Boys Can Never Tell
J Roddy Walston And The Business Lyrics


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If daddy says the mountain's come off you must believe him true.
I will build a science and create a world for you.
I'll protect you from yourself and the tendencies you've shown,
cause the world will see a man like you as weak and under grown.
And I'm gonna love you son, even if you love no one.
This thing you will learn too well.
Boys can never tell.
Boys can never tell.
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail.
Boys can never tell.
You're a lady without warning and I've been loyal mean.
This is not the body you were born in and I can prove it with what I have seen.
So I will raise you tough, build you strong and crown you king.
You will put me in the ground and choose yourself a queen.
And I'm gonna love you son, even if you love no one.
This thing you will learn too well.
Boys can never tell.
Boys can never tell.
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail.
Boys can never tell.
I don't expect you to understand how much it took to care.
I built you out of half my blood and filled your lungs with air.
I only had you to make your mother stay,
but when you came she left all the same.
So I have learned what love is and what it cannot be.
But I will not speak of it, until you will speak of me.
And I'm gonna love you son, even if you love no one.
This thing you will learn too well.
Boys can never tell.
Boys can never tell.




You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail.
Boys can never tell.

Overall Meaning

The song "Boys Can Never Tell" by J Roddy Walston And The Business is a complex exploration of fatherhood, gender, and love. The opening lines, "If daddy says the mountain's come off you must believe him true. I will build a science and create a world for you," suggest a desire to control and shape the son's world, to protect him from harm and from the tendencies he has shown. This theme is reiterated throughout the song, as the father promises to raise the son "tough, build you strong and crown you king" in order for him to be able to "put me in the ground and choose yourself a queen."


However, there is a darker side to this desire for control and protection, as the father suggests that "the world will see a man like you as weak and under grown," implying that the son must conform to strict masculine norms in order to be accepted. This is further reinforced in the chorus, as the father advises the son to "bite your tongue and will your words to fail" and to understand that "Boys can never tell." The use of the word "never" here emphasizes the strictness of these gender norms and the difficulty of breaking free from them.


The most poignant moment of the song comes in the final verse, as the father reveals that he only had the son in order to make the mother stay, but that she left anyway. This implies a deep sense of loss and betrayal, and suggests that the father has a complex relationship with love and with his own identity. The line "But I will not speak of it, until you will speak of me" implies a desire for connection and understanding, but also a fear of vulnerability.


Overall, "Boys Can Never Tell" is a powerful exploration of masculinity, fatherhood, and love. It suggests that the desire to protect and control can come at a steep cost, and that breaking free from gender norms and expressing vulnerability can be a difficult but ultimately rewarding path.


Line by Line Meaning

If daddy says the mountain's come off you must believe him true.
Trust in and believe what your father says, even if it seems impossible.


I will build a science and create a world for you.
I will protect and care for you, providing a safe place for you to grow up in.


I'll protect you from yourself and the tendencies you've shown,
I will shield you from making mistakes or falling into bad habits, based on what I have observed from you.


cause the world will see a man like you as weak and under grown.
Society may view you as inferior or weak because of your gender, and I will help you navigate and overcome this.


And I'm gonna love you son, even if you love no one.
I will always love and support you, regardless of your romantic interests or relationships.


Boys can never tell.
Boys are not encouraged to express emotions or be vulnerable, and it may be difficult to share personal feelings.


You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail.
It is better to remain silent and hold your emotions inside, than to risk being seen as weak by expressing them.


You're a lady without warning and I've been loyal mean.
You display feminine characteristics that society may not understand, and I may have been too harsh or unsupportive in the past.


This is not the body you were born in and I can prove it with what I have seen.
You may not identify with the gender you were assigned at birth, and I have noticed signs that support this.


So I will raise you tough, build you strong and crown you king.
I will help you develop resilience and strength, and encourage you to embrace and assert your power and authority.


You will put me in the ground and choose yourself a queen.
You will outlive me and become your own person, making your own choices and forming your own relationships.


I don't expect you to understand how much it took to care.
I have made sacrifices and put in a lot of effort to take care of you, and I do not expect you to fully grasp this until later.


I built you out of half my blood and filled your lungs with air.
I contributed to your creation and sustenance, and feel a deep responsibility and connection to you.


I only had you to make your mother stay,
I may have had ulterior motives or unrealistic expectations when having a child with your mother.


but when you came she left all the same.
Despite having a child, your mother still chose to leave and I had to raise you alone.


So I have learned what love is and what it cannot be.
Raising you has taught me valuable lessons about love and its limitations.


But I will not speak of it, until you will speak of me.
I will not bring up my own personal struggles or feelings until you show an interest in discussing them.




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Ariel Brown

[Verse 1]
If daddy says the mountain's come off you must believe him true
I will build a science and create a world for you
I'll protect you from yourself and the tendencies you've shown
The world will see a man like you as weak and undergrown

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell

[Verse 2]
You're a lady without warning
And I've been loyal mean
This is not the body you were born in
I can prove it with what I've seen
So I will raise you tough
Build you strong and crown you king
You will put me in the ground and choose yourself a queen

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell

[Bridge]
I don't expect you to understand how much it took to care
I built you out of half my blood and filled your lungs with air
I only had you to make your mother stay
But when you came she left all the same
So I have learned what love is
And what it cannot be
But I will not speak of it
'Til you will speak of me

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell



Ariel Brown

[Verse 1]
If daddy says the mountain's come off you must believe him true
I will build a science and create a world for you
I'll protect you from yourself and the tendencies you've shown
The world will see a man like you as weak and undergrown

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell

[Verse 2]
You're a lady without warning
And I've been loyal mean
This is not the body you were born in
I can prove it with what I've seen
So I will raise you tough
Build you strong and crown you king
You will put me in the ground and choose yourself a queen

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell

[Bridge]
I don't expect you to understand how much it took to care
I built you out of half my blood and filled your lungs with air
I only had you to make your mother stay
But when you came she left all the same
So I have learned what love is
And what it cannot be
But I will not speak of it
'Til you will speak of me

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell



All comments from YouTube:

Jessica Brown

I used to play this song for my son when he would wake up crying at night and it always calmed him down and back to sleep.

Funk Bros

Good mama

anthelchrisant

what a beautiful song.....great job guys!

Chad McNamara

Thanks for the great music!!  Keep up the good work, get your touring wheels headed towards the midwest, we are anxiously awaiting!! 

Ariel Brown

[Verse 1]
If daddy says the mountain's come off you must believe him true
I will build a science and create a world for you
I'll protect you from yourself and the tendencies you've shown
The world will see a man like you as weak and undergrown

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell

[Verse 2]
You're a lady without warning
And I've been loyal mean
This is not the body you were born in
I can prove it with what I've seen
So I will raise you tough
Build you strong and crown you king
You will put me in the ground and choose yourself a queen

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell

[Bridge]
I don't expect you to understand how much it took to care
I built you out of half my blood and filled your lungs with air
I only had you to make your mother stay
But when you came she left all the same
So I have learned what love is
And what it cannot be
But I will not speak of it
'Til you will speak of me

[Chorus]
And I'm gonna love you son
Even if you love no one
This thing you will learn too well
Boys can never tell
Boys can never tell
You should bite your tongue and will your words to fail
Boys can never tell

Patrick Zdanek

I'll say what the Greeks say..." The strong do what they can, the weak suffer what they must" -Kingdom

Aadil Rahman

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

Scotty K

💪💪💪

TheOutlaw

Take a bow 🙇‍♂️

Bang Nguyen

came here from the fight scene of jay and ryan, the music fit so well I just cant stop rewatching the scene and listening to this song

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