So What
Jigmastas Feat. Shadowman Akil Truth E.N.O.LA & Jet Black Ha Lyrics

Everybody plays the fool
Everyone has made mistakes and been foolish at some point

There's no point in wondering why people do what they do
No need to question other people's actions, just focus on your own truth

It's alright to be confused
It's okay to feel uncertain or lost

But don't lose sight of the truth
Stay grounded in what you know to be true

Girl, it's him, it's not you
His actions are his own responsibility, not yours

So what if he don't call when he's supposed to
His lack of communication does not define your worth or value

So what if he don't care
His apathy does not diminish your worth or value

So what if when you cry he don't hold you
His lack of comfort does not detract from your resilience or strength

You don't need him to be there
You are capable of taking care of yourself

So what if when you're mad he says you're crazy
His attempts to dismiss your valid emotions are his own issue

You just make him insecure
Your strength and independence threaten his own insecurities

No, you didn't lose the girl you used to be
Your experiences have shaped you, but you are still fundamentally the same person

You just let yourself get a little hurt
Your pain is valid, but it does not define you or diminish your strength

But so what
In the grand scheme of things, these moments of hurt are insignificant

It happens to the best of us
Everyone goes through moments of hardship and pain

And you don't have to be ashamed
You are not at fault for someone else's actions

For giving everything you got when they don't know what they have
You are not to blame for loving someone who does not appreciate you

Sometimes jumping ain't so safe
Taking risks can be scary and uncertain

But when the parachute don't open, girl, don't feel so bad
Even when things don't work out, it's important to keep perspective and not let it define you