Do You Really Want To Hurt Me
Graig Markel and the 88th St. Band Lyrics


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You took me to the party said we'd dance all night long
I turned my back then you were gone
Standing all alone oh I felt like goin' home
Do you really want to know?

I only went along to be by your side
It seems you didn't want me you don't have to hide it
Now you feed me this line did you have a good time
Do you really want to know?

Do you really want to know?
Then I'll tell you so
You know where you can go
Oh if you really want to know

Do you remember when we got home that night?
We got into bed turned out the light
I rolled to my side you were asking me why
Do you really want to know?

I know it wasn't me you had on your mind
But some little girl you wined and dined
I was takin' her place you were seein' her face
Do you really want to know?

Do you really want to know?
Well I'll tell you so
You know where you can go
Oh if you really want to know

Do you really want to know?
Yeah I'll tell you so
You know where you can go
Oh if you really want to know

Do you really want to know?
Yeah I'll tell you so
You know where you can go
Oh if you really want to know

Do you really want to know?
Well I'll tell you so




You know where you can go
Oh if you really want to know

Overall Meaning

In the lyrics of Graig Markel and the 88th St. Band's song "Do You Really Want to Hurt Me," the singer recounts an experience where they were taken to a party by someone, presumably a romantic interest, with the promise of dancing all night long. However, the singer soon finds themselves abandoned and feeling lonely, yearning to go back home. They question the intentions of their companion, asking if they truly wanted to hurt them by leaving them in such a vulnerable position.


The singer reflects on how they only went to the party to be with this person, but it becomes evident that the person did not want them there and chose to conceal their true feelings. The singer is fed lines and asked if they had a good time, further highlighting the underlying tension and unease in the relationship. The singer questions whether the person genuinely seeks the truth and whether they can handle it.


As the night progresses and they return home together, the singer recalls a moment of intimacy where they got into bed and turned out the light. However, the person they were with seemed preoccupied, questioning the singer's actions. The singer realizes that they were merely a placeholder for someone else in the person's mind, feeling overshadowed by another woman who the person was previously involved with.


Throughout the lyrics, there is a recurring theme of seeking honesty and transparency in the relationship, as the singer repeatedly asks if the person truly wants to know the reality of the situation. The singer also asserts their own agency and willingness to confront the truth, emphasizing that they are prepared to provide clarity and direction if the other person is sincerely interested in understanding their feelings. Ultimately, the lyrics convey a sense of disappointment, betrayal, and a desire for open communication and resolution in a complex and potentially hurtful relationship dynamic.


Line by Line Meaning

You took me to the party said we'd dance all night long
You promised to have a good time together at the party, but then you left me alone.


I turned my back then you were gone
Once I looked away, you disappeared without a trace.


Standing all alone oh I felt like goin' home
Feeling abandoned, I wished to leave and go back home.


Do you really want to know?
Are you truly interested in knowing the truth?


I only went along to be by your side
I agreed to go for the sake of being with you.


It seems you didn't want me you don't have to hide it
It's apparent that you didn't want me, there's no need to conceal it.


Now you feed me this line did you have a good time
Now you're giving me excuses, did you really enjoy yourself?


Do you really want to know?
Are you genuinely interested in knowing the truth?


Do you really want to know?
Do you sincerely want to uncover the reality?


Then I'll tell you so
Then I will honestly disclose the truth.


You know where you can go
You know exactly where you stand in this situation.


Oh if you really want to know
If you are truly seeking the truth.


Do you really want to know?
Are you actually interested in finding out?


Do you remember when we got home that night?
Do you recall what happened when we arrived home that night?


We got into bed turned out the light
We got into bed and turned off the lights.


I rolled to my side you were asking me why
I faced away from you, and you questioned me.


Do you really want to know?
Are you genuinely interested in knowing the reasons behind my actions?


I know it wasn't me you had on your mind
I am aware that you were thinking about someone else.


But some little girl you wined and dined
You were wining and dining another woman.


I was takin' her place you were seein' her face
I was merely a stand-in for the woman you were actually interested in.


Do you really want to know?
Are you truly seeking the truth?


Do you really want to know?
Are you actually interested in discovering the reality?


Well I'll tell you so
Well then, I will explain it to you.


You know where you can go
You are fully aware of where you stand in this situation.


Oh if you really want to know
If you genuinely desire to find out the truth.


Do you really want to know?
Are you truly interested in knowing?


Well I'll tell you so
Then I will honestly reveal the truth to you.


You know where you can go
You are aware of what your options are.


Oh if you really want to know
If you are genuinely seeking the truth.


Do you really want to know?
Are you actually interested in uncovering the reality?


Well I'll tell you so
Then I will explain it honestly to you.


You know where you can go
You know what choices are available to you.


Oh if you really want to know
If you truly desire to find out the truth.




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Written by: Jessie Rose Band

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