You Don t Know Me
Israel Kamakawiwo'ole Lyrics


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You give your hand to me and you say, "Hello"
And I can hardly speak, my heart is beating so
But you'll never know, the one who loved you so
You don't know me

And you don't know the one who dreams of you at night
And longs to kiss your lips and longs to hold you tight
But I'm just a friend that's all I've ever been
You don't know me

I never knew the art of making love
Though my heart aches with love for you, ooh
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by
A chance, you might love me too, ooh

You give your hand to me then you say, "Goodbye"
I watched you walk away beside the lucky guy
But you'll never ever know, the one who loved you so
You don't know me

I never knew the art of making love
And my heart aches with love for you, ooh
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by
A chance, you might love me too

You give your hand to me and you say, "Goodbye"
I watched you walk away beside the lucky guy




But I'm just a friend, it's all I ever been
You don't know me, you don't know me

Overall Meaning

The song "You Don't Know Me" by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole portrays the lamentations of a person who is in love with someone but cannot express their feelings. The song begins with the singer expressing their nerves and feeling of being tongue-tied in the presence of their love interest. The singer's unrequited love is evident from the line, "the one who loved you so, you don't know me." The singer longs to share their love with the other person but is afraid to do so. Instead, they choose to watch from afar, never being able to express their true feelings.


The second verse further reinforces the singer's longing and desire for their love interest. They imagine them at night, wishing to kiss and hold them tight. However, the singer knows that they are only a friend to the other person, and they have never dared to express their true feelings. They regret not taking a chance on love and were too afraid and shy to do so. The verse, "A chance, you might love me too" denotes that the other person's response is unknown to the singer.


The final verse concludes with the singer watching their love interest walk away with another man. Even then, the singer longs for the other person to understand how much they love them. However, they understand that the other person will never know how deeply they feel. The song's soft melody and Kamakawiwo'ole's smooth vocals evoke a sense of bittersweet and melancholy love.


Line by Line Meaning

You give your hand to me and you say, "Hello"
You greet me tenderly with a warm welcome


And I can hardly speak, my heart is beating so
I am so excited to see you that I struggle to find the words to say


But you'll never know, the one who loved you so
You will never realize the depth of the love that I have for you


You don't know me
You lack insight into my true feelings and emotions


And you don't know the one who dreams of you at night
You are oblivious to the person who fantasizes about you every evening


And longs to kiss your lips and longs to hold you tight
This person yearns to savor the taste of your lips and embrace you tightly


But I'm just a friend that's all I've ever been
Despite my feelings, I have remained only a platonic companion


I never knew the art of making love
I never learned the skills to express my affection physically


Though my heart aches with love for you, ooh
Even though my love for you causes me great pain


Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by
My timidity and apprehension caused me to miss my opportunity


A chance, you might love me too, ooh
A missed opportunity to discover if you reciprocate my feelings


You give your hand to me then you say, "Goodbye"
You make a brief physical connection before departing


I watched you walk away beside the lucky guy
I observed you leave, arm in arm with a fortunate gentleman


But you'll never ever know, the one who loved you so
You will never truly understand how much I loved you


You don't know me
You are not cognizant of my identity, thoughts, or feelings


But I'm just a friend, it's all I ever been
My role in your life as a companion has never exceeded the boundaries of a platonic relationship


You don't know me, you don't know me
You lack knowledge of my personality, thoughts, and innermost feelings




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: TRACY K. BONHAM

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You Don't Know Me
Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

You give your hand to me and you say, "Hello"
And I can hardly speak, my heart is beating so
But you'll never know, the one who loved you so
You don't know me

And you don't know the one who dreams of you at night
And longs to kiss your lips and longs to hold you tight
But I'm just a friend that's all I've ever been
You don't know me

I never knew the art of making love
Though my heart aches with love for you, ooh
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by
A chance, you might love me too, ooh

You give your hand to me then you say, "Goodbye"
I watched you walk away beside the lucky guy
But you'll never ever know, the one who loved you so
You don't know me

I never knew the art of making love
And my heart aches with love for you, ooh
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by
A chance, you might love me too

You give your hand to me and you say, "Goodbye"
I watched you walk away beside the lucky guy
But I'm just a friend, it's all I ever been
You don't know me, you don't know me



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You give your hand to me and you say, "Hello"
And I can hardly speak, my heart is beating so
But you'll never know, the one who loves you so
You don't know me

And you don't know the one who dreams of you at night
And longs to kiss your lips and longs to hold you tight
But I'm just a friend that's all I've ever been
You don't know me

I never knew the art of making love
Though my heart aches with love for you, ooh
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by
A chance, you might love me too, ooh

You give your hand to me then you say, "Goodbye"
I watched you walk away beside the lucky guy
But you'll never know, the one who loves you so
You don't know me

I never knew the art of making love
And my heart aches with love for you, ooh
Afraid and shy, I let my chance go by
A chance, you might love me too

You give your hand to me and you say, "Goodbye"
I watched you walk away beside the lucky guy
But I'm just a friend, it's all I've ever been
You don't know me, you don't know me



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See Canon

You can feel each word he sings. Only a person who has loved could sing such as he.

Will M

Yeah he "loved" alright !! he loved his spam and pineapple !!!

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Stacey M

This is a fantastic version of this song !!!! He will live forever in our hearts. God bless you Iz!!!!!!!!

Gunluvver2

I just recently discovered the beautiful voice of this man. I am 69 years old and in my lifetime I have heard some great music and his is among some of the best. I have several little friends (19 months, 14 months and 4 yo) that visit me at times and I have introduced them to Iz's music. They love it as much as I do. It is so sad that this amazing talent was here such a short time.

Patrick Kapfhammer

+Gunluvver2 : My 3 grandsons all love his music.Whenever we're in the car..it's put on Izzy.

Doce na boca

I think he was doesn´t to live for long time!

Sonya Graske

Gunluvver2 I just turned 53, AND HAVE 3 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN, AND HAVE been blessed by My 1st gammbaby, ava, now 1 1/2 yrs. What a wonderful world we share with and by, for having been given blessings from above; GOD.
and yes, I am a GAMMY. ❤

Sonya Graske

MOST BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING EVER!!!... SO GIFTED... GONE FAR TO SOON 😢 BUT BY HIS MUSIC, SONG, VOICE, HIS LEGACY CONTINUES TO BE EVER PRESENT. I KNOW HE IS RESTING IN HIS HEAVENLY FATHER'S ARMS... GOD TRULY NEEDED HIM, TO GET HIS GOD GIVEN TALENTS TO THE WORLD. I NEVER, TILL JUST NOW, HAD HEARD OF HIM.
I WANT HIS MUSIC, HIS SONG & VOICE , TO HAVE FOR ME, AS I TRAVEL MY PATH OF MY LIFE'S JOURNEY... LOVE TO GOD & ISRAEL ABOVE 😚

Arand C

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Marcia Crosby

I learned about him after he had already left the earth, but what a legacy he left; I felt him still here, and grateful for the many gifts he left us - of love, love of family, community, land - love for our Selves and who were are, what we came to give, just as he did. Good man.

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