as the catacombs
Admits the feeling of loneliness similar to that in catacombs
I hear you call my name but no one's there
Despite the feeling of loneliness, the singer hears the listener's voice as if they are still present
Except a new one in the air
There is a new feeling in the air between the singer and new possibilities
You used to walk around screaming, all slamming all âdem doors
Remembers the listener's reaction to the haunting when they would slam doors
Well Iâm all grown up now and I donât scare easy no more
Acknowledges the change in the artist's life where they are no longer easily frightened by the listener's actions
But you and I both know
Reiteration that both parties understand the ghosts of the haunted house
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Yeah you and I both know
Repetition that both parties understand the situation
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Yeah you and I both know
Repeating that both parties are aware of the haunted house and its ghost
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Lyrics © WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC, BMG Rights Management
Written by: Alejandro Rose-Garcia, Esme Patterson
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
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Ooh
Ooh
Ooh
Ooh
Well
You and I both know that the house is haunted
And you and I both know that the ghost is me
You used to catch me in your bed-sheets just a-rattling your chains
Well back then baby, it didn't seem so strange
You used to bite, I used to moan
But now I'm mumbling and you choke
Well I ain't so scary on my own
Tell me honey, what's a dagger without a cloak?
Well I don't know
'Cause
You and I both know that the house is haunted
Yeah you and I both know that the ghost is me
You used to catch me in your bed-sheets just a-rattling your chains
Well back then baby, it didn't seem so strange
In the midnight hour, you came alive
I was looking for my crystal ball
I busy trying to charm that snake
When the sun came up we had no place to hide
And you had to tell your friends that my things where fake
I just had to
You and I both know that the house is haunted
Yeah you and I both know that the ghost is me
You used to catch me in your bed-sheets just a-rattling your chains
Well back then baby, it didn't seem so strange
But even when one is dead and gone
It still take two to make a house a home
Well I'm as lonesome as the catacombs
I hear you call my name but no one's there
Except a new one in the air
You and I both know that the house is haunted
Yeah you and I both know that the ghost is me
You used to walk around screaming, all slamming all 'dem doors
Well I'm all grown up now and I don't scare easy no more
But you and I both know
Ooh
Yeah you and I both know
Ooh
Yeah you and I both know
Ooh
Ooh
jessica Burnett
I fucking love this!!!! The energy and positive vibes are so powerful!
3lullabies
No comments? these two are on fire together...love me some Esme...such a musical mind,those "her side" songs are genius.
Marianne Osiel
Wow, just discovering these two as a result of a i m e e and her Lowell George tribute post which I also love with Bonnie raitt! These two are amazing and I'm going to have to follow this up! Does shaky not look slightly like little George, just his face perhaps? Or am I making this up? None the less, keep on keepin on and thanks for posting!
Little Foot
Its a repost
Aimee Elizabeth
@Little Foot
Edit and repost, actually đ.
In the original there's an interview with Shaky at the beginning. I needed to use the song in a playlist and the interview didn't fit. So I edited and reposted.
TheresaAmick
@Aimee Elizabeth â thank you! It was too much w the interview after hearing the first couple of mins once. Then for a playlist - this is perfect. You rock! â€ïž
Lyndsey Davis
This is so good live! He really doesn't stop moving lol
Kay g
Yes!!!â€â€
Damian Green
I love how much fun they're having!! Nothing but good vibes and great music hereâ€đ
Katlyn Klassen
This is the drop of gold in a river of blue.