Can't Handle the Truth
JoJo Lyrics
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You knew something was scandalous
You told me you could handle it
But if I told you everything you wouldn't believe me
It’s someone that you met before
You even shook his hand at the door
It was last 4th of July when we got into that big fight
You seemed more concerned with the girls by the pool
You left me vulnerable; so irresponsible
Why are you confused?
[Bridge:]
If you could handle the truth I'd never lie to you
If you did what you’re supposed to do I’d still be with you
You’re so busy loving yourself there’s no room for anyone else (but the
Truth is)
If you could handle the truth I’d never
[Chorus:]
I would never lie never lie never lie
But you don’t even try even try even try
I hate lying to you but you can’t handle the truth
I would never lie never lie never lie
But you don’t even try even try even try
I hate lying to you but you can’t handle the truth
[Verse 2:]
I’m so fucking mad at you
Look at what you made me do
You turned a good girl so bad and it’s all your fault
But you couldn't give a little love
Your affection would have been enough
But now I’m the one up in the club and I’m leaving my phone off
Which brings me back to that day by the pool
He invited me out something you used to do
Wanted to tell you but deep down I knew
Your ego’s so big that it might leave you bruised
[Bridge:]
If you could handle the truth I'd never lie to you
If you did what you’re supposed to do I’d still be with you
You’re so busy loving yourself there’s no room for anyone else (I just
Don't belong here)
[Chorus:]
In the song “Can’t Handle the Truth” by JoJo, the artist expresses her frustration with her partner who is unable to handle the truth. The lyrics suggest that the singer has something scandalous to tell her partner, but she holds it back because she knows he wouldn't believe her. She reveals that her partner was more interested in other girls during a fight they had on the last 4th of July. Meanwhile, another man held a conversation with her, something her partner never did. This left her vulnerable and angry with her partner's irresponsibility. She thinks her partner's big ego could harm their relationship, and if he could handle the truth, she wouldn't have to lie to him.
The second verse of the song conveys the artist's anger and hurt towards her partner. She blames him for turning a good girl bad and failing to give her the love and affection she deserves. Despite her efforts, she couldn't make him understand. The artist confesses that someone invited her to the club, and she wanted to tell her partner but decided not to because of his ego. His selfishness makes her feel like she doesn't belong with him.
Line by Line Meaning
You knew something was scandalous
You had a sense that there was something suspicious going on
You told me you could handle it
You claimed that you were capable of dealing with it
But if I told you everything you wouldn't believe me
However, if I reveal everything, you won't be able to trust or believe me
It’s someone that you met before
The person involved is someone you have met before
You even shook his hand at the door
In fact, you have greeted him before and even exchanged handshakes
It was last 4th of July when we got into that big fight
The incident in question occurred on Independence Day when we had a major argument
You seemed more concerned with the girls by the pool
At that time, you were more interested in the girls by the pool than paying attention to me
He held my conversation, something you don’t do
The person in question listened to me and held a conversation, which you have never done before
You left me vulnerable; so irresponsible
You behaved irresponsibly and left me exposed to the situation
Why are you confused?
I am wondering why you are feeling bewildered
If you could handle the truth I'd never lie to you
If you were able to cope with the truth, I would have never lied to you
If you did what you’re supposed to do I’d still be with you
If you had fulfilled your obligations, we would still be together
You’re so busy loving yourself there’s no room for anyone else (but the Truth is)
You are too engrossed in your self-love that you don't have any space for others, but the fact is
I would never lie never lie never lie
I would never ever fib, never repeat such a thing, absolutely never
But you don’t even try even try even try
but unfortunately, you don't make an effort to even try
I hate lying to you but you can’t handle the truth
I despise deceiving you, but you are incapable of facing the reality
I’m so fucking mad at you
I am extremely angry with you
Look at what you made me do
See what you have caused me to do
You turned a good girl so bad and it’s all your fault
You have transformed a decent girl into a bad one, and it's entirely your responsibility
But you couldn't give a little love
Yet you were unable to show a little affection to me
Your affection would have been enough
If you had shown a little love, that would have sufficed
But now I’m the one up in the club and I’m leaving my phone off
Nonetheless, now I'm partying hard, not answering my phone, living my life freely
Which brings me back to that day by the pool
Which reminds me of that day by the pool
He invited me out something you used to do
He invited me out; something you used to do
Wanted to tell you but deep down I knew
I wanted to tell you, but I knew deep down it would only cause problems
Your ego’s so big that it might leave you bruised
Your ego is too big, that it may result in you getting hurt
I just don't belong here
I don't feel like I belong here anymore
Contributed by Madison H. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
Jason Smalls
[Verse 1]
You knew something was scandalous
You told me you could handle it
If I told you everything
You wouldn’t believe me
It’s someone that you met before
You shook his hand at the door
It was last 4th of July when we got into that big fight
You seemed more concerned with the girls by the pool
He held my conversation, something you don’t do
You left me vulnerable; so irresponsible
Why are you confused?
[Chorus]
If you could handle the truth I'd never lie to you
If you did what you’re supposed to do I’d still be with you
You’re so busy loving yourself
There’s no room for anyone else
(But the truth is)
If you could handle the truth I’d never
I would never lie never lie never lie
But you don’t even try even try even try
I hate lying to you but you can’t handle the truth
I would never lie never lie never lie
But you don’t even try even try even try
I hate lying to you but you can’t handle the truth
[Verse 2]
I’m so f**** mad at you
Look at what you made me do
You turned a good girl so bad and it’s all your fault
But you couldn’t give a little love
Your affection would have been enough
But now I’m the one up in the club and I’m leaving my phone off
Which brings me back to that day by the pool
He invited me out something you used to do
Wanted to tell you but deep down I knew
Your ego’s so big that it might leave you bruised
[Chorus]
If you could handle the truth Id never lie to you
If you did what you’re supposed to do I’d still be with you
You’re so busy loving yourself there’s no room for anyone else (but the truth is)
If you could handle the truth I’d never
I would never lie never lie never lie
But you don’t even try even try even try
I hate lying to you but you can’t handle the truth
I would never lie never lie never lie
But you don’t even try even try even try
I hate lying to you but you can’t handle the truth
Ray McDavid
Man this song could come out now n still kill the charts easily No.1
Dillon Eason
I forgot how much this song SMACKED! Mind-blowing production by Boi-1da. I’m so glad they collaborated.
This is one of those songs I love coming back to. ❤️🎼🎼
KeenoGotBandz
People are really missing out man. I had somebody tell me I'm gay because I'm a black male and was listening to this. Lmao this is exactly why she's so under appreciated.
Isa the Rebel
Never experienced anything like that from people who knew my tastes as far as female artists but I bet that's what a simp would say, hiding their own insecurities because they know deep down whatever they into it ain't satisfying or good enough, Jojo always felt really tomboy and urban, I don't know how dudes wouldn't be listening or falling for that
For me hip-hop and R&B are my favourite music genres and they basically the male-female equivalents for me, Jojo was always my favourite artist on the R&B side and Eminem is my favourite rapper from the hip-hop side
Bored Nerd
WTF 😂😂 Do people understand what "gay" even means anymore?
Daniel Almir
I bet those ppl just listen to mainstream songs
Daniel Almir
Nothing to do! You're just a person with feelins and with a GOOD taste! And if you were gay, you would still being a human being with a GOOD taste on music
Jay Wade
Duane Watson lol huh? If you were gay, would that take away anything from this song? Lol this song deserves its credit!
klairebear1986
Oh man I haven't heard this mixtape in so long I forgot how good it is.... "You're so busy loving yourself there's no room for anyone else" daaaaaamn!!
Charles Hines
This song is so honest it hurts!!! Only Jojo brings you raw music like this!!