Don't Bother At All
Gilbert O'Sullivan Lyrics


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Went and left me on my own before
Said you don't want me round anymore
Found some other fool to come and care for you

Now you're back and though my heart is sad
You still want me but girl I'm still mad at you
So baby don't bother at all
When I see you walking down the street
I feel so sorry for the one you meet
Now I know what you are like and what you can do

That was then and now you're at my door
What can I tell you that I haven't before, we're through
So baby don't bother at all

From a bird's eye view to a T-bone steak
From above to below the human race
Have about as much respect for each other as we demand
To the moon to the wrong southside of you

Still remember how you used to care
Take you with me almost everywhere
Seems so funny to think that you'd be untrue

But the day you ran away with him
You made a fool of me and that I think is cruel
So baby don't bother at all

A bed of roses suppose it doesn't exist
would you believe,I believe that believing in this
is like a suit on a groom and the bride he's going to wed
Well instead go asleep in separate beds

Went and left me on my own before
Said you don't want me 'round anymore
Found another fool to come and care for you

Now you're back and though my heart is sad
You still want me but honey I'm still mad at you
So baby don't bother at all




So baby don't bother at all
So baby don't bother at all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Don't Bother At All" by Gilbert O'Sullivan tell a story of heartbreak and betrayal. The song begins with the singer expressing how their significant other left them and said they don't want them around anymore. The ex has found someone else to care for them, which adds to the singer's pain. Despite the ex's return, the singer's heart is still sad, and they are still angry at the ex for what they did. The chorus reiterates the singer's plea for the ex to not bother them anymore.


As the song progresses, the singer observes the ex walking down the street and feels sorry for the person they are with now. The singer has gained insight into the ex's true nature and what they are capable of. The singer reflects on the past, referring to a time when they were together and the ex seemed caring and trustworthy. It now seems ironic to think that the ex could be untrue. The day the ex ran away with someone else, they made a fool out of the singer, which the singer finds cruel.


In the bridge, the lyrics take on a more abstract and metaphorical tone. The singer compares the relationship to a bird's eye view and a T-bone steak, emphasizing the drastic change from a lofty perspective to a harsher reality. The lack of respect between people is highlighted, possibly suggesting that the ex did not treat the singer with the respect they demanded. The mention of going to the wrong southside and references to the moon evoke a sense of confusion and being led astray. The singer still remembers how the ex used to care for them, taking them everywhere. It now seems amusing to think that the ex could betray their trust.


The song concludes with a repetition of the earlier verses and chorus. The singer acknowledges that the ex is back and still wants them, but they make it clear that they are still angry. They express that the ex shouldn't bother them anymore. The lyrics suggest that the relationship is irreparable, and the hurt inflicted by the ex's actions has left a lasting impact on the singer.


Line by Line Meaning

Went and left me on my own before
You abandoned me and left me alone in the past


Said you don't want me round anymore
You explicitly stated that you no longer want me in your presence


Found some other fool to come and care for you
You discovered someone else foolish enough to take care of you


Now you're back and though my heart is sad
Now you have returned, but my heart is still filled with sadness


You still want me but girl I'm still mad at you
You may still desire me, but I am still angry with you


So baby don't bother at all
So please refrain from troubling me entirely


When I see you walking down the street
Observing you stroll down the street


I feel so sorry for the one you meet
I feel great sympathy for the person who encounters you


Now I know what you are like and what you can do
I now have a clear understanding of your true nature and capabilities


That was then and now you're at my door
That was a past occurrence, and now you have arrived at my doorstep


What can I tell you that I haven't before, we're through
I have nothing new to say to you; our relationship is over


From a bird's eye view to a T-bone steak
From a distant perspective to a substantial challenge


From above to below the human race
From a superior position to the entire human population


Have about as much respect for each other as we demand
We possess only as much respect for one another as we insist upon receiving


To the moon to the wrong southside of you
To an unreasonable extent, far from your true nature


Still remember how you used to care
I still recall how you used to show concern


Take you with me almost everywhere
I used to bring you along with me almost everywhere


Seems so funny to think that you'd be untrue
It appears amusing to consider that you could be unfaithful


But the day you ran away with him
However, the day you eloped with him


You made a fool of me and that I think is cruel
You humiliated me and I find that act to be unkind


So baby don't bother at all
So please refrain from troubling me entirely


A bed of roses suppose it doesn't exist
Imagine a perfect and comfortable situation that may not actually exist


Would you believe, I believe that believing in this
Do you find it plausible that I believe in the existence of this?


Is like a suit on a groom and the bride he's going to wed
It is comparable to a suit worn by a groom who is about to marry his bride


Well instead go asleep in separate beds
Instead, let us sleep in separate beds


So baby don't bother at all
So please refrain from troubling me entirely


So baby don't bother at all
So please refrain from troubling me entirely


So baby don't bother at all
So please refrain from troubling me entirely




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Written by: GILBERT O'SULLIVAN

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Comments from YouTube:

Tiger Rogers

Missed this one Brian. This is VERY different for Gilbert O'Sullivan! Cheers Tiger.

flatop47

Thanks Tiger...Yes Different This

flatop47

Top 1982 B-Side..
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Christine Anne

never heard this one brian,pretty different, good songwriter was gilbert,thumbs up.

flatop47

Cheers J/B...Yes Different For Him This One....MS Likes Gilbert

Music Selection

Terrific upload Brian , never done a bad song has Gilbert, even his b sides are top notch , liked and shared , getting warmer today :)ms

flatop47

Cheers MMMMSSSS I'm Frezzing...lol Thanks Mate ..More Gilbert To Come

Family LifeVlog

cool video! like 4 and sub

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Thanks For Looking & Subed

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