Somebody That I Used to Know
Gotye; Kimbra; Wally De Backer Lyrics


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Now and then I think of when we were together
Like when you said you felt so happy you could die
Told myself that you were right for me
But felt so lonely in your company
But that was love and it's an ache I still remember

You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
Like resignation to the end, always the end
So when we found that we could not make sense
Well you said that we would still be friends
But I'll admit that I was glad it was over

But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough
No, you didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now you're just somebody that I used to know

Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
But had me believing it was always something that I'd done
But I don't wanna live that way
Reading into every word you say
You said that you could let it go
And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know

But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough
No, you didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Somebody (I used to know)
(Somebody) Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Somebody (I used to know)




(Somebody) Now you're just somebody that I used to know
I used to know, that I used to know, I used to know somebody

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "Somebody That I Used To Know" tell the story of a failed romantic relationship and the aftermath of the breakup. The singer is reminiscing about their time together and the happy moments they shared, but also acknowledging the loneliness and feelings of emptiness that came from being in the company of someone who ultimately wasn't the right match. The second verse shifts to the singer's bitterness towards their ex-partner, as they recount the ways in which they were mistreated and made to feel at fault for the relationship's problems. However, the refrain of the song is focused on the partner who has cut the singer off completely and treated them like a stranger, despite having shared such intimate moments together.


Overall, the song explores the complexities of relationships, and the ways in which we can become tied to particular feelings and habits even if they aren't serving us. The idea of addiction to "a certain kind of sadness" speaks to the ways in which we can become attached to our own pain, and the difficulty of letting go and moving on from a relationship that has ended.


Line by Line Meaning

Now and then I think of when we were together
Occasionally, I reflect on the past when we were in a romantic relationship


Like when you said you felt so happy you could die
I remember when you expressed extreme happiness and satisfaction with our relationship


Told myself that you were right for me
I convinced myself that you were the perfect partner for me


But felt so lonely in your company
Despite being with you, I still experienced a sense of isolation and detachment


But that was love and it's an ache I still remember
Despite the loneliness, I recognize it was love and the pain of and longing for it still lingers


You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
It is possible to become dependant on a particular type of sorrow


Like resignation to the end, always the end
Feeling a sense of acceptance that the relationship will inevitably come to a close


So when we found that we could not make sense
Once we realized the relationship was not working


Well you said that we would still be friends
You suggested that we remain friends even though we were no longer romantically involved


But I'll admit that I was glad it was over
I must acknowledge that I was relieved when the relationship finally ended


But you didn't have to cut me off
You had no reason to completely sever ties with me


Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing
You made it seem as if our relationship never existed, and we were not important to each other


And I don't even need your love
I do not require your affection or devotion


But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough
You act as if I am a completely unknown person, which is painful


No, you didn't have to stoop so low
You did not have to behave in such a demeaning manner


Have your friends collect your records and then change your number
You chose to have your friends gather your belongings and change your contact details so there was no chance of us meeting again


I guess that I don't need that though
I now realize that I don't need that kind of behavior or treatment from you


Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now, you are simply a person that I once knew and no longer have a relationship with


Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
Occasionally, I recollect all the instances where you mistreated or betrayed me


But had me believing it was always something that I'd done
But you convinced me that it was always my fault or mistake


But I don't wanna live that way
However, I do not wish to continue living in such a manner


Reading into every word you say
Analyzing and interpreting every single thing you say


You said that you could let it go
You reassured me that you could let go of the past and move on


And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know
You assured me that you would not be fixated on someone from your past


Somebody (I used to know)
A person that I used to be familiar with


(Somebody) Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Presently, you are just someone from my past that I no longer have any connection with


I used to know, that I used to know, I used to know somebody
I was once acquainted with a person that I used to know well and now, I no longer maintain any relationship with them




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Luiz Bonfa, Walter Andre De Backer

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@nipungrover7058

gotye ignoring what she's saying and just saying "you didn't have to cut me off" is such a beautiful detail. He hears her but he is so caught up in his own pain that he doesn't look her direction until she starts to go away and him knowing her starts to fade away. He looks in her direction, she's still there but he doesn't know her anymore, she's different, she's distant. Somebody that he used to know. She still exists in his space but it's not who he knew.

I used to enjoy this song. Something Terrible happened last year and she cut me off. I never heard from her again, the song started to hurt a lot when i paid attention to the lyrics.

It's the eerie feeling that they as are still alive but you're strangers, a person who you used to share every single thing in your life, and all of a sudden you don't even know them anymore.

I can't describe how much the lyrics resonate. "You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness" and the pain even tho he says "but I'll admit they I'm glad it was over".

I'm sorry for anyone going through that ❤ it'll all be good in the end, it'll all work out



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@TheStormBolt-gf8qi

Memories

@udjdjjdnx3978

Borra tu comentario master

@Prima422

Ricardo? I'M SUCH A BIG FAN

@TheDonjones19

Always the end. You said we would still be friends. You didn't have to cut me off

@BartSimpson90s

@@udjdjjdnx3978 alch, pinche morra basica

@udjdjjdnx3978

@@BartSimpson90s .-.

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@888crispin

Maybe he's been camouflauging into our walls this whole time.
Maybe he never left.

@dayen9470

Lol

@ALISONC83

C0ntho that maybe me happy not gonna lie

@JoNJamEz1

Shoto. Todoroki.1A1 I had a mini stroke reading that becuase you put maybe instead of made me, llooll

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