I'm Not The Only One
Ifidel Williams Lyrics
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For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof is in the way it hurts
For months on end I've had my doubts
Denying every tear
I wish this would be over now
But I know that I still need you here
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You've been so unavailable
Now sadly I know why
Your heart is unobtainable
Even though you don't share mine
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I have loved you for many years
Maybe I am just not enough
You've made…
The lyrics to Ifidel Williams's song "I'm Not The Only One" depict the heart-wrenching betrayal and pain caused by infidelity in a relationship. The first verse establishes the initial commitment between two individuals, with a vow to love each other through thick and thin, and the disillusionment that follows as one partner breaks that promise. The singer admits to having had doubts and even tried to deny the tears that came with that realization. Despite this betrayal, the singer still feels the need for the presence of the one who broke their trust, hinting at the difficulty that comes with letting go of someone you still love.
The chorus reflects the gaslighting and manipulation tactics typically used by cheaters when confronted. They deny their actions and label their victim as "crazy," refusing to take responsibility for the pain they have caused. However, the singer sees right through these tactics and pushes back, knowing that they are not the only ones who have faced this kind of betrayal.
The second verse indicates that the cheating partner has been absent and unresponsive, causing the singer to question why. They find out the reason, the cheating partner's heart is unattainable despite the singer's love. The final line shows the heartbreak of a partner who feels like they are not enough to keep the one they love faithful. Overall, the song's lyrics highlight the intense emotional toll of infidelity and the difficulty of letting go of someone you still love, despite the pain they have caused.
Line by Line Meaning
You and me we made a vow
We promised to stick together through good and bad times.
For better or for worse
No matter what happens.
I can't believe you let me down
I feel betrayed by your actions.
But the proof is in the way it hurts
The pain I'm feeling is proof that you hurt me.
For months on end I've had my doubts
I've been suspicious for a long time.
Denying every tear
Pretending that everything is okay.
I wish this would be over now
I want this pain to end.
But I know that I still need you here
Despite everything, I still love you and want you in my life.
You say I'm crazy
You think I'm overreacting.
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
You believe that I'm unaware of your actions.
But when you call me baby
Your affection confuses me.
I know I'm not the only one
I know that you're not faithful to me.
You've been so unavailable
You've been distant and unresponsive.
Now sadly I know why
I now understand why you've been acting this way.
Your heart is unobtainable
You're emotionally unavailable to me.
Even though you don't share mine
Even though I still love you deeply.
I have loved you for many years
My love for you has been constant over time.
Maybe I am just not enough
Perhaps I'm not what you need or want.
You've made me realize my deepest fear
Your actions have made me confront my biggest fear - losing you.
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