Don't Let Her Love Hold You Down
Gretta Ray Lyrics


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He says β€˜Give it a rest, woman and put down your smokes
Now, there's no need to curse, don't let anymore words through your throat
Inhale with me, try to keep yourself still
You know the air will seem colder until you get over this hill'
And for his sake, I hope that she will

He says β€˜You're working harder than I ever have seen
To fix up your act and to clamber right back on the horse that you fell off when you were fourteen
And so I'm here if you need, won't you settle on down?'
And then he hangs up the phone, letting his voice change it's tone, wipes his brow
β€˜She's all good for now'

And though time is your friend, it runs out at the end of the line
You might say that you're fine
But don't you know

Brother, the world is your oyster
So open your window and blink in the light
And turn away from the fight

You see, since he grew stubble he's in a drunk state of mind all the time
Well honey, I met him sober with his hair down to his shoulder
And he couldn't even see through his naked eye
However, wait till you see him with a paper and pen
For his words find a rhythm and he puts a tune with em
And he kind of starts looking like a free man again

And since I am your friend, I refuse to pretend that I don't mind
How could you be so blind?
When you know

Brother, the world is your oyster
So open your window and blink in the light
Brother, if only your choice were
To climb into my skin and see yourself through my eyes
So for now, some advice

You don't know the places you could go
Don't let her love hold you down
You don't know the places you will go
Don't let her love hold you down

Brother, the world is your oyster
So open your window and blink in the light
Brother, if only your choice were
To climb into my skin and see yourself through my eyes




Cos you're wrapped round her finger so incredibly tight
So turn away from the fight.

Overall Meaning

The song "Don't Let Her Love Hold You Down" by Gretta Ray explores the power dynamics and struggles within a romantic relationship. The singer of the song is speaking to a male friend who is wrapped around his girlfriend's finger, urging him to break free from the hold she has on him. The verses shift between the singer's observations of the couple and the advice she gives to the male friend. The chorus emphasizes the message that the world is full of opportunities and that he should not let his girlfriend's love hold him back from experiencing them.


In the first verse, the male friend is trying to diffuse tension between himself and his girlfriend. He attempts to calm her down and tells her to stop cursing. He suggests they both take a deep breath and that things will get better. The singer hopes this works and that their relationship will improve. In the second verse, the male friend appears to be struggling with personal issues. He is trying to fix himself and get back on track, but it seems like his girlfriend is holding him back. The singer offers her support to him and suggests that he take some time to himself. She tells him that time is valuable and that he should not waste it in toxic relationships.


The chorus encourages the male friend to break free from his girlfriend's hold and explore the world. The lyrics use the metaphor of an oyster to symbolize the possibilities that await him. The singer wants him to open his eyes and see the potential that lies ahead. She believes he is being held back by his girlfriend's toxic love and encourages him to turn away from the fight.


Overall, the song "Don't Let Her Love Hold You Down" is about recognizing the power dynamics within a relationship and advocating for personal growth and independence. The singer believes that the male friend is being held back by his girlfriend and encourages him to break free and explore the world.


Line by Line Meaning

He says β€˜Give it a rest, woman and put down your smokes
He is asking her to stop smoking and take a break.


Now, there's no need to curse, don't let anymore words through your throat
He is advising her not to use foul language and prevent herself from speaking further.


Inhale with me, try to keep yourself still
He is encouraging her to breathe in and out calmly and be steady.


You know the air will seem colder until you get over this hill'
He is telling her that things may seem difficult at the moment, but it will get better soon.


And for his sake, I hope that she will
He hopes that she will listen to his advice for his benefit.


He says β€˜You're working harder than I ever have seen
He acknowledges that she is working extremely hard.


To fix up your act and to clamber right back on the horse that you fell off when you were fourteen
He recognizes that she is trying to correct her mistakes from the past.


And so I'm here if you need, won't you settle on down?'
He offers his support and asks her to relax.


And then he hangs up the phone, letting his voice change it's tone, wipes his brow
He ends the conversation and visibly shows relief as he wipes his forehead.


β€˜She's all good for now'
He feels that she is okay for now and doesn't need any more assistance.


And though time is your friend, it runs out at the end of the line
Although time may feel like an ally, it eventually runs out and life moves on.


You might say that you're fine But don't you know
People might pretend to be okay, but they may be unaware of their true feelings.


Brother, the world is your oyster So open your window and blink in the light And turn away from the fight
He encourages the listener to see the world in a positive light, embrace it, and avoid any unnecessary conflicts.


You see, since he grew stubble he's in a drunk state of mind all the time Well honey, I met him sober with his hair down to his shoulder And he couldn't even see through his naked eye
He explains that the man he knew before, who had long hair, was sober and could not see the reality of a situation.


However, wait till you see him with a paper and pen For his words find a rhythm and he puts a tune with em And he kind of starts looking like a free man again
The man found solace in music and writing, which helped him feel liberated and at peace.


And since I am your friend, I refuse to pretend that I don't mind How could you be so blind? When you know
As a friend, the artist cannot pretend that everything is okay and questions why the listener is unaware of a particular issue.


Brother, the world is your oyster So open your window and blink in the light Brother, if only your choice were To climb into my skin and see yourself through my eyes So for now, some advice
The artist reminds the listener that the world is full of opportunities and suggests seeing things from a different perspective before giving advice.


You don't know the places you could go Don't let her love hold you down You don't know the places you will go Don't let her love hold you down
The singer advises the listener not to let someone's love inhibit their potential and to take advantage of possibilities.


Cos you're wrapped round her finger so incredibly tight So turn away from the fight.
The listener is too invested in someone else's love, and the singer suggests moving away from this struggle.




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Comments from YouTube:

Greg

Such a great story teller. You're going to be a massive star once the rest of the world catches up to you!

Tom Hope

Hi Gretta, thank you for this song. I found it at just the right timing for me. It is so great. All power to you.

Tiffsuresque _

Life goals in one video. Absolutely love it!!

Kay Real

what an awesome singer!

Ben Lofthouse

So that gave me goosebumps. So glad u got the Ep

Tim Walton

Missy Higgins all over again. Wat a privilege to stumble upon this awesome chick. She's gonna be huge

Glorious

I have this guitar. I love your style.

Darren Donlen

Wow! Just wow!

Northstar_004

that intro reminds me of Heartbeats :)

Cameron Duffy

This was performed on my birthday :3

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